The photo is me and my exgirlfriend. I am tall , average build, look like Robert from Everybody loves Raymond and others say I look like the actor Vincent Donofrio from law order tv show. I am good, gentle, strong, masculine yet sincere and loving. I am a believer in God. I am a ROMAN CATHOLIC CHARISMATIC . I love nature, museums, travel, shows and movies and visiting new places.
About my Loss:
My mom, dad, aunt and my grandmother all within a year and 1/2. I have been dealing with it for a number of years . I t is a hard journey that i have been on. I know God is with me. I would like to meet others and reach out to everyone and share my experiences and good thoughts to uplift you and help you.
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Things are going better in general, I still have my good and bad days, but they are fewer in between and less emotionally intense. I still miss her, but I am able to see the love she gave to me and those memories are precious. For those, I am truely grateful and grateful that God put her in my life even if it wasn't for as long of a time as I would have hoped for. My biggest struggle right now has a lot of do with my family being divided and things/words that have created a wedge between us. It will take some restructuring and a lot of figuring things out, which is easier said that done when it comes to family relationships. Hope you have a great night as well:)
Thanks for the message:) I appreciate your uplifting words and hope that you continue to heal on this journey in life and embrace the good times you had together. Even though it has been a year and a half, the pain is still there. Although, I am learning how to integrate my mom into my life and realizing how many attributes are still living on through me. Hope God continues to bless you and you are able to continue to see the light in the mist of the storm. Even when we collapse, He is there to wrap His arms around us. We have an amazing God indeed.
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