"Been here less often in the past 3 weeks. Connie, This is the home my son and me were for the past 10 years and it holds memories and lot of fun times with Shreyas. My parents too are next door so it was really nice. Since i came here alone before…"
"WHEN WILL IT END?!!!!! Since I posted in March, the 18 loved ones previously spoken of has increased. I lost two childhood friends, a grandfather figure, and a cousin. I am absolutely beside myself, afraid. I can't bring myself to befriend…"
"My sister told me that she missed how I used to be so enthusiastic about everything. I told her I will never be the same. I know that is a loss for her as well. I get it but it doesn't make it an less hurtful. It's not like you can flip a…"
"chell, there will never be a fresh start. when we lose our only child, nothing feels real any more. I have lost what I thought were close friends over the last few months. I am different now, im empty, and I don't care about any thing any…"
"for me iv had 2 mush death in lst 3 yrs or so blue i did i snapet aftr my lst loss in july i got mad at him/her yea a lot of 1s i lost had bad habits i bet him/her has bad habits coz we all do
on my dads sde of famly thy cristins…"
"Has anyone made a fresh start, moved away from the city you lived in? I have wanted to leave this state for quite some time, but I feel even more trapped now. To those who have people in their lives urging them to move on and quit the grieving, I…"
I know what you mean -- believe me, though I do not share your views, I do respect you and your right to hold those views. I know you are in a pain similar to mine, and I wish neither of us (nor anyone else) were feeling this and living in…"
"I hear you and I understand what you are saying Bluebird. I also respect anyone else's views and am very aware that people can and do take offense - on both sides. Anger is such a normal and expected response to the loss we all feel…"
"I understand, Zell. At the same time, i have to tell you that reading god-positive comments, especially very christian ones, angers and upsets me, and i'm sure some others who feel as i do. I have had people, on this site and others, thank me…"
"I hear you Bluebird, I do. I respect your right to express your views and it is your absolute right - as long as it does not cause disillusionment for others who are vulnerable, hurting and grappling for answers to this hurt.
"Bluebird, I love and respect you and you are entitled to your views - we all are, but please don't steal away any possible hope and comfort that others may find in what you do not believe in. Don't snuff out the only chance…"
I am so sorry for your loss. My loss is different: I lost my life partner earlier this year, the love of my life. But we share a common sorrow in the very essence of loss. I do have a son - he is 22 and I can only imagine what it…"
I don't understand why god, if there is one, allows us to suffer (not just Christians, who are no better or worse than anyone else, but all people). I do not at all believe that the reasons in which Zell believes are correct. If there is a…"