I know how u r feeling, just by looking at those pictures. u all were so close, but God has her in heaven now, where she is very happy nd watching over u all.
Remember how great a woman she was nd get comfort in that.
"Two weeks ago I signed up to work for the Mother's Day holiday for FTD.com to work from home. I did the Valentine's season. I thought that I could handle taking customer service calls for the floral company this holiday. My sister told me…"
I look at pictures of you and your mom and family and it could be my mom and me. We were so close too. When she died in June - I was with her holding her hand telling her to go to Jesus. I will never forget the life leaving her body. My…"
"Kahila,I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom on May 29 2011. I can totally relate to what you are going through. My sibblins are handling it much better than I and I find it hard to talk to them about it anymore. The other day I texted…"
"I know what you mean. I can't wait until I'm at the point where I can remember good times/memories without constantly being plagued with the looming sadness. Those days will come in time, I'm sure... they just seem kind of distant at…"
"Thank you extended the offer Chelsea. I would like to contact you to talk. I am sorry for your loss. I'm at thee point where I try to be positive and remember good memories but sometimes the loss and sadness get the best of me. I know how you…"
Thank you for your words. Sometimes you think your going through this pain alone. Thank you for making this group. I was really close to mymom and when she passed it felt like I couldn't nteath. Its comforting to be able to talk to…"
Welcome to our group. You will find wonderful support and unconditonal love and friendship here. I lost my wonderful mom June 26, 2011. I feel the same as you do...I still pick up the phone to call her. My heart is so empty. I feel so alone…"
"I'm really sorry to hear about your mother (even though I'm sure you're tired of hearing that phrase)...I can relate, though. I lost my mother in October. I'm 19 years old with no children, so I can't relate to the children…"
I lost my mom in June. It took me months to get used to not speaking with her a couple of times a day. I had to stop myself from calling her and telling her what her grandchilds just did. I was at a point where I had even good and bad days. Then I received my mom's W-2 in the mail last week and it all came back. I learned that I have to file her taxes from last year and I had to dig out her death certificate. I wanted to just lay in may bed and cry. The only reason that I don't is because of my…See More
I am 32 years-old. I am married with two wonderful children. I just finished completing work for my second master's degree.
About my Loss:
I lost my mom on June 13, 2011. She had been sick for a little while, but I didn"t believe that she would pass away. I came as a shock. No I feel as if I am lost. I used to talk and text my mom several times a day. No I don't know what to do.
I look at pictures of you and your mom and family and it could be my mom and me. We were so close too. When she died in June - I was with her holding her hand telling her to go to Jesus. I will never forget the life leaving her body. My mother, my darling mother was no longer in that body I have had in my life for 55 years. We shared a birthday December 19th. I was her favorite daughter (I knew this). Some days she would drive me nuts...others days were so blessed and wonderful. I miss her every minute. My life has changed. No more mom and Sue. Every weekend we would go shopping, have lunch and go to a movie. I miss that so much. I wonder if I was the best daughter I could be? I wish I had one more day to do everything I didn't do for her. I have such a feeling of loneliness inside. It hurts physically not just mentally. I know we will be reunited but its the days until then that are hard. I have no close family except for my moms sister and her kids in Michigan. My 3 sisters are just not very giving of themselves. Very selfish. How are you doing? Sue
Welcome to our group. You will find wonderful support and unconditonal love and friendship here. I lost my wonderful mom June 26, 2011. I feel the same as you do...I still pick up the phone to call her. My heart is so empty. I feel so alone without my mommy. We were very close. I am so glad you found this site. Sue
"Another interesting thing, Christmas 2006, I felt someone would not be with us. I thought it was my son going into the military. My niece died.
2009, out of the blue I told my brother if he wanted to see his Father alive to come now. Dad died…"
"Oh Dick - wondering if you have a grandchild out there - a piece of your son - that must be maddening. I know that if it were me I would definitely want to know. Because my son, Daniel, was my only child. I know this is wrong but I hoped that…"
"Dick, so totally agree with your last statement. Its okay to vent. I have found it difficult to find people in my life that are supportive. Most have went back to their idyllic existence.
Linda, you might find some of what Rachel Joy Scott…"
"So many question, so many holes in my heart. I am one tortured person.
I have anger, guilt, sadness and doubt all rolled up into one nice little present that stays with me night and day. the gift just keeps giving."
shawn, on wed it will be a year, im so filled with sadness, lonelyness emptiness and so very heart broken. I remember it all like it was yesterday. each day is harder and harder to try to go on. I still pray each night to go with you. I know I don't want to go on with out you. I cry everyday and night, sadness floods over me and I cant hold on. with out you there is no sun, no light, just darkness all the time. I promise ill be with you soon, to hold you forever and never let you go. to live…See More
"I want to get this off my chest. I have never told anyone about this except my other son knows because his brother told him.
He told me in 2005 that he was going to help a pregnant girl out at school and sign the adoption papers as the father to…"
I never thought that I would be a widow in my forties. My friends can't relate and feel the need to comment on everything, even if they have no experience with grief. I know they mean well but only we know what we are going though.See More
"Vee, I understand exactly where you are coming from. I lost the love of my life suddenly in early October. He had been recovering from a surgery and was doing well and expected to be fully healed soon. I still cannot believe…"
Oh I read it all Craig…….word after word revealing the utter anguish, the questions, the guilt, the anger but most of all the endless void. Yes, I read it all and as I read it I saw myself sitting in your chair at…"
"Dick: God is good. Since losing my only daughter at the very young age of 31 and finding her letter just recently, I see that maybe our children new something that they didn't quite realize was a testament to upcoming events. 7 months has now…"
I am glad you mentioned it. 2011 was an unusual year for Danny. He help ed his grandmother remodel, he helped me remodel, we went to an unusual number of ball games and movies, and he helped the church. He did some other things that seemed…"