Yesterday, I had to pick up copies of George's death certificates and it totally devastated me. It did not bother me when I received the copies, I pretended that it did not bother me because I put the copies face down in the back of the car and did not look at them until later that night. I have not read the whole certificate but after I skimmed it looking at the cause of death I fell apart but I forced myself to hold it together until I started sobbing while watching TV with our daughter. I…See More
"Val, thank you for your reply. I am so sorry for your loss. Our worlds were turned inside out almost a week ago and from what I keep reading, time will help and even during this last week I have had periods where I am ok and then other times I am…"
lost my husband last saturday at home, had 7 extra months which gave us time to adjust (if thats possible) and was with him and know he heard me and hes still with me . Have had several strange occurences , they say coincidence is w…"
"Hi Mary! So glad to find you who understand what I wrote about! Yes, we have grief and miss our loved ones, but we also have the good things that God gives us. How sad that your guest wasn't open to the experience of the service you brought her…"
"Susan, I love reading your post, you have a wonderful way with words. I came to this site looking for answers. The Grief Share group I attended was disappointing. It was held at a church but they seemed to avoid the mention of God.…"
"In the interest of not being misunderstood, I'm adding to my last post.
I am not trying to say I am special in any way. We are all loved by God as much as the next person. Any gifts God has given to me are available to anyone else should they…"
"I know that there really is NO solution to our pain today. We can comfort one another, but the pain is still there.
One thing that helps me through the pain of such loss is HOPE. I try hard (it doesn't work every day) to look forward to a…"
"I wake up every morning and cry, it just happens, I tell my mom I miss her. Next week she would have been 93
My nerves are wreaking havoc on my body, my stomach, my back aches.
I'm tired, I just try to keep going."
"So many comments resonate. Stewart, Morgan, Charlie, Bluebird, and others. Morgan, your comment (I'm paraphrasing) of no where to go, but all the time in the world, to go there'......this is what I keep stumbling over. I'll be doing…"
"Stewart, I can't begin to say how really glad that I didn't. I'm still struggling with the reminders and triggers, but at the same time I'm so very happy to be home where we shared so many wonderful times."
"My faith has not been tested due to the death of my husband. My faith is helping me through the difficult times. It has helped me through the difficult years prior to his death and still helps me now. Without my love relationship with the Lord I…"
This group was started because many are hurting so bad that their faith has been effected. This is a place you can vent or even ask questions that brother you. Can the Bible or God help you through your grief? Who is the cause of death? See More
"I too am saddened that anyone is here...as you ... most of us are devastated by a traumatic loss in which we find coping difficult....here, I at least find those who understand the immense pain and dramatic life altering circumstances we find…"
"I am so angry right now. I cannot believe I was left behind to have to deal with reconstructing a life. I don’t want any part of this but I am unable to take my own life. To have to keep pushing myself to do things because I…"