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"You poor thing. I remember it well and still feel it often. It’s a tidal wave. I see mine coming at me now when it comes. But it is no longer constant. There is nothing anyone can say or do to ease your pain. But we can listen and sit in it…"
"It is overwhelming. You will learn to recognize when it’s coming, delay your reaction until it is an appropriate time for you to let those feelings out, sleep and eat normally, and even have some feeling other than sadness again. You learn to…"
"Thank you Robin. Here I am the day before looking for something to help, connection to people who have the same feelings. Our tribe of support that we all need. Maybe if what I have gone thru can help someone else it will help me too."
"Hello Robin. It always takes me time to reply to people who post in here. I need rest and sleep before I can write one word without throwing myself back to day one, where it’s so raw and constant and dark. And that’s where you are since…"
"Callie - I am sorry for what you are about to go through. I read your post a while ago and couldn’t even reply right away. Too painful to hear. You are very articulate about your relationship - unshakable, no written words, no photographs.…"
"I found out when Russell did not message me for 18 hours. I convinced myself that he had broken his phone. But then I did a quick search. All good until I hit the “News” button. Three articles popped up about the accident. It took me the…"
"Hello Money -
So sorry you are going through this. I wish I had a magic thing to say about coming to peace with it. All I can tell you is that you need to gather around you some people who make you feel supported and that in time it will become…"
"Kelly I have written over weekend, have you rec’d it. I’m still having trouble navigating here!!"
"I'm sorry for your loss..you can say his name here..I totally understand you. Sending hugs."
"But if you want to talk about him and your relationship and how wonderful it is you can tell me. I would love to know."
"Me too. I couldn’t even type anything in here 2 years ago. There is an online group workshop called Writing Your Grief I’ve been encouraged to do. I’ve been told to write a journal. Can’t. How do you write down the infinity…"
"THank you for sharing this. I still can't bring myself to say his name. Even here. I'm not even using MY real name here. I'm just so scared.
I'm so sorry for your loss. "
I want to scream that I loved him and he loved me
His name was Russell. I am Kelly. Russell and Kelly. I can say that here.
Profile Information
- About my Loss:
- My best friend and love was killed March 2019. Grief is unbearable - especially alone.
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"Kali
I’m so so sorry you are going through this. Grief is hard enough, but going through it secretly, all the while having to continue showing up for your kids, is just brutal.
Perhaps your friend was careful to hide your conversations behind…"
It was not supposed to be like this
In 2014 I met the most amazing man ever. We were both in our very early 20s and were looking for different things at the time. We ceased communication for roughly 6 months. During which time, he completed basic training and joined the Air Force. By the time we reconnected he was already at his first duty station.. 8 hours away.We decided we wanted to continue our relationship and proceeded to cultivate a deeply emotional connection. Regular calls and video chats, visits while he was home on…See More
Being the Other Woman/Other Man
This is for anyone who has lost their lover to death and you were the other woman/other man in their life. We have to grieve in silence. I can't find any support groups and feel like I'm the only one going through this situationSee More
A Return to GriefShare and a Crisis of Identity
So I found myself headed back to the GriefShare support group last Monday. I was actually considering stopping my attending. Not because anything has been solved or fixed or resolved, but because things had settled down, and my problems have moved onto other issues. Then on a random scroll down Facebook lane, I see a posting from Jen's sister, Dallas, that her oldest daughter, Brooklyn, had been killed in Omaha a few days past. This tore me up. This family has endured more pain than any…See More
Loss of a loved one to alcohol, substance abuse or suicide
If you have lost a loved one to alcohol, substance abuse or suicide please share your story or feelings here. Share the love and beauty of the one you lost. Losing someone any of these ways is not natural and can be hard to understand and ask why? I lost my Mother to an overdose 9 years ago. She also suffered from major depression. Her doctor got her hooked on pain medication and she was addicted most of my life. These doctors who were suppose to help her ended up killing her in the end. I also…See More
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