I am so sorry. My dad died of lung cancer. My father in law died OD Alzheimer's.
It is all just wrong. Death is such an enemy.
Here is a link to an article about grieving. It also has links within it that discuss the subject of death,…"
I am so sad for your heart being so broken. I know exactly what you are feeling. Take one hour at a time. Cry....let your feelings flow. We grieve as we love - deeply. How blessed you are to have a father who loves you and whom you love so…"
"I can't believe I have found myself here. My dad died Feb. 5th of lung cancer. Before 9 months ago, he was the healthiest 73 year old I have ever known. It is very hard to believe and accept that he is gone, as for the last 9 months it has been…"
This is for anyone who has lost somone to cancer. I lost my adopted Mom to breast cancer some years ago. She was everything I could have asked for. She loved me because I was just me. She also loved my family and children as if they were her own.See More
I am so sad for your heart being so broken. I know exactly what you are feeling. Take one hour at a time. Cry....let your feelings flow. We grieve as we love - deeply. How blessed you are to have a father who loves you and whom you love so much! Note I use present tense. He is still your dad. You are still his daughter. He is just in another place. Another part of his journey. Life does not just stop when we leave these bodies. Imagine where he is and perhaps that will help you process your missing his physical self. My mother has come and visted me and it was amazing!
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"me 2 im so sic of all multi loss iv had lst 1 wz 2wks ago so its 1 step forwed thn 100 steps bk it is
u r not a cowed or wicked u r not iv bean caled ths as well im bk 2 putng shuters dn not letng on 1 in
coz im scred of lozing mre loved 1s i…"
"Hi Wander. My heart really goes out to you because I can so relate to your pain. I hear what you say about not wanting to live on without him. The loneliness and loss is unbearable - how to function when you are emotionally…"
"Oh, Zell, I would give *anything* for that experience! If I felt hope anymore, it would give me some. I woke up crying today and have barely stopped since. It's just as bluebird said: " I died when my husband died, it's just…"
"I am sorry for your loss as well. it is nothing I would wish for any one. I would have done anything for my boy, Rory. It is overwhelming. in the back of my mind I always was aware that any of us could lose someone we love, but when it actually…"
"the word "void" aptly describes what I feel right now. a loss so deep it is as if someone has burned a hole into my very being., and put a hot poker into my heart. I am sorry we both have to go through this grief. it is nothing I would…"
"Ivis, I am so sorry for your loss. I am sorry to have to welcome you to this site. I lost my 17 year old son suddenly in a car accident caused by another.
It's been 19 months for me but seems like yesterday. I too keep saying "Please, you…"
"That's how I feel too Linda. Sometimes I just can't let that thought in. It is just too hard to accept. It makes my heart flutter just to imagine hearing my Daniel's sweet voice and get that hug. Oh how can they be gone? Sometimes I…"
"It's been about a year and a half since my Mom passed. Not sure where the time went; it's just scary. While the open wound of loss has subsided some, it doesn't go away completely. I still miss my Mom every day. It…"
"every day I miss my daughter so so much, but today is one of those days where I simply can't wrap my mind around the fact that I'll never see her again while I still live. that i'll never hear her voice again, that we'll never…"
"Good morning Wander...well its morning here anyway. I just wanted to share with you that not long after I replied to your post I was talking to my love and crying and apologizing for not being able to be happy without him and carrying on like…"
"I understand. I feel the same way. I am very surprised and very disappointed that I didn't die of Broken Heart Syndrome as soon as I knew my husband died, or shortly thereafter.
I don't think we are "terrible" or…"
"My son Jesse has been gone for a little over 21 months...Every day I wake up I am still in this living death...I have watched others as they have moved on but I am still stuck in the nightmare of a day of his death....his last moments torment me, I…"
"I am sorry for your lost, I keep negotiating with some invisible power to trade places with my son, I torture myself every night till I finally give in, I know all his pictures to the last detail, I know pain, it's not the same as yours but…"