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How do people find something positive every day after the loss of their spouse?
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I just learned about this on-line support group and decided to join.  I am just trying to find some good things in this new world without the love of my life.  We were together for over 33 years and…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Dennis C. Sep 29, 2018.

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Dennis C. replied to Jim Horvath's discussion How do people find something positive every day after the loss of their spouse?
"I am very sorry for your loss Jim I gain strength from the hope we have for the future. I believe that we WILL be reunited with our loved ones. The Bible gives us this promise:  John 5:25 — “Most truly I say to you, the hour is…"
Sep 29, 2018
Jim Horvath left a comment for Nicole
"I am so sorry for your loss.  I wish I knew what to say to you in order to ease your pain, but I don't.  This forum may help you see that a lot of people go through losses and grief.  I try to stay busy and try every day to write…"
Sep 26, 2018
Jim Horvath replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"You already know this BB, but there are no words anyone can offer.  There is nothing that will ever replace him.  I find some comfort in looking at pictures and reading old cards we gave to one another for birthdays, Mother's day,…"
Sep 26, 2018
Jim Horvath replied to Jim Horvath's discussion How do people find something positive every day after the loss of their spouse?
"Life without her does suck.  I really try to see the good things in the world and hang on to those-like my daughter and I cooking together, going out and getting a coffee with her, etc.  I am sorry for your loss Beth-just try to take it…"
Sep 26, 2018
Jim Horvath replied to Jim Horvath's discussion How do people find something positive every day after the loss of their spouse?
"I am so sorry for your loss, Joe.  I think your idea about my daughter joining is really good and I appreciate that.  Like you, I choose to believe we will be reunited one day and I find some solace in that.  I don't know what…"
Sep 26, 2018
Jim Horvath replied to Jim Horvath's discussion How do people find something positive every day after the loss of their spouse?
"thank you!  Keep doing that...I do my positive notes in the am, which is when I feel the best right now"
Sep 25, 2018
Beth Swansboro replied to Jim Horvath's discussion How do people find something positive every day after the loss of their spouse?
"I have never after 3 years found any answers yet. I am so lonely and lost I barely get through each day. I TRY nd keep things together for my son. My life just feels over. I find enjoyment in Nothing. I understand how you feel Jim. Life Does suck!!!…"
Sep 25, 2018
ALEXIS replied to Jim Horvath's discussion How do people find something positive every day after the loss of their spouse?
"Jim, I am also new to this group and to this experience. I lost my husband of 20 years a little over a month ago. I too worry about how to be there four our 19 yr old daughter. As far as how to find something positive each day, that is challenging.…"
Sep 25, 2018
Jim Horvath commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"My wife and best friend of 33 years died from cancer recently.  We have a daughter.  I just wonder how people find anything happy and positive each day?  I started a journal where I try to write down little things that were good or…"
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How do people find something positive every day after the loss of their spouse?

I just learned about this on-line support group and decided to join.  I am just trying to find some good things in this new world without the love of my life.  We were together for over 33 years and the sadness and grief is overpowering.  I want and need to help my 21 year old daughter too, but man it is hard.  I feel like I went from a perfect life to a life that will always suck...See More
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Live in TN. Lost my wife in August and we have a 21 year old daughter
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Love of my life and my reason for being. Together for over 33 years
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