I am so sorry. My dad died of lung cancer. My father in law died OD Alzheimer's.
It is all just wrong. Death is such an enemy.
Here is a link to an article about grieving. It also has links within it that discuss the subject of death,…"
I am so sad for your heart being so broken. I know exactly what you are feeling. Take one hour at a time. Cry....let your feelings flow. We grieve as we love - deeply. How blessed you are to have a father who loves you and whom you love so…"
"I can't believe I have found myself here. My dad died Feb. 5th of lung cancer. Before 9 months ago, he was the healthiest 73 year old I have ever known. It is very hard to believe and accept that he is gone, as for the last 9 months it has been…"
This is for anyone who has lost somone to cancer. I lost my adopted Mom to breast cancer some years ago. She was everything I could have asked for. She loved me because I was just me. She also loved my family and children as if they were her own.See More
I am so sad for your heart being so broken. I know exactly what you are feeling. Take one hour at a time. Cry....let your feelings flow. We grieve as we love - deeply. How blessed you are to have a father who loves you and whom you love so much! Note I use present tense. He is still your dad. You are still his daughter. He is just in another place. Another part of his journey. Life does not just stop when we leave these bodies. Imagine where he is and perhaps that will help you process your missing his physical self. My mother has come and visted me and it was amazing!
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"Thanks bluebird. I have returned to the numb/shock phase. I do not believe that I am actually confronting my grief as I do not presently live in the home we shared but it would be so difficult to survive there just me and my toddler. I'm so…"
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"Been suggested I might benefit seeing a counsellor again someone who doesn't know me or my husband and has not suffered the loss we all have, it is a comfort to come on this site and talk to all of you who are…"
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I feel much the same as you do.
I would like to ask you a question about your dream; if it is too painful to answer, please feel free to ignore my question. But I am wondering if your feeling in the dream was that your partner was saying the…"
"Many people here, including me, understand. My husband and I never had children (another sadness in my life), but he also died very suddenly, and while my family (parents, sister, brother-in-law) are wonderful and love me (and I them) very…"
"It is ridiculous when people say shit like that (that your dead loved one "would want" you to be happy, etc.). YOU know what he would or does want better than anyone else, just as I know what my husband would or does want better…"
"its finly hitin hom sue i wish i cud go 2 2011 wear my lig wz ok my dad wz aliv i flt saf i did
nw im nervs wec u cud say very nervs wec cnt stp shakin on/off
i feal lk kid its cryin in seasid or parkc i cnt fnd my daddy its wot i feal lk lk…"
Like everyone on this site, I have been going through hell since my wife passed away, April 29th, 2015. The past few weeks it has gotten worse until last night. It was the middle of the night and, as usual, I was making numerous trips to the bathroom. Then for what amounts to 2 or 3 seconds, I saw directly ahead of me, standing at the bedroom door a vision. She was vivid to my eye and stood stock still. She appeared to be wearing the same type of hospital gown that she passed in. She said…See More
It's been about 15 months since my mom died after battling colon cancer that metastasized and spread quickly.Mom's courage and faith were extraordinary. She seemed to provide us with some final lessons about life and people in the final months of her life.I miss her so much - her optimism, love of family and her persevering spirit.Since her death, my family and I have to deal with some difficult things with my stepfather. He remarried within 8 months of her death and tried to manipulate us into…See More