My boyfriends dad died Dec 3rd. I spent that night with him and he was in complete shock. I left the next morning on loving and supporting terms. We then found out that I am pregnant (6 weeks) He then became a little distant, bit flaky and started to no show up when he said he would and one night didn't even turn up at all or call to say that he wasn't. The calls and messages have fast dried up to the point he will not even pick up at all. The funeral service is today (I haven't met his family and he didn't want me at he service) and when I sent a warm and loving best wishes on this difficult day message - I wasn't even expecting a response but then he removed his message profile picture ??? Has he left me and our baby? Do I need to considering progressing this pregnancy alone? I know he is in a world of pain right now and its so painful to be so distant from him right now. How do I support him and save myself also? Please - can anyone shed some light?

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