Irene I am sorry with heart felt sincerity for what you are going through . I sincerely am understanding and have compassion for you. I also had a similar situation with my mother and my father. I too was the person who was helping, doing and being there for them in all ways. I lived it . I know the hurt and lossyou feel. I WOULD LIKE TO BE A FRIEND .I am so sorry , you are alone. I know how that feels when everyone shrugs off their responsibility and sort of islolates you after the funeral. You and I have gone through the same thing. I WOULD LIKE TO HELP YOU . I am also still hurting . I miss them too. I would like to hear from you and we can help one another . I hope to hear from you promptly, thanks, I willpray for you, John