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"You poor thing. I remember it well and still feel it often. It’s a tidal wave. I see mine coming at me now when it comes. But it is no longer constant. There is nothing anyone can say or do to ease your pain. But we can listen and sit in it…"
"It is overwhelming. You will learn to recognize when it’s coming, delay your reaction until it is an appropriate time for you to let those feelings out, sleep and eat normally, and even have some feeling other than sadness again. You learn to…"
"Thank you Robin. Here I am the day before looking for something to help, connection to people who have the same feelings. Our tribe of support that we all need. Maybe if what I have gone thru can help someone else it will help me too."
"Hello Robin. It always takes me time to reply to people who post in here. I need rest and sleep before I can write one word without throwing myself back to day one, where it’s so raw and constant and dark. And that’s where you are since…"
"Callie - I am sorry for what you are about to go through. I read your post a while ago and couldn’t even reply right away. Too painful to hear. You are very articulate about your relationship - unshakable, no written words, no photographs.…"
"I found out when Russell did not message me for 18 hours. I convinced myself that he had broken his phone. But then I did a quick search. All good until I hit the “News” button. Three articles popped up about the accident. It took me the…"
"Hello Money -
So sorry you are going through this. I wish I had a magic thing to say about coming to peace with it. All I can tell you is that you need to gather around you some people who make you feel supported and that in time it will become…"
"Kelly I have written over weekend, have you rec’d it. I’m still having trouble navigating here!!"
"I'm sorry for your loss..you can say his name here..I totally understand you. Sending hugs."
"But if you want to talk about him and your relationship and how wonderful it is you can tell me. I would love to know."
"Me too. I couldn’t even type anything in here 2 years ago. There is an online group workshop called Writing Your Grief I’ve been encouraged to do. I’ve been told to write a journal. Can’t. How do you write down the infinity…"
"THank you for sharing this. I still can't bring myself to say his name. Even here. I'm not even using MY real name here. I'm just so scared.
I'm so sorry for your loss. "
I want to scream that I loved him and he loved me
His name was Russell. I am Kelly. Russell and Kelly. I can say that here.
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- About my Loss:
- My best friend and love was killed March 2019. Grief is unbearable - especially alone.
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...both parents
I lost my mama to cancer after her 10 month battle with Vulvar Cancer and I had to witness some very horrific days. She suffered so much and I tried to be there with her as much as I could but she did not survive this monster and passed away.my dad was also battening lung disease and he passed away 7 weeks later. I am 32 and no siblings and no family of my own.some days I feel lost and I don't know if I can carry on...See More
The Wheels on (My Grief) Bus Go Round and Round...
New Year - 2025!At the start of the year I returned to Thailand for another medical mission. This was my fourth trip for this and I was somewhat ready/prepared for the heightened emotions. Not sure why...no real connection to Jen or her accident, but in the past these trips offer some extended alone time, away from others, away from people that speak the same language and as such seem to bring the thoughts back to the forefront. Strangely, the same levels of emotionality were not there. Not…See More
"Dottie, do you find the anniversary dates to still be as emotionally difficult as the first couple times? I find that some years, it is very fresh and raw, others almost (almost) slip by without fanfare."
"So sorry for you with his passing. That is rough, that there has been so much time between the initial diagnosis and the final moments. On top of the 'normal' grief, you may also start to feel relief, which is likely to add to the…"
My husband passed away
My husband passed away last Saturday after a long illness. His memorial service is next week. We have three boys, ages 14, 11, and 6. I'm glad I found this place. It seems to be a place of great caring and support. I actually registered here a while before my husband's passing, as I was grieving for his loss after he entered a nursing home. He had been there since the end of 2008, after being diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer's disease in 2006 and deteriorating quickly. He was only 58 when…See More
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