Stanley, you've been through so much. Seeing your loved one die, and almost dying yourself. I spoke to a grief counselor that specializes in PTSD, and he said that families facing sudden death is very similar to PTSD. Our minds are racing and we feel anxious because we can't comprehend what had just happened. I'm so glad that the pain of your trauma is easing a little. I pray that mine will too.
JO.Sorry to hear about your shoulder and leg plus the weather does not help , Christmas will be here again and we are all memories and it is hard for all of us.This will be my second Christmas without ralph and I still cry.This house is full of his memories,I try to be strong but it is not so easy.I pray a lot and do not forget the candle Christmas Day..I always remember you in my prayers.God protect you and watch over you.Do not drink too much Ok.STAN
snap stan my sholderr is killng me evn my leg i hrt ths yrts mkng me wrk funny well lmpng a bit mre pain relif hlps for a bit thn it stoppps it doze thn ths pain cms bk
now nxt holiday is xmas stan wish im not lkng fored 2 im not i usd 2 luv it wn my dad wz hear coz his bday wz 26th dec so we wud hav 2 selbratsons we did so we wud spnd 2 days drinking eatng 2 mush th on 27th dec we wud hav hangovrs or fealng a bit li heded
thnxs stan i no sholdr pain u no wn i fell begin of yr wear i hrt my leg sholder if i had not fell i wud not hav set it off wors thn ever evn dr saed its easy 2 fall 2 do damg 2 us
You will cry for a while. I was a real mess for a week. Then a zombie for a while. There are still bits of crying here and there. For today just let it out.
its ok to cry stanely i cry for my dad evry day i no serton 1s in the family tell me to get over it i even got told i shud of got over it the day he died i got told its easy i no its not easy i got told wen people die i shud forget abot thm but i cant coz thy r part of my life story to day i upset coz wear my dads ashs is burid som horbl person has pichet the flowers i put on
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thnx stan got a lot goin on coz of moms alz/dem iv arht witrs in my joms its why its hrfr 2 typ coz sum tim s i cnt feal jepypad i cnt
ho u r ok
im plesd diana let us join in 2012 i wud of bean wrse wors wt ort her stan we all wud of bean wra wrse wh ort her we all wud of
hi stan bean 2 dentist 2 day dont hav 2 go bk till 6th mnths im lisnon 2 80s music on absulte radio
hear is sm pics for u
hp u lk thm
stan ths pain is bad 2 day all coz of a sily falll i had ths yr i no iv bean tld by 2 drs wish i trusttt falllls can do damge 2 us thy can
dnt hlp wi grief pain as well on topp
JO.Sorry to hear about your shoulder and leg plus the weather does not help , Christmas will be here again and we are all memories and it is hard for all of us.This will be my second Christmas without ralph and I still cry.This house is full of his memories,I try to be strong but it is not so easy.I pray a lot and do not forget the candle Christmas Day..I always remember you in my prayers.God protect you and watch over you.Do not drink too much Ok.STAN
snap stan my sholderr is killng me evn my leg i hrt ths yrts mkng me wrk funny well lmpng a bit mre pain relif hlps for a bit thn it stoppps it doze thn ths pain cms bk
now nxt holiday is xmas stan wish im not lkng fored 2 im not i usd 2 luv it wn my dad wz hear coz his bday wz 26th dec so we wud hav 2 selbratsons we did so we wud spnd 2 days drinking eatng 2 mush th on 27th dec we wud hav hangovrs or fealng a bit li heded
thnxs stan i no sholdr pain u no wn i fell begin of yr wear i hrt my leg sholder if i had not fell i wud not hav set it off wors thn ever evn dr saed its easy 2 fall 2 do damg 2 us
jst 1 of thm thngs
jo
thnx stan
Stanley =sending prayers your way....it has been two years & I still cry everyday. You won't ever forget.
For me, I have come to accept that I will always have a sorrow in my heart, and just started working on the suffering in my mind.
Sorry for your loss Stanley.
You will cry for a while. I was a real mess for a week. Then a zombie for a while. There are still bits of crying here and there. For today just let it out.
its ok to cry stanely i cry for my dad evry day i no serton 1s in the family tell me to get over it i even got told i shud of got over it the day he died i got told its easy i no its not easy i got told wen people die i shud forget abot thm but i cant coz thy r part of my life story to day i upset coz wear my dads ashs is burid som horbl person has pichet the flowers i put on
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