I know how u r feeling, just by looking at those pictures. u all were so close, but God has her in heaven now, where she is very happy nd watching over u all.
Remember how great a woman she was nd get comfort in that.
"Two weeks ago I signed up to work for the Mother's Day holiday for FTD.com to work from home. I did the Valentine's season. I thought that I could handle taking customer service calls for the floral company this holiday. My sister told me…"
I look at pictures of you and your mom and family and it could be my mom and me. We were so close too. When she died in June - I was with her holding her hand telling her to go to Jesus. I will never forget the life leaving her body. My…"
"Kahila,I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom on May 29 2011. I can totally relate to what you are going through. My sibblins are handling it much better than I and I find it hard to talk to them about it anymore. The other day I texted…"
"I know what you mean. I can't wait until I'm at the point where I can remember good times/memories without constantly being plagued with the looming sadness. Those days will come in time, I'm sure... they just seem kind of distant at…"
"Thank you extended the offer Chelsea. I would like to contact you to talk. I am sorry for your loss. I'm at thee point where I try to be positive and remember good memories but sometimes the loss and sadness get the best of me. I know how you…"
Thank you for your words. Sometimes you think your going through this pain alone. Thank you for making this group. I was really close to mymom and when she passed it felt like I couldn't nteath. Its comforting to be able to talk to…"
Welcome to our group. You will find wonderful support and unconditonal love and friendship here. I lost my wonderful mom June 26, 2011. I feel the same as you do...I still pick up the phone to call her. My heart is so empty. I feel so alone…"
"I'm really sorry to hear about your mother (even though I'm sure you're tired of hearing that phrase)...I can relate, though. I lost my mother in October. I'm 19 years old with no children, so I can't relate to the children…"
I lost my mom in June. It took me months to get used to not speaking with her a couple of times a day. I had to stop myself from calling her and telling her what her grandchilds just did. I was at a point where I had even good and bad days. Then I received my mom's W-2 in the mail last week and it all came back. I learned that I have to file her taxes from last year and I had to dig out her death certificate. I wanted to just lay in may bed and cry. The only reason that I don't is because of my…See More
I am 32 years-old. I am married with two wonderful children. I just finished completing work for my second master's degree.
About my Loss:
I lost my mom on June 13, 2011. She had been sick for a little while, but I didn"t believe that she would pass away. I came as a shock. No I feel as if I am lost. I used to talk and text my mom several times a day. No I don't know what to do.
I look at pictures of you and your mom and family and it could be my mom and me. We were so close too. When she died in June - I was with her holding her hand telling her to go to Jesus. I will never forget the life leaving her body. My mother, my darling mother was no longer in that body I have had in my life for 55 years. We shared a birthday December 19th. I was her favorite daughter (I knew this). Some days she would drive me nuts...others days were so blessed and wonderful. I miss her every minute. My life has changed. No more mom and Sue. Every weekend we would go shopping, have lunch and go to a movie. I miss that so much. I wonder if I was the best daughter I could be? I wish I had one more day to do everything I didn't do for her. I have such a feeling of loneliness inside. It hurts physically not just mentally. I know we will be reunited but its the days until then that are hard. I have no close family except for my moms sister and her kids in Michigan. My 3 sisters are just not very giving of themselves. Very selfish. How are you doing? Sue
Welcome to our group. You will find wonderful support and unconditonal love and friendship here. I lost my wonderful mom June 26, 2011. I feel the same as you do...I still pick up the phone to call her. My heart is so empty. I feel so alone without my mommy. We were very close. I am so glad you found this site. Sue
"Hi Nancy. I lost my beloved mother July, 22 , 2013. I've always had low lying anxiety all my life. This anxiety has now increased and is at an all time high after my mother passed. I can relate to you. I'm facing depression, anxiety,…"
"Nancy, Thankyou for your friendship, I am so sorry to hear about your moms passing ... My mother passed just about two weeks ago now and I feel your pain. So many on here do . You can talk to me anytime . ( hugs)"
"Nancy, Anxiety can bubble up from just about anything... your trigger may be different from someone elses but yes trust is a big one aka being afraid of something whether it's a valid thought or not can definitely trigger panic . Check…"
"Hi Nancy Welcome, I am pretty new as well.. and no worry"s I am just now learning how to navigate the site myself. Many of us are members of other groups .. unfortunately some fall under many categories. This site is great because of the…"
"Our loved ones watch over us." I have written these words often and I know them to be true. Recently I had some responses about that concept. "But I don't like the idea of my loved one just sitting around watching me." One grieving mother commented. When our loved ones die and pass into spirit there are two changes that I see. One is obvious – they now don't have a physical body to reside in and are free to roam wherever they wish at a moment's thought. The second is that I do believe they…See More
Lily was born and my longest cherished dream came true. I held in my arms a beautiful little being who felt like my soulmate. She didn't need to speak a word, I just felt we had known each other for a long time and she felt like the missing peice to my existence. I had a difficult labour with so many complications that I distinctly remember thinking to myself "It's OK, I believe in reincarnation, I believe in heaven, it'll be OK if I die!" For the first two weeks my husband looked after Lily as…See More
This is for anyone who has lost somone to cancer. I lost my adopted Mom to breast cancer some years ago. She was everything I could have asked for. She loved me because I was just me. She also loved my family and children as if they were her own.See More
"I'm finding it hard to respond. I'm here. Every day reading. Hurting for us all. When we hurt as deeply as we do life isn't just lived as it was once. We are vulnerable, extremely sensitive and aware of possibilities we once never…"
"Anne - my heart breaks for you. I have lost both - my son, and dogs. My father always told me that when you adopt a pet, you must understand that one day your pet will die. As much as I have loved every single dog I've lost - it does NOT even…"
"I need to vent badly. I talked to my mother today. My sisters 13 yr old dog passed away. My sister told me that now she knows the deep grief of losing a loved one. My mother repeated it today. I am livid. They compared the death of the dog to the…"
I'm really new to this whole site so bear with me if I mess up. Since losing my Mom, I find that I've lost trust, in my ability to get through the ups and downs of life. How do you guys feel. Does anxiety bubble to the surface cuz we lack trust?
"I know God created Satan, but why let him destroy the earth? Why couldn't God, just cast Satan into the lake of fire, and our love one wouldn't have died? Its not fair, look at what is happening all around us, God would be…"