missing my husband :(

i have been in situations that i never had to deal with before... like my truck need tires, i dont know anything about cars ... people try to take advantage of me cause they see me alone ..it might be stupid things but to me is sad that i dont have my husband no more ..is sad to realize im on my own now!... i dont have no one to protect me.. to turn too..to call... :*( ... not only this but my kids miss their dad .> we miss going camping..going out to eat or stay home n watch a movie but now is all gone forever!!! im living with a hole in my heart n it hurts alot >>>. sometimes i feel like going with him so bad!! i miss my rock!!

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Permalink Reply by anna l. on August 14, 2011 at 9:17pm
I know Adriana, I know.  It hurts so bad to not have the person you loved so much gone.  My husband and I were a team.  We were good together as Im sure you and your husband were.  I was a better person with him at my side, and I always knew he had my back when things got tough.  I feel as alone as you do and it stinks!!!!  Maybe you have a friend whos husband can go with you to get tires for your truck?  Im lucky in that my kids are grown, married and able to help me when things like that come up.  I havent needed it yet, but I know they are there.  Im sure you have had friends and family offering to help you.  Now is the time to let them.  It will make them feel better too because Im coming to realize they are feeling as helpless to help me as I was to help my husband.  So Im learning to ask for help when I need it.  Hugs from one sad wife to another.
Permalink Reply by adriana gonzalez on August 14, 2011 at 10:27pm
Thank u anna.. Yes I feel like u.. I don't understand why? is just so hard dealing with this.. I left my house.. I'm staying with my parents.. My family have help me a lot I just hope one day I could be ok..

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