I lost my son my only child 3 years ago he was 19 when we lost him .I seem to be getting worse not better with time,I miss him more every day. he was my best friend we had so much fun together.Now I cant even think of him without crying seems I still cry everyday.I have no joy in my life only sorrow despair and guilt.I feel like I can never be happy again, I don't know what to do I have been to doctors therepy,taken course, and nothing seems to help.I feel like life isn't worth living.I try to focus on the positive in my life but the pain always takes over.

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Brian,

I am so sorry for your loss, and the pain that you are feeling. Of course all that you are feeling is normal for someone who is grieving deeply. I wish that I could do or say something to take your pain away.

What I can do is try to comfort you and give you hope.

Mark 5:42 And immediately the girl rose and began walking. (She was 12 years old.) And at once they were beside themselves with great ecstasy.

This is an account where Jesus resurrects a 12 year old girl who had died. The parents of course were "beside themselves with great ecstasy". What this does for me is give me HOPE. The hope then comforts me and helps me look forward instead of behind.

Looking forward to a reunion !!!  Can't wait.

If there is anything that I can say or do to help you, or supply comfort, please just let me know.

Thanks for your reply

Brian, I am so sorry for the loss of your dear son. I too lost my son 3.5 years ago. It is my second child death. 

I wish I had magic words to say or some soothing potion to take away the searing pain. Does it get easier, or do we just find a way to bear this horrible situation because there are no great options...one loses no matter what path is taken it seems...

I send gentle thoughts your way today...it is a hard road...take it a little at a time, and it is okay to take one step forward and five steps back...as living without our beloved children is more hellish than any one could know.

Take care.

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