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I am lost.
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I lost my wife after 17 years. She was the best half of us. I was lost until she found me.
She made me a whole person.

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Green Beans make me cry.

I lost my wife 18 months ago.



I cried at all the normal times. But it is food that really gets me. The first time I really got it bad was at an Asian restaurant. One we had been to often. When I started eating the green beans. I remembered the last time all the girls ate with there mother. I asked where would you like to eat and she said. I don't care as long as they have green beans. My wife was like that. She would always say you choose or pick one item she would… Continue

Posted on October 25, 2012 at 6:16pm — 4 Comments

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At 8:19pm on December 30, 2012, Stanley Ruiz said…

IT IS NOT SO EASY BUT I  TRY TO GET STRONGER              

At 10:31pm on May 24, 2012, Kate Russell said…

Thank you for the kind words.  I can go about 8 hours now at work without totally breaking down.  I miss him so much.  He was my rock and caretaker.

 
 
 

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