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"Loves Knows No Death" - This Could Help You!
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First, I don't mean to offend anyone.  If you don't agree with my viewpoint, please ignore this post.  I am really only trying to help.As I have mentioned before, I am a total hardcore skeptic of…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Jean Oct 1, 2016.

I Feel Bad About My Thinking This Way
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Three weeks ago I lost the love of my life to breast cancer.  I did everything I could for her.  My story appears here, if you're interested.  …Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Amy Dec 21, 2017.

Things That We Learn
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I never knew how hard it was to lose someone until I experienced a loss firsthand.People will say these things - drives me crazy.  I know they mean well, but...1. She's in a better place.2. God had…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Jeff C May 6, 2017.

Just Lost My Girlfriend to Breast Cancer Last Week
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PART 1I knew it was coming, but I am broken.    If you're interested, I have chronicled our experiences here:  …Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Jeff C Jul 20, 2016.

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Jeff C replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"You're welcome, Bluebird.  Thanks for asking.  Just dealing with this awful reality 6 years later.  I'm over the shock and and am just dealing with the way it is.  How are you, otherwise?"
Jul 3
Jeff C replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"I'm sorry to hear that, but I get it.  You are so right about what's happening to this country."
Jul 3
Jeff C replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"Bluebird, you put it so well.  I have a pretty good idea what you mean.  "
Oct 19, 2021
Jeff C replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"So sad and so understandable.  I like what you said about how any sense of coziness is gone.  That says so much."
Oct 17, 2021
Jeff C replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"Sorry to hear that, Bluebird.  Nine years.  Nothing I can see will help in the slightest, but I understand you."
May 31, 2021
Jeff C replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"I understand what you mean.  I really like what you said toward the end.  If we could just be assured beyond a doubt that life continues, that you will be with your husband and I with my girlfriend, that wouldn't be enough, but it…"
Aug 11, 2020
Jeff C replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"Bluebird, I am glad that you took that the right way.  I had a feeling you would know what I meant.  And your description is correct:  I have a general idea of how you feel but it's impossible for me or anyone else to know…"
Aug 7, 2020
Jeff C replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"You're welcome, Bluebird.  I didn't agree with everything she said.  The key for me was the "moving forward with" part.  The "move on" expression is very grating to me.  When I am in a nice place I…"
Aug 6, 2020
Jeff C replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"That's a good way to put it.  Your second paragraph doesn't sound insane at all.  I know what you mean.  I feel the same, and we're luck to have even that. In the video I thought the laughter was out of place - at least…"
Aug 6, 2020
Jeff C replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"I understand where you are coming from.  "I sometimes wonder the percentage of people who react long-term to a spouse/partner's death in the way I do, and the percentage who instead want to live and "move on" with their…"
Aug 6, 2020
Jeff C replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"Bluebird, I agree with this this: "It makes no sense to me, and what makes even less sense is that so often good people die young(ish) and bad people often get to live out their lives."  I wish I knew why that happens.  It's…"
Apr 17, 2020
Jeff C replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"Morgan, Over the years I have thought that Bluebird gets it much more than almost everyone who has written about this - at least from my point of view. At the root of this, I think, it's the absence of their presence that hurts so much.  I…"
Feb 20, 2020
Jeff C replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"Sorry to see your stories here...  There is nothing worse.   I will be at 4 years in June.  After a while at least for me, the acute pain just became dull pain.  I have heard that grief is love turned inside out.  No…"
Feb 18, 2020

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Breast cancer just took the love of my life last week.

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At 11:28pm on November 19, 2016, Patricia HELEN said…

Jeff thank you for recommending the book 'The light Between Us'. I believe that the strongest thing we have left now is that loving and being loved will pervade for all time both in this life and the next. I haven't felt any concrete signs in the sense of a butterfly or a humming bird such as others have felt but there is great comfort in feeling loved and that this goes beyond this world... I hope you are finding some comfort also in this book and in the knowledge  that you will be loved forever by your loved one who passed in June. helen 

At 11:34am on October 3, 2016, Ruthie said…

Jeff, I wanted to personally thank you for telling the group about the book the light between us.  It has given me so much comfort and hope and I am not even to the middle yet.  I had a tree frog on my window about every night this summer catching bugs and watching me--upstairs window--and then one night I went to the bathroom and there he was jumping down the hallway--and so many pennies I find right after something big happens.  So Crazy good:)

 
 
 

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I'd like to start a group, it would be called: Losing Our Soulmates Trough Tragedy, and it would be for those of us who were capable of meeting our soulmates, and who have lost those sacred loved ones through tragedy (i.e. I actually lost my soulmate in a senseless car accident caused when the lady driving our vehicle chose to text her daughter, and she lost control of the Acura, which rolled off the highway.)See More
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