i do agree the pain would indefinite...but then some where in your heart there would always be a place where they are with you...very real ...very alive...i feel the same... for my parents
Thank you Teresa. I just uploaded 3 pics of Shreyas ( Micky) . He loved the water and any kind of adventure, yet he was not reckless or silly. Just adding these pics is also painful and seeing him makes me smile-- anyway, its all a time of utter confusion and sorrow-- take care all
I lost my son who was 27 in Dec..23rd 2011. He was full of life, funny, kind and loving. He and 5 others had left their ofc ( he was working in Dubai)and had gone for lunch. On the way back their suv skidded , his friend who was driving applied the accelerator by mistake and the vehicle turned turtle a few times. My son and another friend of his lost their lives on the spot. The other 4 were ok.He is my only child and the loss is unimaginable. I do know what you are going through. You are in my prayers.Love to you.
I am so sorry that he left you so suddenly. While it has only been a few months, please know it will become a little easier as time goes on. But there will be days in which you feel as if it just happened.
One of the most important things that has helped me has been my faith in Christ. I have the knowledge in knowing that someday again I will see my son.
Something that might help with holidays and birthdays is to make donations to a local shelter in your son's name. While I know you can't fathom this right now, please keep it on a back burner (so to speak) for the future. This is just one of the ways in which I have learned to cope with my son's passing.
Teresa~ if you do not mind sharing ~ how did you loose your son. I know it has not been long since he passed away. It is ok to "just stare at the screen and cry". We all grieve at different levels and at different times. I am sorry you had to join this group. None of us want to be here. Just know we care. Sending you hugs!!
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Thank you Teresa. I just uploaded 3 pics of Shreyas ( Micky) . He loved the water and any kind of adventure, yet he was not reckless or silly. Just adding these pics is also painful and seeing him makes me smile-- anyway, its all a time of utter confusion and sorrow-- take care all
Dear Teresa,
I lost my son who was 27 in Dec..23rd 2011. He was full of life, funny, kind and loving. He and 5 others had left their ofc ( he was working in Dubai)and had gone for lunch. On the way back their suv skidded , his friend who was driving applied the accelerator by mistake and the vehicle turned turtle a few times. My son and another friend of his lost their lives on the spot. The other 4 were ok.He is my only child and the loss is unimaginable. I do know what you are going through. You are in my prayers.Love to you.
I am so sorry that he left you so suddenly. While it has only been a few months, please know it will become a little easier as time goes on. But there will be days in which you feel as if it just happened.
One of the most important things that has helped me has been my faith in Christ. I have the knowledge in knowing that someday again I will see my son.
Something that might help with holidays and birthdays is to make donations to a local shelter in your son's name. While I know you can't fathom this right now, please keep it on a back burner (so to speak) for the future. This is just one of the ways in which I have learned to cope with my son's passing.
Teresa~ if you do not mind sharing ~ how did you loose your son. I know it has not been long since he passed away. It is ok to "just stare at the screen and cry". We all grieve at different levels and at different times. I am sorry you had to join this group. None of us want to be here. Just know we care. Sending you hugs!!
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