I know how u r feeling, just by looking at those pictures. u all were so close, but God has her in heaven now, where she is very happy nd watching over u all.
Remember how great a woman she was nd get comfort in that.
"Two weeks ago I signed up to work for the Mother's Day holiday for FTD.com to work from home. I did the Valentine's season. I thought that I could handle taking customer service calls for the floral company this holiday. My sister told me…"
I look at pictures of you and your mom and family and it could be my mom and me. We were so close too. When she died in June - I was with her holding her hand telling her to go to Jesus. I will never forget the life leaving her body. My…"
"Kahila,I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom on May 29 2011. I can totally relate to what you are going through. My sibblins are handling it much better than I and I find it hard to talk to them about it anymore. The other day I texted…"
"I know what you mean. I can't wait until I'm at the point where I can remember good times/memories without constantly being plagued with the looming sadness. Those days will come in time, I'm sure... they just seem kind of distant at…"
"Thank you extended the offer Chelsea. I would like to contact you to talk. I am sorry for your loss. I'm at thee point where I try to be positive and remember good memories but sometimes the loss and sadness get the best of me. I know how you…"
Thank you for your words. Sometimes you think your going through this pain alone. Thank you for making this group. I was really close to mymom and when she passed it felt like I couldn't nteath. Its comforting to be able to talk to…"
Welcome to our group. You will find wonderful support and unconditonal love and friendship here. I lost my wonderful mom June 26, 2011. I feel the same as you do...I still pick up the phone to call her. My heart is so empty. I feel so alone…"
"I'm really sorry to hear about your mother (even though I'm sure you're tired of hearing that phrase)...I can relate, though. I lost my mother in October. I'm 19 years old with no children, so I can't relate to the children…"
I lost my mom in June. It took me months to get used to not speaking with her a couple of times a day. I had to stop myself from calling her and telling her what her grandchilds just did. I was at a point where I had even good and bad days. Then I received my mom's W-2 in the mail last week and it all came back. I learned that I have to file her taxes from last year and I had to dig out her death certificate. I wanted to just lay in may bed and cry. The only reason that I don't is because of my…See More
I am 32 years-old. I am married with two wonderful children. I just finished completing work for my second master's degree.
About my Loss:
I lost my mom on June 13, 2011. She had been sick for a little while, but I didn"t believe that she would pass away. I came as a shock. No I feel as if I am lost. I used to talk and text my mom several times a day. No I don't know what to do.
I look at pictures of you and your mom and family and it could be my mom and me. We were so close too. When she died in June - I was with her holding her hand telling her to go to Jesus. I will never forget the life leaving her body. My mother, my darling mother was no longer in that body I have had in my life for 55 years. We shared a birthday December 19th. I was her favorite daughter (I knew this). Some days she would drive me nuts...others days were so blessed and wonderful. I miss her every minute. My life has changed. No more mom and Sue. Every weekend we would go shopping, have lunch and go to a movie. I miss that so much. I wonder if I was the best daughter I could be? I wish I had one more day to do everything I didn't do for her. I have such a feeling of loneliness inside. It hurts physically not just mentally. I know we will be reunited but its the days until then that are hard. I have no close family except for my moms sister and her kids in Michigan. My 3 sisters are just not very giving of themselves. Very selfish. How are you doing? Sue
Welcome to our group. You will find wonderful support and unconditonal love and friendship here. I lost my wonderful mom June 26, 2011. I feel the same as you do...I still pick up the phone to call her. My heart is so empty. I feel so alone without my mommy. We were very close. I am so glad you found this site. Sue
"I have been having crying jags again in spite of the medication. I do not wish to stop the crying .I got up this morning and read some post on this forum. I am grateful for this forum as it helps me feel that i am not so very alone with it…"
"I understand the problems associated with complex relationships and how the feelings of grief manifest in ways when relationships with the deceased are unresolved.
The regrets can be very powerful and confusing and difficult to work with.
"Thanks everyone. Sorry for yours too Connie. Dolly I'm glad your looking for ways to help yourself. Kim I really hope you don't mean it when you say you don't care about the rest of your family. I pray that that's just the grief…"
"Ann - I am so sorry for your loss. Lynn - thank you for your kind words about my cousin - it is just so sad. I will send you a message.
Dolly - I've been thinking of you and am glad to hear from you. Thanks for sharing your link. I find comfort…"
"I agree with you Ann altho I can't say I don't struggle every day. Maybe with the time you have had to work through your terrible loss, we can all find the strength you have someday, but everyone has to go through it and feel what…"
"been reading but not talking... seems I'm frozen inside ... sad for your loss Anne... for all of your losses .. all of you here.... I just don't know if I will ever feel alive again... I feel like I'm stumbling through the days half…"
"Hi Christine I feel for you and am at a loss as what to say even though I'm going through it myself because there's nothing you can say that will make it better.the sudden shock of it and your daughters age so young.my only consolation is…"
"So sorry for your loss.I know those words are not a comfort.I know some of your pain as I had lost a child six years ago but no one suffers grief the same.Sounds as if your daughter is trying to reach out.Be thankful you have that with her.My mother…"
"anne, im so sorry for you having another loss. I have ben reading all the letters and I do understand yours. you have a beautiful heart. I just don't agree. im glad you are seeing a light in all this pain, but I never will. I just want…"
My Daughter died on the 14/08/2014,on my phone i have an app that records calls ,i have at least 40 recordings of different people on it ,a week after she died , i heard her voice on checking found it to be coming from my phone ,it was playing one of the calls from her ,i had not touched the phone and out of all the calls ,it was her,this happened again on the day of her funeral,again the recording of her voice went off on my phone and again i had not touched it,i was so spooked i diabled this…See More
"Vinnie, I am so, so sorry for your loss. My beloved husband and I were only married for four years, but we'd loved each other since we were 12 years old. He passed suddenly and very unexpectedly three days after his 40th birthday. That was…"
"Feeling tummy upset .
Feeling wide awake yet falling asleep ,I am not a doctor but that sounds exactly like the Leparo uptake yeah is very particular to Lexapro.
Also the mix of meds too can take time to settle and maybe some readjustment could be…"
"Hi Elizabeth. I got your "longish" reply. Maybe it was a timing issue.
I'm not a swearer, but "shitballs" girl - you have been through a lot!!!
Thank you for your detailed personal account. It does help.…"