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"Val - My grief DOES include wanting to die and this will be the same for as long as…"

Pam replied Feb 28, 2015 to My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.

1019 Jan 7, 2023
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"I feel I must comment here. Bluebird is right - there are many of us who wish to die…"

Pam replied Feb 28, 2015 to My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.

1019 Jan 7, 2023
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"Dear Bluebird It doesn't get easier does it? Reading other's posts, some have found…"

Pam replied Feb 22, 2015 to My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.

1019 Jan 7, 2023
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"Val Like you I smoke more now which does act as a stress reliever. I too am almost…"

Pam replied Jan 7, 2015 to My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.

1019 Jan 7, 2023
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"I just read your post Val and those words from Emmanuel Swedenbourg really helped -…"

Pam replied Jan 6, 2015 to My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.

1019 Jan 7, 2023
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"Ive found the distractions seem only to 'work' for a short time, holding back the da…"

Pam replied Nov 20, 2014 to My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.

1019 Jan 7, 2023
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"Zell Tuesday must have been awful for you, and it must be so draining - well almost…"

Pam replied Nov 20, 2014 to My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.

1019 Jan 7, 2023
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"Bluebird Yes - I can see that it was despair rather than courage. I used to be able…"

Pam replied Nov 20, 2014 to My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.

1019 Jan 7, 2023
Reply by bluebird

"I truly feel for you Apple & my heart goes out to you and your children. My husb…"

Pam replied Nov 18, 2014 to My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.

1019 Jan 7, 2023
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"Bluebird Yes I totally understand why you'd prefer a quick death. I would too, but…"

Pam replied Nov 18, 2014 to My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.

1019 Jan 7, 2023
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