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Multiple Losses Group

I am creating this site for the many of us who have suffered several losses. I lost my mom, dad, grandma(2nd mom), grandpa, my beloved dog and divorce. Many of us have lost more than one person or event. Come share!

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Too many in a short time.

Hey everyone,  since May of 2020 I lost my birth mother with whom I had established a good relationship.  In June my stepmother who raised me passed away. July was a break. August they found my…Continue

Started by Nina M Helme Mar 21.

Lost dad an wife within a month. 2 Replies

On March 12 my last living hero passed away from lung cancer. He is the greatest man ive ever known. He loved us all unconditionally no matter our mistakes. He was always honest and to the point and…Continue

Started by Shane Hughes. Last reply by Penny Feb 7.

From 2/7/2019 to 4/13/2020

On February 7, 2020 my father passed. Two months and two days later on April 9, my husband passed. That December, my nephew was murdered. In March of 2020, my aunt passed. One year and four days…Continue

Started by Pennywyze Jan 15.

Car accident and the a suicide 5 Replies

Hello. My name is sara. So on the 18th of feb at exactly 3pm my grandad passed away then at 3.02pm my nan died. They were involved in a massive car accident. And they were gone. That day change my…Continue

Started by Sara. Last reply by Joe von Anjou Aug 15, 2020.

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Comment by Pam 20 hours ago
Hi Sapphire Girl,
Welcome to the group:-)
Comment by the sapphire girl 22 hours ago

hello this is brinda, I lost my father 3 months ago and currently in my 20's, I lost my mother years ago, and now I can't help but asking that is this supposed to be my life, tormented by pain and memories.

My sister in law does not like my crying and me breaking into sudden outbursts, and my family is orthodox about mental health issues, and this life at this moment feels like mid sea, only water to drown.

Comment by Pam on July 1, 2021 at 9:47pm
I'm so grateful to find you all. Sorry for your loss. I lost both parents and pet in the last two years and others close ones to my heart in the last three years. I never thought I would miss them like this but God has blessed me with feeling them so close. I know they are still with us. Peace to All
Comment by Wes Raincloud on May 14, 2021 at 10:40pm

The last time I talked to my dad he was dying. When my mother passed away, I kissed her and told her goodbye. My baby brother and sister tho I have a difficult time letting go of. They were central to the main role I took in life. (that of big brother). I lost 3 family members in three years' time and it has changed me. I was my sister's primary care person and I watched her go downhill healthwise and mentally so that I'm not the same happy-go-lucky person, I once was. I don't know what I am doing wrong. just sayin'.

Comment by Catharine Mackanyn on April 28, 2021 at 8:24am

Hi, my name is Catharine. I have lost my mom in 2019. Then 15 days after I had her funeral, my siblings sue me. I have lost them too. It's a horrible feeling that I have loved my siblings for 54 years and to find out they just put up with me because of my mom. I don't have my mom no more, so they are bully me to see the house that I am living in. they think that they entitled to some of the money when the house is sold. I haven't cried yet for my mom because of the second loss I am dealing with. I really need support. That's why I have joined.

Comment by Catharine Mackanyn on April 27, 2021 at 7:24pm

Hi my name is Catharine and I am new to all of it. I need as much support that is offered. I am a daughter that was grieving for her Mom at first. I was her caregiver, I was her family to ever help her in anyway through her life. she need the help. I was in shock to how bad my mom was off. She really needed help. I stepped up and did that. I am glad that she got to enjoy most of the things that I had done for. 

after 15 days of her funeral, My siblings have sued me for my mom's choices that she had made. Life changed and so did her will and I am at fault. I have loss everything I ever known in my live.

 How does one cope with that. Can anyone help with that. We are all struggling with our pain. Is there anyone who who like to share their story?

Comment by dream moon JO B on April 8, 2021 at 4:23pm

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Comment by dream moon JO B on April 6, 2021 at 4:02pm

i loss my om mom yday fealin so nummagan i wish i cdu cry bt cnt lk my da in 2012 num angr denilw so on or silly comemtss i had 

Comment by Penny on February 11, 2021 at 10:00pm

I'm just tryna see how everyone is doing.

Comment by Penny on February 7, 2021 at 5:05am

I don't know how often we should come into the groups and talk with each other. I've never really been very social, but I'm learning to be more social. Please bear with me. 

Today marks two years since my dad passed away. I'm still trying to figure out how it's already been two years. Sometimes, I like to believe that he has just taken off with no forwarding address. When he was alive, especially after his divorce from mom, he would just leave the area. Several times, he left and went towards Austin. At least once, he went to North Carolina. He had Momma Beth, his sister in Brady, Tx, and Aunt Lorna in Morganton, NC. He passed away in Livingston, Tx, and I didn't have the opportunity to say goodbye. So, I have to find different ways to fulfill the need to have closure. If there's a such thing. 

Love you, dad

 

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Loss of my father in law and mother 7 days apart

I lost my father in law who I lived with and took care of so I was really close to him on april 28th 2021 and 1 week later on may 5th 2021 I lost my mother. My mother had made the choice to go comfort care. After she saw my dad and I that morning she changed her mind. About 3 hours later the hospital called my mom wanted to go to comfort care. I drove the 45 minutes to be with her. Here agitation was so bad they have her ativan. She was still coherent and knew what she wanted. But could not…See More
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Losing parents in your 20's

Dear anyone reading this, I can't write anymore, I can't. I never understood till now that writing, expressing is a privilege I am denied.When you have one parent to rely on, they kind of become your family, just like my father and me, my house has every comfort one could require in a home, but for me it ceased to be my home.Every morning when I wake up in the morning, and descend slowly towards the hall, I feel like my mind is taking a journey through past, a past of 2 months ago, I stare at…See More
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