I saw a post somewhere where the surviving spouse got rid of all departed belongings or at least stored it. I more or less incline to do that but at the samed time continue the legacy of the departed.Of course who the hell would remember me. Yes I want to change things at home. I have 35 yrs of memories  Stuff to sort thru stuff to put in a scape book.Stuff to throw away.I get ideas as I go along.

Its a burden,Our life was a burden in the later years

 

 

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Comment by David H on June 17, 2012 at 5:58pm

thanks irwin and julie for your comments it helps tgo know there is support out there

Comment by irwin Dresner on June 16, 2012 at 12:07pm

I to have a lot of my wifes clothes and other things.  she died almost 3 years ago.   i been by myself since.  my children hardly call me even though i leave messages.  they live in other states.  combat was easier then what I am going thru right now.   my grief and depression is the most severe in my life.  i truly see no happiness left in my life.  I have gone for help several times but nothing had helped.   I try to keep busy writing poems and the second part of my book.   At the moment its 1 pm and I have not gotten out of the house because of how I feel.   everything just looks dark.  Have a great weekend and fathers day.    irwin   

Comment by Julie Ann Finch on June 15, 2012 at 4:15pm

its unreal how fast stuff accumulates when your just living your life together.  i look at all of jason's stuff with good memories and yet at the same time overwhelmed. i guess just take your time and do a little when you can and/or maybe ask for help from someone close. wishing you well. 

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