That's what it was like for me as well, though I relied on my intuition more knowingly, as it had never steered me wrong before. I think I feel more betrayed than I otherwise would have, because of that. Betrayed by god, if there is…"
"I'm so blessed to have received so many signs from my Husband's spirit. Also deceased loved ones uses nature to communicate with us. Last week a little baby bee came flying on rear view mirror. It never moved until I tapped on rear view…"
"I too have felt a sort of betrayal feeling because unknowingly, I think I relied on an "inner sense" for a long time. I didn't even define it as being "psychic", I only know now this is what I was experiencing because…"
"Bluebird try not to think of it as faith if your mind is blocked through grief. As you say just believe what you can see and that you know is real. Just let the love you hold for him be your guide but be open to any signs or messages."
"I don't seem to be able to trust anything anymore, though, especially my own perceptions/intuition, which I used to trust very much.
I was agnostic, but believed that if there was a god then it was probably a loving god. I am no longer…"
I will join this discussion concerning the afterlife, as this question has been foremost on my mind since the passing of my beloved husband who I lost to lung cancer this past August. I am of the Muslim faith and Joseph was a…"
"Bluebird I'm not aware of any abilities although as a child I had a couple of dreams were I saw scenes and events and then the same scenes events happened later exactly as I had dreamed them. Since my boyfriend died there have been a few things…"
"Do you generally have medium/psychic abilities (if you don't mind my asking)?
I do have psychic abilities, or used to, though they've done me no good in communicating with my husband so they're useless. As a result (maybe), I…"
"Bluebird I'm glad the name had some meaning as it maybe your husband was trying to send you a message of love through me. I also kept getting a pain in my head. I also wish my boyfriend would just appear and I would know it was real as like you…"
"I have had possible signs from my husband, but I find that I am not able to maintain for long any faith that they are actually signs from him, rather than wishful thinking on my part. I so much need to know that my husband still exists, that he…"
"Thank you for the advice bluebird as I don't know what to believe but I will keep an open mind and go with the flow. I think he still connects with my thoughts. I didn't write poems before he died and I believe he helps me to write them. I…"
A (very) free version of the Lord's Prayer according to some ideas of my late father Robert Wallisch (1925-2014).
I can see the sunlight
I can hear the rain
I can taste the sugar, Lord
And I do feel the pain
You light the stars for every…
I've read that that's one of the ways to tell if a "dream" visit/appearance by a dead loved one is actually a real visitation -- if the person sort of cuts into a regular dream, having nothing to do with whatever that…"