I went through the very same thing.It took me about 3-4 years to begin to cope with each one of my losses.And one day,9 days after my mother passed, I had an after-death experience,in which I saw and communicated with the spirit of my deceased mother.The next day,I had a near-death experience,an experience that changed my life forever.

There is a movie on the internet,"This move will change your life forever",It's story about a man who lost his wife,and his conversation with the girl next door.If you have not seen it,please watch this NOW,from the fist word to the very last one!I had an experience JUST LIKE THIS ONE,and I think it will help you.

If you need anything,please don't hesitate to contact me!

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Bob, I know what you mean about taking so long to recover. I've had multiple losses and before I can mourn one person, the other one dies. In the last five years I've lost, my mom, two brothers, two aunties, my great aunt, my sister in law, my moms best friend my uncle, my boyfriend. The people am listing are those that were ver close to me, there have been other painful losses too. If it takes me 2-3 years to recover from every loss, I'm counting almost twenty years.......I hope not.

   Thanks for the reply.Again,I know how you feel.I can't say for sure,but if you truly believe my experiences,it will cut mourning time WAY down!I still feel sad at times,There are triggers everywhere you go( a song,a place where you used to eat out,etc...),please understand that this is normal to feel the hurt,considering what we have been through,and it will get better.Just remember,I know exactally where they are,and I can re-assure you,without a shadow of a doubt,that they are fine,and they are in a place of great beauty,and one day, we will all be together again,for eternity!!!

Bob, I typed in "This movie will change your life forever" on google, got several results and a link to the movie trailer but it doesn't say how to get the movie online. Do you have that link?

Thanks,

Mercy.

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