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"Bruce: Thank you for your advice. You know after being with someone for so many years that the little things are the things that get to me. I still work even though I am 70 and Peter called me every day at work at 10:00 am to ask how my ride…"
"Rose Thankyou so much for your response to me. It is so comforting to hear that you feel the same. I am so sorry you had to go through those years of your husbands I'll health. I was lucky in that mine was fit and healthy and we enjoyed several…"
"Marjorie I understand what you mean that you are living for your children. I have 4 daughters and 4 grandchildren but I also feel as if I can not live the rest of my life without Peter. We were together for 51 years and I feel as…"
"Thank you Linda. I am so lost without him. I still work full time but it is taking every bone in my body to get out of bed and get going. At home I am paralyzed. It takes me days to do the simple things like changing my…"
"Good evening, This is my first time in the group. I lost my husband 3 months ago today. Each and every Saturday brings me back to the greatest pain I have ever felt. It has not gotten any better.
We were married…"
I am 70 years young. I have been a full time Elementary School Secretary for over 31 years. I have was married to my best friend for 50 years this past August. I have four beautiful daughters and 4 amazing grandchildren.
About my Loss:
My beloved husband passed away on October 21, 2018 after battling cancer for over 10 years yet succumbed to pneumonia. We had our 50th Wedding Anniversary party with all of family and friends on September 30th and 21 days later he was gone.
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Rose Thankyou so much for your response to me. It is so comforting to hear that you feel the same. I am so sorry you had to go through those years of your husbands I'll health. I was lucky in that mine was fit and healthy and we enjoyed several years travelling together until his sudden unexpected death which was an enormous shock. I just can't imagine living the next 20 yrs without him. I'm going to bed now and know I'll wake up devastated all over again in the morning.
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