My therapist said I was going through complicated grief, since there are so many things un-resolved with my mom and I have considered contacting a medium but I don't know if there are any good ones in the south, or if they are worth the time and money. Anybody have any thoughts on this subject?

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the only 1 i new woz a lady who woz a gud frend of the family  but she woz a 1 that ud pay money to sea just a kind old lady who never saw her own death cuming try looking on line they mite do email readings

I had a phone meeting with a medium after my son passed.  She was great!  I highly recommend her.  Here is her website http://janetmayer.net/   it will give you the details you need if you decide to schedule one.  Good luck and hope you find peace and comfort.

 

My therapist has suggested teaching me to "converse" with my sons. I am sorry, I can't remember what she called it, but it sounds interesting. As with the medium, I am not sure I want to interfer with their journey. Hanging on to them like that may stop their journey into the light. I only want that is best for my sons and if my need to connect with them halts their progress....or does it. I am not sure what I am going to do. Any thoughts?

Kitty

Hey Kitty, I don't think it would interfer with their journey. I think they are always with us, even if we don't feel it. Now if you would have asked me yesterday morning, I wouldn't have any clue because I have felt so disconnected from her, but I have been asking for a sign from my mom for awhile and last night I was laying down and my sheet was moved off of me a bit and I asked her to do it again and it happened. I find it very important to talk to them, I talk to her everyday. I may cry half the time but it does help with the healing process, atleast for me it does. I would try what your therapist suggested, it can't hurt anything, and you may find it to be helpful.

Jennifer

I really would like to contact my sister I miss her so much :( we were, are and always will be bestfriends she ment everything to me I just don't know much about mediums and if they really do work :(. X

hav a look on line nad sea if u can find a 1 that send u a emal thers lots on line iv bean looken  at

Hi again Jennifer. I too was thinking of a medium I think it would be so interesting! I hope your days have been ok. I had a bad one yesterday. It was sad. my dad's b-day , he wanted nothing to do with celebrating which was understood. my relatives were with us and it was an emotional day. I still can't believe that my mom is gone. I miss her terribly as I am sure you miss yours. I always question why would this happen especailly to her, she was active , vibrant and would do anything for everyone. She had a smile that would light up a room. alright talk to you soon. take care, Jayne

I went to a psychic medium a few weeks after Chris' death and I was able to talk to him and ask him questions. I knew it was him by the things she said. It made me feel good to know he is still with us and loves us.  He hasn't crossed over yet and isn't ready to do so. The medium I saw recorded our session for me to keep which is nice.  It didn't give me any closure but I know he is with us and that makes me feel a little better. I talk to him all day every day.  The medium told me to write to him every night about our day and I do, I will never miss a night.  If you do decide to see one then do your research and make sure it is a reputable one.  The one I saw does telephone sessions as well... her site is www.aukeera.com  I think you should try seeing one. It is a very nice experience. Good Luck

I think I will 100% go after my daughter is born I write to my sister every night it's her birthday today been very hard :( x

My sons 35th birthday was 8/11/12. My youngest son emailed 21 people and we all got together to have a beer with Kevin at the grave site. We all listened to a voice mail that I had saved on my phone from him on my birthday last Oct. Of course we all cried. I asked everybody there to write down everything Kevin meant to them and any experience they had with him so we can put it in a book and give it to Kevin's 5 yr old son when he gets of an age to appreciate and understand. We want him to know his dad. That got the memories going and we all shared stories about Kevin. We were there about 5 hours. It does a mom's heart good to hear what her son taught his friends and how much he is missed. There are a few stories that I could have done without hearing. :)

It was very bittersweet yet healing.

 

As for the medium....I think I am going to give it a try. I must say, I am a little nervous.

It really does help to hear about how someone has impacted other people's lives. My mom was a nurse and we had this 'Celebrate her life' get together at her job and hearing stories about her and the way she interacted with the patients, it made me proud to call her my mom! I would love to contact one but they want you to be in a relaxed state, and I'm naturally in a anxiety state..don't know how to calm down. I would love to do an email reading but don't know if they work as good as the in-person or telephone readings.

Hi Jennifer, the celebration of your moms life at her work sounded so nice , you should be proud of her and to be her daughter. I also have a lot of anxiety everyday. I can't seem to calm down I guess it is part of this feeling we have which is a natural thing to have for both of us .

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