James D
  • Male
  • Verdugo City, CA
  • United States
Share

James D's Friends

  • Dr S Gh
  • joni miller
  • RUTH
  • Mary
  • Brenda Ann

James D's Groups

Gifts Received

Gift

James D has not received any gifts yet

Give a Gift

 

James D's Page

Latest Activity

James D replied to Nicole's discussion How long until you feel normal? in the group I miss my Mom!
"It will take time. Personally, I couldn't smile at anything for 2 weeks after my mom died (Ironically enough it was when I was driving home with her cremains), but know this: There is no reason for you not to laugh or smile at something. You…"
Apr 15, 2014
James D commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"The farther away I get from my mom's death (September 2012), the easier it seems to get. Don't get me wrong, not a day goes by where I don't think about my mom, and I still get sad...but I realize that she's not in any pain…"
Mar 21, 2013
James D commented on Jennifer Blackwood's blog post I want to feel 'alive' again!
"We will, one way or another. I'm sure your mom wants you to forgive yourself and move forward. :) "
Jan 3, 2013
James D commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I'm guessing now that the holidays are over, the storm will probably be a little less choppy...at least until mother's day. How are you all holding up? "
Jan 1, 2013
James D and Brenda Ann are now friends
Jan 1, 2013
James D commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I hear you guys. I'm stuck with a family that's crumbling, an uncertain future, and really wishing that the holidays were done. Especially since at work all they play is this soft-hit Christmas music BS that either annoys the hell out of…"
Dec 23, 2012
James D commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"My birthday is this coming Friday (Yeah, Black Friday.) And it's going to be sadder than shit...my first birthday without my mom. Not to mention it seems the rest of my life is going to shit too. Any advice on that first birthday? "
Nov 20, 2012
James D commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"@Jennifer I have a similar feeling every time I hold mom's urn. And jeez....I'll be moving out of my house for similar reasons. I know it's probably time for me to move on anyway, in terms of the house (NOT in terms of mom,) but it…"
Nov 1, 2012
James D commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hearts and hugs to everyone, Y'all. If there's anyone in the eastern seaboard tonight, my thoughts go out to you. Please keep friends and family in your prayers/thoughts tonight if they are in Hurricane Sandy's way. "
Oct 28, 2012
James D commented on Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group Lost Without My Mom
"Hey Y'all...hope you're doing ok considering the circumstances. I really miss my mom still...it seems to be at its worst at night, when she was most active. It's stressful as all hell because I'm also trying to pursue a job and…"
Oct 26, 2012
James D replied to Laurie Finch's discussion I Miss my beautiful Mom in the group I miss my Mom!
"I do too...I do too. It's been so damn horrible...the only thing keeping me going strong is that it apparently gets better...so I am told from others who have lost their mothers and fathers....but it feels like the pain will never go away. "
Oct 24, 2012
James D commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brad, I completely agree. Staying busy really helps keep the pain away, albeit temporarily. You want to feel the pain...it helps it go away sooner.  My first speaking gig was tonight, and I did really well. On the way home, I knew mom would be…"
Oct 24, 2012
James D posted a status
"Found work today. Good considering that the rest of my life seems to suck right now."
Oct 22, 2012
James D updated their profile
Oct 22, 2012
James D commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"My birthday is next month. I have no idea what I'm going to do. Jen, that's a very nice bear. It's amazing what people can do with materials. "
Oct 20, 2012
James D commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I'm with you too Lynn. I lost my mom about a month ago, and it feels like someone put a knife in my heard and cut a chunk out. Just surround yourself with friends and family, and consider therapy as an option too. And give yourself time to…"
Oct 20, 2012

Profile Information

About Me:
I am a freelance copywriter and social media consultant.
About my Loss:
I lost my mom on September 8th, 2012. I loved her more than anyone else, or anything else, on the planet.

Comment Wall (1 comment)

You need to be a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community to add comments!

