"My condolences to you as well.
I remember that I have tried to reach out to him in lucid dreams, but I always woke before I succeeded.
I wish you the best of luck should you try."
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"I am not Jeff, but I think I can answer as well, since yes: Those were things I experienced.
I have cried so hard that I got sick and would almost vomit. I have thought of many things that would be so nice if they claimed my life at that moment.
I…"
"A few days ago, I've completed my sixth year without him. (November 5th)
I often wonder what he'd think of the world today, or whether he left, because a part of him knew what was to come."
"I understand very much. If it gets better at all, then you're probably looking at at least half a year.
It changes you. More than anything could have ever done, I think.
I can understand the diversion. I've also used my job to get my mind…"
"Thank you for thinking about us.
I am pretty much okay at the moment, so there is no need to worry about me.
How are you doing, though?"
"I am not sure, who you addressed in your post - the reply-limit is not really helping - but I wanted to weigh in on it anyways.
I have listened to many talks, and many accounts of NDEs. It is a bit sad that those are the only ways we get to know of…"
"Only that continuing to be happy is ... a chore for some. I may be looking for twenty-five more years in this existence, unless something ... big ... happens.
I don't know what the future holds, but if it happens, then with me still carrying…"
"I get it. Anything that reminds you of the love you shared, of how he adored you, hurts. And that includes comments that are meant to help you.
"He would want you to be happy!" - (I know, why do you think it hurts so much!?)
Thank you for…"
"I concur with Bluebird. If the picture hurts too much seeing it all the time, replace it with something else. A puppy, a flower, something you're okay with looking at for the time being.
But do not delete that picture.
Otherwise, if you need…"
"Enough time has passed that I am somewhat comfortable with relaying that dream. It is still vivid in my mind.
Usually when dreaming I have no trouble breathing, even if I am underwater within the dream, but that dream was very different.
It was like…"
"None of us is pushing you to get to a point in a year or later. I do not know about the others but I think we were all at the point where we didn't want to go on without our loves.
I remember that Bluebird stated that very effectively.
Now ...,…"
"First of all, I am sorry for your loss.
Bluebird was the one that attracted me to this site as well, and I am watching this thread ever since I lost my boyfriend.
We knew each other for three years only, so I might not be a good reference point, and…"
"I guess I can emphasize with the things you loved to do dying with the one you loved - as if that feeling has been pulled along, stretched thin to behind the veil. You don't have the energy to pursue them anymore, and just having something that…"
""Moving forward with him", that is also what I feel. I am not in for another relationship, I am just living my life ... I still get sad thinking about the "loss" ... and even though many people laughed in the TED-Talk ... I felt…"
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LESBIAN ..GAY 2 SPIRITED loss and grief
Anyone who has lost their gay partner..soon finds that there may be a few things that are different...such as sorting through things and feeling like an intruder because it is also family stuff etcSee More
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An assumption is an unexamined belief: what is thought to be true without ever really realizing that we think in that way. For better or worse, understanding starts with entertaining the idea that something is true. Truly profound thoughts generally come to light from the relaxation of these (flawed) assumptions. This is where I find myself today...Perhaps, one of the more significant drivers to pushing down the loss and grief at the time of the accident, ignoring it and mindlessly walking…See More
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