Danyel Cox-Tysk
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  • Brainerd, MN
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Danyel Cox-Tysk joined Deborah K.L.W. Dunham's group
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Miscarriage

I am starting this group because I have experienced 2 losses and now have to accept not having children at all. I am still working through this but have an added benefit of almost completing my Masters degree in counseling.See More
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Danyel Cox-Tysk is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
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About Me:
I'm 27 and going back to school for nursing.
About my Loss:
Several years ago I lost custody of my two children to the state because of my poor choice of a partner. He was abusive and I was young and alone, so it was a terrible situation to be raising children in. Its been several years since I've seen them. During that process I gave birth to a baby girl and arranged an adoption for her. I haven't seen her since. It was the right thing to do at the time. During the last several years I have learned to cope with my loss. I have made strides in my mental health, and have cultivated a healthy life style and relationship. I was never able to do these things before because i was constantly in crisis, just trying to survive. I hoped that when I was ready I could have a family with my fiance, who I have been with now for 3 years. I have stability and prosperity for the first time in my life, and feel that I could be a great parent under different circumstance. I wasn't quite ready to try again though so I had an IUD put in years ago when I met my fiance. Then a couple days ago I went into the ER because of extreme abdominal pain and it turned out I had an ectopic pregnancy that had burst through my fallopian tube and was causing internal bleeding. It required emergency surgery, and they removed the ruined fallopian tube and embryo. Now it could be difficult for me to get pregnant, and I feel like I've been waiting for this. I screwed up the chances I had and now the universe is taking away my dreams of trying again. It feels like this is my punishment for my poor choices in the past.

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Martee replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"Bluebird, so sorry for you loss,your posts spoke my feelings exactly on grief and pain of living. Can you please let me know how you survived all these years. Its been just over 2 weeks and each day is an eternity for me I hope I don’t…"
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"I don’t want this..."
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Martee posted a status
"Today I have been walking as a lifeless, joyless, husk for 2 weeks and 4 days. My beautiful, loving husband is gone...."
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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Yes it’s almost five and I’m still so very sad "
4 hours ago
Casey commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"it has been almost 6 years (my mom passed away on Feb 18, 2014) since my mom (56-year-old) passed way, it still feels like yesterday..I can't believe it..anyone here whos still here after all these years?"
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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett, I am looking for the same light at the end of the tunnel.  I feel the same way about my dog he is a Labrador and its so so difficult to see him limp or have a bad day, he takes meds, I just want him to be comfortable.  I say to…"
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brenda, I rely on my faith so much, but I realized a long time ago that there won't be a magic moment where an angel comes down and tells me that everything will be okay. I'm not criticizing God. I just realize that this is something that…"
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I'm having a lot of trouble getting Krissy to eat. She has diabetes and she has a very limited diet as it is. She can only eat prescription dog food. I switched to the wet version and she was eating up, and now it's the same as before. My…"
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Katherine A Pericas Geersten replied to Katherine A Pericas Geersten's discussion Hello, a little bit about me.
"Thank you Mrs. Crawford, it means a lot to be hearing from someone else who understands. "
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Kimberly joined Karen's group
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I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....
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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett yes as horrible as it is for us both our dogs have aged almost 5 years since our moms died I’m having a really hard time with it I’m thinking that I might need counseling my boy is going to be 13 he still gets around but I know…"
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brenda, so much of what you said is so familiar with me. I haven't been able to take a nap since my mom died four years ago. Once, while my mom was still alive and on Hospice, I laid down for a second. I fell asleep and I was having a sweet…"
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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brenda. I know exactly how you feel.  This is how time changed things for me, as time went the thoughts seem to have become more acceptable but missing her still remains. And I cry.  Probably to much   "
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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brenda.   I am terribly anxious every day.  I try to have faith in God to get me through whatever I am dealing with.  I have a dog who is goi g to be 13 in April and all I do is worry about him. My last dog I had my mom to lean on and…"
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M Adams commented on M Adams's blog post A Stoic Response to Grief (from The Daily Stoic)
"I really relate to certain parts of this Stoicism commentary, especially the last quotation and the final four paragraphs that come after it.  Today I am struggling to write a letter of condolence to a longtime family friend who recently lost…"
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Teresa D. commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"Support is always here when you need it. Hugs to all."
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Ammy commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"Thank you Josephine.  I agree that we need to be able to laugh, but it usually takes time for that to start.  I honestly feel good when I can laugh at something or with someone.  It's like a medicine, but it took time for me to…"
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Josephine Crawford commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"Teresa, Ammy and Sue, I understand and share your pain. Yes, I too feel like a different version of myself and going forward has been a struggle. Ladies, they would have wanted us to be happy. I sometimes feel guilty when I find myself laughing.…"
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