I know how u r feeling, just by looking at those pictures. u all were so close, but God has her in heaven now, where she is very happy nd watching over u all.
Remember how great a woman she was nd get comfort in that.
"Two weeks ago I signed up to work for the Mother's Day holiday for FTD.com to work from home. I did the Valentine's season. I thought that I could handle taking customer service calls for the floral company this holiday. My sister told me…"
I look at pictures of you and your mom and family and it could be my mom and me. We were so close too. When she died in June - I was with her holding her hand telling her to go to Jesus. I will never forget the life leaving her body. My…"
"Kahila,I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom on May 29 2011. I can totally relate to what you are going through. My sibblins are handling it much better than I and I find it hard to talk to them about it anymore. The other day I texted…"
"I know what you mean. I can't wait until I'm at the point where I can remember good times/memories without constantly being plagued with the looming sadness. Those days will come in time, I'm sure... they just seem kind of distant at…"
"Thank you extended the offer Chelsea. I would like to contact you to talk. I am sorry for your loss. I'm at thee point where I try to be positive and remember good memories but sometimes the loss and sadness get the best of me. I know how you…"
Thank you for your words. Sometimes you think your going through this pain alone. Thank you for making this group. I was really close to mymom and when she passed it felt like I couldn't nteath. Its comforting to be able to talk to…"
Welcome to our group. You will find wonderful support and unconditonal love and friendship here. I lost my wonderful mom June 26, 2011. I feel the same as you do...I still pick up the phone to call her. My heart is so empty. I feel so alone…"
"I'm really sorry to hear about your mother (even though I'm sure you're tired of hearing that phrase)...I can relate, though. I lost my mother in October. I'm 19 years old with no children, so I can't relate to the children…"
I lost my mom in June. It took me months to get used to not speaking with her a couple of times a day. I had to stop myself from calling her and telling her what her grandchilds just did. I was at a point where I had even good and bad days. Then I received my mom's W-2 in the mail last week and it all came back. I learned that I have to file her taxes from last year and I had to dig out her death certificate. I wanted to just lay in may bed and cry. The only reason that I don't is because of my…See More
I am 32 years-old. I am married with two wonderful children. I just finished completing work for my second master's degree.
About my Loss:
I lost my mom on June 13, 2011. She had been sick for a little while, but I didn"t believe that she would pass away. I came as a shock. No I feel as if I am lost. I used to talk and text my mom several times a day. No I don't know what to do.
I look at pictures of you and your mom and family and it could be my mom and me. We were so close too. When she died in June - I was with her holding her hand telling her to go to Jesus. I will never forget the life leaving her body. My mother, my darling mother was no longer in that body I have had in my life for 55 years. We shared a birthday December 19th. I was her favorite daughter (I knew this). Some days she would drive me nuts...others days were so blessed and wonderful. I miss her every minute. My life has changed. No more mom and Sue. Every weekend we would go shopping, have lunch and go to a movie. I miss that so much. I wonder if I was the best daughter I could be? I wish I had one more day to do everything I didn't do for her. I have such a feeling of loneliness inside. It hurts physically not just mentally. I know we will be reunited but its the days until then that are hard. I have no close family except for my moms sister and her kids in Michigan. My 3 sisters are just not very giving of themselves. Very selfish. How are you doing? Sue
Welcome to our group. You will find wonderful support and unconditonal love and friendship here. I lost my wonderful mom June 26, 2011. I feel the same as you do...I still pick up the phone to call her. My heart is so empty. I feel so alone without my mommy. We were very close. I am so glad you found this site. Sue
"I am so lost, so completely devastated by the sudden loss of my wife Diane that I feel something has just been ripped open inside of me and will never heal. She was only 52. I did cpr when she collapsed but I watched her die. By the time I got to…"
"It's going to be 4 years without my father this June. He died at 67-2 days before his birthday. I felt like I had to put up a front cuz I was deemed "the responsible one". I absolutely could not cry to save my soul, especially when I…"
"That's exactly it Jill, if I could just stand up in front of the kids all day it'd be fine. It's all the paperwork and beurocracy that's beating me right now. The kids know what happened and are being amazing."
"Viv, I am a teacher. Single. 36. Lost my father at the age of 62 and my mother at the age of 65. You are not going mad. It hurts. A lot. I tstruggle with sharing my emotions as well. I want ... I NEED... To cry. But I don't allow myself to go…"
I never thought that I would be a widow in my forties. My friends can't relate and feel the need to comment on everything, even if they have no experience with grief. I know they mean well but only we know what we are going though.See More
"Thanks Dana and sorry to hear of your losses. It's so agonizingly (is that even a word? LOL) hard. I'm in my 30s and know of no one my age who has lost both of her parents. I feel so alone in all of this."
Since Losing both my dad and my mom. My world has changed. I can't help but wonder what if it was me instead of them... Would any one of cared? But then again I realize I am lucky to be alive but it kills me so much inside because I am so lost and heartbroken. I got a boyfriend that loves me to death. But my family on the other hand really doesn't care like they used to about me. I think they did it because they knew my mom would get on their case about not caring about me. I found out that a…See More
"I'm sorry Viv,it can be very difficult to push away those memories. You have to remind yourself of the good memories of him and all the things that you guys did together. All the beautiful things that you guys did over the years. It is tough…"
"Thanks Sarah. I know that logically but I can't persuade myself to believe it. No one will talk about it so I just have what happened in the hospital running round my head over and over again. The picture of how he looked and the sound of him…"
"Hello Viv,first of I would like to say that I am so sorry you lost your father,it truly is a very hard loss for anyone. Secondly it's ONLY been 5 weeks! I lost my father year and half ago. It gets easier but please don't feel like you need…"
I'm new to this sort of thing and I'm hoping it'll help.I lost my dad 5 weeks ago. He'd been ill for 3 years but we couldn't get a straight diagnosis so they couldn't do anything. After a big battle (skipping over three years of fighting with drs, social workers, hospitals, moving him into sheltered housing, our whole days being taken up by it) We did finally get a diagnosis of Vascular Parkinsonism. A parkinsons type illness caused by many small strokes. We got given a promise of intensive…See More
"I can't speak very knowledgably about His wishes because I haven't studied the Bible as well as others or I could have by this time (really should study it more often than do). I can tell you this. If you are truly saved and born again…"
"Everything you just wrote is exactly how I feel and what I'm thinking. I just feel so lost and if it weren't for my kids I don't think I'd be here. I don't want to be without my husband. Just got off The phone with my…"
"My sister died 3 weeks ago. I can't even believe I'm writing those words. How on earth does anyone move on from grief this intense? She was 22 years old and my world. I think I'm still in shock/denial. I cry for hours at a time and am…"