Join Online Grief Support - A Social Community

At 6:15pm on January 31, 2013, Emily said…

I'm sorry about your mom.

 
 
 

Groups

Latest Activity

Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Sorry should say sit with my mom. I'm a bit nervous about the mass this morning, I just want this day over. I figured I would go to the mass, stop at the small place where she used to go everyday for her friends and she was friends with with…"
8 hours ago
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Three days Brett, it will come and it will go, I just want time to go fast for once. Eight more days for you also, I'm sure you feel the same, like going over and over that day in your head, shamefully I can't remember because I was in so…"
8 hours ago
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hi Selv,  Your words really touched me as I also cremated my mother and scattered them in holy river of Ganga. I live in India so here the ashes are mostly scattered in holy river.  Like you I also wish to complete my journey on this earth…"
13 hours ago
Daylight commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hi, Theresa, it is always very hard. I think every season is difficult. After Christmas, here it will be summer. Although summer is a beautiful season, I will feel sad because my mom died in January. Plus, the weather gets extremely hot, and…"
17 hours ago
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I know it will be hard, Theresa."
18 hours ago
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Well as I sit here in bed at like 930 tomorrow is the yearly mass I hate to say yearly but it’s the third year for my mother and I have a mass said every year for her. I know I’ll be sitting in church and when they say this mass is being…"
18 hours ago
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"What's hard is that, even if we don't celebrate it, the rest of the world will. I can't get away from the Christmas music and decorations. That's okay. The world shouldn't stop celebrating Christmas just because it makes me…"
yesterday
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Joe, Thank You so much for sharing you OBE. I have read a lot of books on it and saw the movie Heaven is for Real. The one book I like is Hello from Heave by Bill & Judy Guggenheim.  Two days after my Husband died I had 1 message on my…"
yesterday
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Joe, Thank You so much for sharing you OBE. I have read a lot of books on it and saw the movie Heaven is for Real. The one book I like is Hello from Heave by Bill & Judy Guggenheim.  Two days after my Husband died I had 1 message on my…"
yesterday
Daylight commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett, praying is all we have now. I hope it can helps us cope better. I've always loved Christmas but this year I don't feel like celebrating it. I haven't decorated my house, and I haven't got a Christmas tree. I just…"
yesterday
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Yes, it's true that I was blessed to take care of my mom, but that only makes saying goodbye harder. Losing our moms is never easy for anyone, but for some of us who find our way here, our moms may have been the center of our lives. That's…"
yesterday
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Thanks, SelV. I wish there was something I could say something to make you feel better. I wish there was something you could say to make me feel better."
yesterday
joe kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"I feel compelled to share my feelings, beliefs and philosophical thoughts with all of you not only because we share the same bond of sufferings, wants, and hopes, but most of all we share the experience of true love for the one we lost here on…"
yesterday
joe kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Our world is governed by science and most scientists say if you can't see it, it doesn't exist. Yet most agree that there are many other dimensions we can't see or detect. Huh? I had great respect for Steven Hawkins at one time. He…"
yesterday
Denise Lavoie commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"You are right people dont get it.The sadness never goes away.I am gratiful the support is here."
yesterday
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi Denise, I learned a lot of things on this forum. The important one is everyone found their true SOULMATE and lost them. The world just doesn't understand why we don't want to carry on without them. THEY WILL NEVER GET IT.   "
Friday
Denise Lavoie commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"The story about the whales is amazing.There are so many things about death I dont understand.I do know each day with out my husband is too hard to bear.I am very busy and active but l have a deep yearing to be with him.This will be the 3rd holiday…"
Friday
Emily is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Friday
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Joe, Thank you for your post. I like Morgan gave me a lift. I have often thought about suicide but have no intention of doing away with myself because of my religion. I will not take the chance of never seeing Julian again I too do not go to the…"
Friday
Aimee Hall Fuszard joined Karen's group
Thumbnail

I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....
Friday

© 2018   Created by Ninja.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service