My 14 year old son shot himself in the head

on July 31, of last year.  I have such an urgent need to hear or feel from him.  I miss him so much and am glad to have found a place where others are going through the same mourning and loss.  I take it that it never gets better.  I just wanted to say hello, I am feeling hollow inside and can't write at this moment but wanted to say hello.

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Permalink Reply by Jodi Denton on August 29, 2010 at 4:25am
You are feeling and thinking the exact things that I am. You are doing the exact things that I am doing.. I am having a "Birthday party" for my son on September 12th.. his birthday, too.
I can help you feel better if you will listen to me.. I am doing it and it is working.It is true that everyones grief is different and it is true that we all have to go through it in our own time and in our own way... but your brain is searching for something to make it feel better, thats where are the crazy thoughts and behaviors come from... you arent going crazy, your emotions are, once you accept that you can find the rest of the answers on your own and I can tell you how if you will let me... you dont need to live like this... there is a solution to your pain and it has nothing to do with forgetting your son or god or what anyone else thinks or feels.. all it has to do with is you.
Permalink Reply by Karen R. on August 29, 2010 at 11:46am
Jodi, I dont know if you saw my message, I wanted to know if your email address is case sensitive because you typed it in all caps.

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