Virginia G
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  • Southampton, PA
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Griefshare support groups
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Has anyone attended Griefshare support groups at local churches?  I looked at the included topics and it sounds very intense.  Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by AnneJ. Jun 12.

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Does anyone feel like daylight is for happy people and it feels strange?  The whole world around me feels as if I don’t belong in it.  I sleep during the day a lot, then am up at night but then when…Continue

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Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Avi, I hope your Dad is doing well.  That must have been hard on you being in the hospital.  I am also sorry you are having more guilt like me.  It’s a horrible feeling.  Also one that others don’t understand."
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Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"My boyfriend finally gave up.  I don’t blame him at all. And Brett I will tell you I don’t deserve the prayers, pray for my Mom please."
Jul 14
Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"So the dr talked to my therapist and he told her the same things he told me.  I had asked her to try to get more answers.  I actually feel worse because I had someone ask some doctors about using ventilators.  The oncologist told us…"
Jul 14
Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Pamela, Those are hurtful things you had to deal with.  I am so fortunate that drinking was never a frequent activity with most of my family.  The only thing I can say is this.  I am the one feeling guilty, desperately hoping my Mom…"
Jul 12
Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett, the dr may realize that he didn’t tell me what was going on in the hospital and that’s why I have all the questions.  I blame myself for getting upset with him, then not seeking him out but he might feel responsible. I…"
Jul 12
Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell, Are you having more symptoms to make you think this?  Or is it from the anxiety of the one you had?  Did they say how long it would take for it to resolve?  "
Jul 12
Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I’m so scared of everything.  Everything is so wrong.  Nothing makes sense.  I don’t know how to live or want to. "
Jul 12
Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Pamela, if you want to tell, what kind of things did she lie about?"
Jul 12
Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I already told the dr he could talk to my therapist.  I couldn’t get answers so maybe she can.  She was a social worker in a cancer center before.  The doctor said he wanted to take away my guilt.  That will never happen.…"
Jul 12
Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"The ICU doctor wants to talk to my therapist.  So I am thinking all about the hospital again.  How I didn’t talk to the doctor, know what was going on, what was I thinking???  Why did I switch to palliative care?  They said…"
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"Are you still a member?"
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"Are you still a member?"
Jul 9
Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell i have a magnet that says God spelled backwards is dog"
Jul 9
Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Crystal, I feel for you today, that quote is powerful."
Jul 9
Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I don’t agree when people say everything happens for a reason.  Why do horrific things happen?  What is the reason for cancer and disease, especially when it happens to the best people and they did nothing to cause or deserve it.…"
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About Me:
I'm 47 years old, single, no children.
About my Loss:
Lost a parent, my best friend, my whole world

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Post traumatic stress disorder

I am experiencing post traumatic stress disorder.  Some days I cry a lot, others not much.  I get upset when I don’t cry.  I feel as if I should be crying all day every day because the thing I feared the most my whole life happened.  How have I not had ten heart attacks by now?  Some days I have bad flashbacks of the hospital.  Other days I feel like I can’t process what happened.  Is my mind blocking what happened to protect me from the pain?  Sometimes I feel like I’m losing my mind.  Am I…

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