"I think that we learn to compartmentalize. Which means that we just start putting things in boxes, so to speak.
Our loss, grief, and pain never stops, but we put all of that in a box in our heart. We feel it, but we have other compartments (boxes)…"
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Dennis C.
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When Someone You Love Dies
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A link to a brochure that discusses this topic with questions like these:3 “It Can’t Be True!”7 Is It Normal to Feel This Way?14 How Can I Live With My Grief?20 How Can Others Help?26 A Sure Hope for…Continue
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Dennis C. replied to Dennis C.'s discussion When Someone You Love Dies"Yes people do judge.
Jesus himself said
Matthew 7:1 — “Stop judging that YOU may not be judged;"
Pretty clear to me. We should not judge anyone."
jb (jo) replied to Dennis C.'s discussion When Someone You Love Dies"tth son thee goast the father of th holy sprit i hear it alot i no i beleve in goast peple say im a bit silly for belivin thm i bleve in sprits i no a prest alwats says it iv herd fr s say it a lot he doese
his th presast it did my dads…"
Dennis C. commented on Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group Traumatic, Sudden Loss"Marilyn
You are absolutely correct. This is a terrible pain. An agony really. No words can truly express the anguish that we can feel in our hearts.
the Bible says this:
Romans 8:22 — For we know that all creation keeps on groaning together…"
Dennis C. commented on Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group Traumatic, Sudden Loss"I lost a dear friend on Wednesday to a terrible accident. He fell off a roof and suffered a fatal brain injury. He was only 12 feet high. But he landed head first (the the back of his head) on a concrete driveway.
How true the Bible is when it…"
Dennis C. replied to Dennis C.'s discussion When Someone You Love Dies"The thing is jb that people who don't forgive will NOT be forgiven by our Heavenly Father.
Notice what Jesus said
Matthew 6:14 — “For if YOU forgive men their trespasses, YOUR heavenly Father will also forgive YOU;"
Matthew…"
Dennis C. joined TThuy NTran's group
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It is a great pleasure for me to have you on my page. “Everlasting Memories Ecard”. This page I am very proud of. On this page you will find a lot of beautiful images, famous quotations, poem & poetry which have inspired people the most inspiring words of all time. Most are my very own images that I have created. Few have been given to me by family & friends and few I have found off other wonderful sites.It's easy to encourage, share your feelings. You can stay in touch with anyone you…See More
jb (jo) replied to Dennis C.'s discussion When Someone You Love Dies"it will be grt wen it hapens
all i no if god can fogivee us for our trespasss nd sins why cnt othrs fogiv us wen othrs hav dun worse bean fogivn"
Dennis C. replied to Dennis C.'s discussion When Someone You Love Dies"I really like this scripture:
Psalms 37:11 — But the meek ones themselves will possess the earth, And they will indeed find their exquisite delight in the abundance of peace.
Notice PEACE!!!
No more war, violence of any kind,…"
jb (jo) replied to Dennis C.'s discussion When Someone You Love Dies"ty plesed u lik thm
it will be grt wen ther is no mor death no more pain or ill helth
no more tornadaso or earh qrakes or huricans
no more terisams wish is getbng realy bad "
Dennis C. replied to Dennis C.'s discussion When Someone You Love Dies"All very BEAUTIFUL scriptures.
I do find that the only comfort I get is from Gods word the Bible.
I look forward to this:
Revelation 21:4 — And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning…"
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- About my Loss:
- I lost my father in law from Alzheimer's (he died in my arms)
I lost my father from lung cancer
I lost a 28 year old dear friend from adrenal cancer
My daughter has had two eptopic pregnancies and 4 other miscarriages (these were very painful)
My wife has fought cancer for 20 years (3 different battles with ovarian cancer)
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- I am a volunteer in family counseling.
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- At 2:55pm on May 10, 2013,
Bobby Wagner said… take one day at a time and live it like it is your last
- At 1:39pm on April 19, 2013,
Patricia Hoffman said… Hope is something I dont have right now, except maybe for me to try & get through another day, and hope these therrible OCD thoughts & depression will go away :(
- At 10:23am on April 19, 2013, Patricia Hoffman said…
Thank you for responding, everyday, I dont want to get up, I feel like I cant tackle another day, I just want to escape this nightmare & sleep....... :(
- At 1:32am on February 2, 2013, Brandon Stanley said…
Thank you so much for the link, I can't imagine the struggle your daughter had to go through.
- At 6:33pm on June 24, 2012, Mark said…
Dennis, you did bring me comfort. Your words. Thank you so much for them. I'm sorry for your loss.
- At 9:44am on March 30, 2012,
Brenda Ann said… Hello,
I am so sorry to hear about your family's struggles. Our faith is what sustains us. May I share a link? www.grief-and-comfort.com
Brenda
support@grief-and-comfort.com
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Marilyn Matthews commented on anne's blog post I saw God today!"This pic is from online...put on by someone named cutiezionist08..i think from glittergraphics.com...as soon as I read your account, I thought of this picture...."
Jeanne Potter commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer"Angela I am very sorry for your loss. It is not unusual to cry often after any loss of someone so close. I still cry over losing my husband and it is almost 2 1/2 years. What I think is so comforting in your story is all that you learned from your…"
"The sadness that is 24-7 has greatly affected my health, I went to greif counciling for a year and have a wonderful big sister that has been my life saver. Some days I think i'm ok but I cry every night in my sleep 2 years after Gabes death, i…"
Jeff R commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"It's tough when you lose several immediate family members at once...sometimes you wonder if it's some sort of endurance test. This happened to my cousin many years back. It took time and support from other family members for…"
anne posted a blog postI saw God today!
I have been befuddled over the passing of the 10 year old boy that was hit by a car last week. My grandchildren were in my care all last week so there wasn't much time for deep thought. Npw that I am alone now I'm having lots of thoughts about it, so I went to the farm for a little distraction, plus the grass out there really needed cutting. I brought my dog Zero with me. Zero's getting old and I want him to have a good summer. Anyway Zero and I took a trip to the farm. I buzzed around cutting…See More
Cynthia Gee commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Mark, I apologize in advance if I'm out of line but I worry about you. I am hurting too from the very recent death of my mom and probably couldn't lend a ton of advise, but having people to talk to is important. You sound…"
jb (jo) replied to Essie Jay's discussion Everything is Changing in the group I love my Dad."im so sory abot yore loss essie wen my dad died my harf sister wont me to throw evry thng out i did not wont to u cud say im a realy bad horder i dont lik throwng thngs out
im, 1 of thes i keap out of datee bill resepts i do iv kept his diarys…"
Angela Denny commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer"My mother survived breast cancer twice in her 50's, colon cancer at the age of 70 and was diagnosed last June with pancreatic cancer. Since her prognosis wasn't good, she and my father moved to my home so I could care for her. She lived…"
Angela Denny joined Katherine Ellis's group
Losing Someone to Cancer
This is for anyone who has lost somone to cancer. I lost my adopted Mom to breast cancer some years ago. She was everything I could have asked for. She loved me because I was just me. She also loved my family and children as if they were her own.See More
Franky Dillon joined Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group
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I am creating this site for the many of us who have suffered several losses. I lost my mom, dad, grandma(2nd mom), grandpa, my beloved dog and divorce.Many of us have lost more than one person or event.Come share!See More
"Dear family:
I say we are family as we are connected in our loss. We have a lot in common, we love greatly and when there is great love, there is great loss.
We are not alone, God is with us every moment. And, I know our beloved mothers are…"
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