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James D replied to Nicole's discussion How long until you feel normal? in the group I miss my Mom!
"It will take time. Personally, I couldn't smile at anything for 2 weeks after my mom died (Ironically enough it was when I was driving home with her cremains), but know this: There is no reason for you not to laugh or smile at something. You…"
Apr 15, 2014
James D commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"The farther away I get from my mom's death (September 2012), the easier it seems to get. Don't get me wrong, not a day goes by where I don't think about my mom, and I still get sad...but I realize that she's not in any pain…"
Mar 21, 2013
James D commented on Jennifer Blackwood's blog post I want to feel 'alive' again!
"We will, one way or another. I'm sure your mom wants you to forgive yourself and move forward. :) "
Jan 3, 2013
James D commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I'm guessing now that the holidays are over, the storm will probably be a little less choppy...at least until mother's day. How are you all holding up? "
Jan 1, 2013
James D and Brenda Ann are now friends
Jan 1, 2013
James D commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I hear you guys. I'm stuck with a family that's crumbling, an uncertain future, and really wishing that the holidays were done. Especially since at work all they play is this soft-hit Christmas music BS that either annoys the hell out of…"
Dec 23, 2012
James D commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"My birthday is this coming Friday (Yeah, Black Friday.) And it's going to be sadder than shit...my first birthday without my mom. Not to mention it seems the rest of my life is going to shit too. Any advice on that first birthday? "
Nov 20, 2012
James D commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"@Jennifer I have a similar feeling every time I hold mom's urn. And jeez....I'll be moving out of my house for similar reasons. I know it's probably time for me to move on anyway, in terms of the house (NOT in terms of mom,) but it…"
Nov 1, 2012
James D commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hearts and hugs to everyone, Y'all. If there's anyone in the eastern seaboard tonight, my thoughts go out to you. Please keep friends and family in your prayers/thoughts tonight if they are in Hurricane Sandy's way. "
Oct 28, 2012
James D commented on Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group Lost Without My Mom
"Hey Y'all...hope you're doing ok considering the circumstances. I really miss my mom still...it seems to be at its worst at night, when she was most active. It's stressful as all hell because I'm also trying to pursue a job and…"
Oct 26, 2012
James D replied to Laurie Finch's discussion I Miss my beautiful Mom in the group I miss my Mom!
"I do too...I do too. It's been so damn horrible...the only thing keeping me going strong is that it apparently gets better...so I am told from others who have lost their mothers and fathers....but it feels like the pain will never go away. "
Oct 24, 2012
James D commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brad, I completely agree. Staying busy really helps keep the pain away, albeit temporarily. You want to feel the pain...it helps it go away sooner.  My first speaking gig was tonight, and I did really well. On the way home, I knew mom would be…"
Oct 24, 2012
James D posted a status
"Found work today. Good considering that the rest of my life seems to suck right now."
Oct 22, 2012
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Oct 22, 2012
James D commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"My birthday is next month. I have no idea what I'm going to do. Jen, that's a very nice bear. It's amazing what people can do with materials. "
Oct 20, 2012
James D commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I'm with you too Lynn. I lost my mom about a month ago, and it feels like someone put a knife in my heard and cut a chunk out. Just surround yourself with friends and family, and consider therapy as an option too. And give yourself time to…"
Oct 20, 2012

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About Me:
I am a freelance copywriter and social media consultant.
About my Loss:
I lost my mom on September 8th, 2012. I loved her more than anyone else, or anything else, on the planet.

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At 6:15pm on January 31, 2013, Emily said…

I'm sorry about your mom.

 
 
 

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Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I also see her in dreams sometimes but when I wake up I hardly remember anything. Initially I was not able to sleep and used to wake up in nights but then life got busy in other things and I started sleeping properly.  Everybody of us hope to…"
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Something I have noticed is that the content of a dream may not be a big deal, but what you are feeling in the dream is where the power comes from. The dream I had was horrible. It was so short, but I had a sick feeling in my stomach throughout.…"
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Sue Toler commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I dream about my Mom & Dad & thankfully they are always good dreams that are comforting.  An Aunt that I was close to is in a lot of the dreams with my parents.  I have one sibling. He is never in the dreams of my parents.  I…"
17 hours ago
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I rarely dream about my mom. When I do dream about her it is almost always bad. I had a horrible dream last night. It was very short. I was standing near the front door of my mom's house. I looked down to greet my dog. There was a little puppy…"
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Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Thanks Nancy, I am sure everyone in our group can relate."
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Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Yes we have no choice but to live without our mothers. Grief and guilt will be there through out and some days will be really hard than others. Yesterday was pathetic for me as my father said something that really hit me. I hope to see my mother…"
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Nancy commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Love this Linda.  Thanks for posting it. "
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Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
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Nancy commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"I relate to you all who have posted lately.  2 years for me.  2nd year was worse than the first as reality set in and shock lessened.  I am still in a trauma state of mind.  Forgetful, irritable, less patient.  I isolate…"
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Deanna N Nash added a discussion to the group surviving family members' murders
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Nothing feels real

My husband was brutly murdered 6 day ago and nothing feels real to me I'm still waiting to wake up or him to call me the pain is unbearable I don't know if I can go on anymore
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Deanna N Nash commented on Susie H's group surviving family members' murders
"6 days ago my husband and soulmate was brutly murdered and everyday gets a little harder I haven't seen him yet he's held up at the corners and I'm terrified to see him but I need to see him to convince my mind that this is real and…"
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morgan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Robin, thank you.  Bluebird was the honesty that i discovered on this site that made it possible for me to express what I go through.  Several others who write let me know too.  I tend to reach out here, particularly when I am…"
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Robin commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi Morgan - I lost my husband John, 9 years ago, when he was 46.  I come to this website every now & then, but have only commented a few times.  I relate most to you and Bluebird.  I can't believe it's been 9 years, and…"
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morgan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"I really don't know what to say to all the newer people who come here looking for help and comfort because I have struggled for years. I did find an article written by a psychotherapist just the other day that made some sense to me about the…"
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Sharon batten posted a discussion

Missing my true love

My partner died 14 weeks ago and I am struggling big time without her, we been together for 10 years and now I have nothing left,
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Sharon batten left a comment for Sharon batten
"I hate my life without her now I miss her so much, we been together for 10 years and now I have nothing left"
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