the loss of my child.  my 24 year old daughter.  she left me in her sleep.  they say it was natural cause.  but at 24 how can death be natural.  i think of the whaling mothers i have seen on tv.  and when i am in my home i whale like there is no tomorrow.  i see no end to my  missing her with my whole body and soul.  being her mama is all i know.  i miss talking with her.  i always told her she was an angel from above.  she truly was to everything and everybody.  i miss her so 

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Teri... it is a long road you have embarked on... there are a group of us "Whaling (Whailing) Mothers here...

and we all know your pain....  PEACE

Teri Marie, I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. It must be so hard not really knowing the cause of her death. I lost my son Zach, September 3, 2011, he was with friend hiking and fell from a waterfall. He was only 23. I know how you feel, I don't think I will ever be the same person again. I am really trying, I have three daughters and two granddaughters, and know that I am truly blessed to have them but no one will ever replace my son. This thing called grief is a roller coaster of emotions, one day I might feel like I am doing okay and then bam I am hit with overwhelming grief. Feeling like someone has punched me in the chest and sucked out all the air in me. I have had some good days spent with my daughters and grand daugthers, even have laughed, and then I will feel guilty. Don't know if you have experienced the same thing or not. Just wanted you to know I feel your pain, and am listening. Big hugs. Robin

i wish she were here with me now. just one more hug, one more butterfly kiss...thank you for your hugs robin...

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