Anger

Hello to all.  I would like to get some feedback on how long does it take before your anger goes away.  I am stuggling with packing up the house and moving out of it and the state.  He left me and I sit in this house and wonder why he left me.  I know he is in a better place, but I would rather have him here with me.  So, if there is anyone out there who I can chat with about these feelings.  Thanks, Denise

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Permalink Reply by Brittany Hensley on February 14, 2011 at 6:24pm
I understand your anger. I too am experiencing A LOT of anger. I lost my husband two weeks ago and the day he passed my mother-in-law and I got into an argument and she kicked me out. So not only did I have the shock of loosing my husband I had to pack up my 1 year old daughter and move and ten o'clock at night. I too spend all day wondering why I "wasn't good enough" for him to stay. The only hope I can suggest is that EVENTUALLY it will all be ok. Sorry about your lose. Brittany
Permalink Reply by Denise DeChant-Murray on February 14, 2011 at 8:28pm
Brittany:  Thank you for your response.  Did he die suddenly, did you expect it?  I did not expect Michael to never leave the hospital.  I know it will get better, but it doesn't erase the anger of having to get through this life now without him.  We didn't have children, lost one, but he had a son and we get along.  What makes me so bloody mad is that we were having problems and wanted to leave Georgia, but never did.  Now I am packing up and moving without him, sadly.....  You and your little one will survive, you have a guardian angel up there looking out for the two of you.  Denise
Permalink Reply by Brittany Hensley on February 15, 2011 at 9:57am
He did go suddenly. It was an accidental over dose. I woke up and rolled over to wake him and he was gone.

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