Melissa Broome
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Did your loved ones tell you they saw are did they talk to loved ones that passed b4 them?
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My mom woke up one day and asked me where her dad went..I said mom what are you talking about. She said my dad was just here..where did he go. he saved me from dying. I didn't doubt she saw him but…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Sandra Nichols Jan 3, 2012.

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About Me:
I'm 30 yrs old..Married for 13 yrs I have 3 handsome boys James 7, Matthew 5, Nathan 2
About my Loss:
I lost my mother April 7th 2011..She had colon cancer..We didn't know..until one morning she stood and her femur snapped in half..On Feb 9 th 2011. from there we found out she had cancer then we found out it was colon cancer stage 4. and it had already spread to all of her other organs bones included. She came home with us March 3rd and declined very quickly. She was only 53..I miss her everyday

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I am Invisible Friday, October 28, 2011 at 10:34pm

No one sees me or hears when I cry out, No one to catch me if I fall.

I am a tidal wave strong and unyielding.

I am a lonely rock beneath the sea stuck under the sand.

I am Invisible

I am a bird shot from the sky never to fly again.

I am a Rose in a garden overgrown, old and withered Never to be picked.

I am Invisible

I am the wind cold and icy.

I am a cloud in a storm dark, wet and waiting to disappear, So the sun can shine once…

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Posted on November 12, 2011 at 2:13pm — 3 Comments

My life sucks part 2 Tuesday, May 10, 2011 at 1:14am

Do I have to talk to anyone? Or look at them? Can I hate everyone? YES i CAN CAUSE IT'S MY LIFE! can I really ignore you when you talk to me. yup sure can.. Does it make me a b**ch you may think so..but I'm not just fed up.. I have no room left for caring or talking..or even listening my body is filled with as much crap I can handle..my heart is broken..can I hate everyone prob not but I can sure as hell not like as many people as I want! I need time!! will I ever be the same prob not but…

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Posted on November 12, 2011 at 2:12pm

My life sucks! Thursday, March 24, 2011 at 3:28am

You know I had high hopes for this year..January was boring long and uneventful. Feb. started out with promise and quickly turned into a pile of shit. Not only did my mom break her femur but we also found out she had stage 4 colon cancer. we started out with pretty high hopes of treatment that  was demolished quite quickly. Now she's been at home since the 3rd of March. We had about 9 good days with her..but she's slipping quickly and all I can do…

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Posted on November 12, 2011 at 2:09pm

Notes I have written my mom since she passed on 04/7/11

I honestly can't believe your gone..I have missed you long before you left us this morning. I'm so glad your not in pain anymore. But it doesn't excuse the fact I wish you were still with us. It's unfair how you were taken from us so soon. I love and I will miss you forever♥ April 7th 7:58 pm

 

Heard your voice today..it was hard but the most beautiful thing I have ever…
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Posted on November 12, 2011 at 2:04pm

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At 11:24am on December 8, 2014, Juliana said…

Hi , how are you doing? My name is Juliana, I really want to have a good friendship with you. I have something very very important I really want to discuss with you alone okay. Please my dear, I want you to write me back through this my email address okay: juliana4love_rubaian@outlook.com

At 1:08pm on September 15, 2014, Corinne Gibson said…

Hi Melissa, 

I have read a little about the loss of your mom from your profile, but I was wondering if you would be interested in sharing a little more of your story with me. I am part of a research team at Saint Louis University that is looking at end of life decision making and family communication. If you are interested in taking part in an interview, please let me know. 

Best,

Corinne Gibson

At 6:46pm on August 22, 2012, Jayne said…

I would love to be part of your group!

At 6:45pm on August 22, 2012, Jayne said…

It kills me too that I lost my mom, my best friend a few weeks ago to Pancreatic Cancer. I get up everyday with a hole in my heart. I would love to talk and find and give support to others.

At 5:30pm on July 22, 2012, Mary Norris said…

Hello,

I'm Mary Norris and was wondering if I could have an invite to the group that you created called Having Issues Coping with life after mom has passed I lost my mom on Mary 27th of this year and I found that group to look very interesting and thought it would be helpful for me grieving for my mom and being able to move forward in my life.

Sincerely,

Mary Norris

At 10:11pm on May 22, 2012, Storyas Fawnfeather said…

Melissa, I was commenting and something happened, so you may get a half a message from me.  i'm starting over now in case you don't get any of it.  Thank you for inviting me to be your friend.  I am sorry it took so long to respond.  I haven't been on for a while.  i read some of your blog, and I'm sorry for the loss of your mom.  I know how you feel.  My mom was my best friend in the world.  Once she found out she was sick, she declined so fast.  The world changed too fast for me to be able to get used to it.  I saw your pictures.  I think you are the young woman with the medium brown hair.  You are very pretty, and you are so young to loose your mother already.  I am so sorry for your loss.  I hope you have had experiences since your mom died that you know are her letting you know she is okay.  And, it is okay for you to feel all of the ways you said you feel in your blog.  My brother-in-law just lost his nephew to violence with no warning, and my sister's emails sounded just like your blog.  It sucks, but that is how bad grief feels.  I'm so sorry you are going through all of this.

At 11:25pm on December 14, 2011, MIchael A Ballard said…

Thank you Melissa.  I tend to see the light side often, but believe me, when the darkness comes I immediately look for my flashlight.

I wish I did writings for a living.  Glad I make you laugh.

I do know what you mean about 'that feeling'.  It's really unexplaineable.  Can't really put into words.  

Although there is something very convincing about the experience of our dream visit.  I call it a dream visit cuz it is a dream and a visit in one.  Definitely not an ordinary everyday dream though.  You know what I mean!

I think you are amazing too and thank you for your friendship!

There is magic in the air.  Keep breathing....

Hug back,

Michael

At 8:06pm on December 10, 2011, Tracy Roche said…

Thank you Melissa...I am kinda lost regarding this sight. I do not know how to navigate. It does not help that I am a pc doorknob in training. I know about what you said about everyone being different. I keep wanting to run when I get here. I am scared...and I do not know if that is just me?I have so much anxiety. Is there like an open forum or something? You are my first person I spoke with. I am sorry if I am not doing the right thing and putting a burden on you.

At 12:11pm on December 6, 2011, Betsy Arnold said…

Hi Melissa,

   I am so sorry for your loss as well. It is good to find others who are going through similar feelings. Even though the losses may be different and we go through the feelings at different times, the feelings themselves are very much the same. I hate that others have to experience the hurt and pain of loss, but I'm glad we have understanding and support and know that we are not alone. That helps tremendously. Hugs to you, Betsy

At 9:41pm on December 5, 2011, GM Akehurst said…

Thank you for the warm welcome. I appreciate it .

 
 
 

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