Hi! My birthday was yesterday and I stumbled on 3 cards from my mom and dad which brought me to tears. They in my heart, prayers and mind every single day. A lot of my friends say get over it but it just doesn't work that way. Don't let anybody tell you that either because it is not true. I am fighting everyday with the emptiness because they were so important to me. I have tried to get help but it has been practically impossible. There is one more place to try. lakeside Bible church but I have to find away to get there

. Hope is there. I hope this helps you. TCL, Nancy

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Comment by dream moon JO B on September 16, 2012 at 2:38pm

u must be like me the yugest 1 in the family i just want to greive in my own time even if it takes yrs i woz to close to my dad my dad tret my sister and brotherr like his own kids he did but i woz his only blood its funny how familys can be at a tim like this if u go on you tube the cats and dogs make me smile on ther the cat chasing dogs is funny and the cats geting high on cat nip is funny it is all the cats 1s r the best my nerfew duze the same thng keep away from the family coz he dozent want any trubell he just enjoys his girlfreind and bean a teacher and going on hollidays abrod i thnk yore uncle cliff has the rite idea 

Comment by Nancy Payette on September 15, 2012 at 5:04pm

that's no fair that your sister is giving such a hard time. Siblings can be mean to me too. It's crazy! I think parents are the glue to the family. I even thought of just breaking away from family just like my uncle cliff did. He didn't even have a phone! I hope this and your struggle calms down soon. A good idea is to watch the muppets on Youtube as a stress reliever. When cookie monster sings that famous Rianna song, it cracks me up every time! Try it-you might like it. This is crazy-cookie monster.

Comment by dream moon JO B on September 15, 2012 at 2:36pm

iv got the samee promberlim my sister want me to throw my dads thngs out and i wont and iv bean told iv got stop taking fotos but this tim im not going to do that taking fotos is taking my mind off thngs my mum is sick off all the arguments my nease went to far coz she hurt my mum her granmother wish as left her bad with her nervs i wish my dad wud cum back from hevan and chear us all up well the cat duse that she likes to jump on the key pad all ways on this web site

Comment by Nancy Payette on September 14, 2012 at 6:10pm

my family is driving me nuts too! i have an illness and my sister is trying to be there for me and get me help, but it is not the same as having parents around. We always get into fights and right now, we are hardly even talking-well we aren't; just by texting because I am getting rid of the internet. I can use it in coffee shops though. Having some peace is better then fighting.

Comment by dream moon JO B on September 14, 2012 at 3:36pm

i dont want to thnk abot my bday this yer i hope evry 1 fogets abot it iv had the same coments as u get over it its easy i dont thnk its easy the close u r to the person u lost the harder it is im stuck in a midel of a silly family feud whish i dint want coz lifes to short for silly feuds

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