Theresa
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  • Broomall, PA
  • United States
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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett I think they will always be a part of us."
yesterday
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett you said it perfectly"
yesterday
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell, it will in time... I talked things through in my mind a lot and said to myself well I was anxious yesterday and the day before and it did not change anything, I did see my dr and took something for a few months and I am now weaning off of…"
yesterday
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell eventually the morning anxiousness does calm down, it took a while for me I have been really busy at work doing overtime, it distracts me but exhausts me. When I get in my car to go home I say ma I'm so tired.."
Thursday
Theresa replied to Crystal K's discussion Its hard accepting my mother's death in the group I miss my Mom!
"Crystal, yes I do. My mom went to the hospital on a Saturday morning because her stomach was bothering her, she called me I said ok mom do you want me to take you, she said no the dr said go in the ambulance, I was like ok I guess that will move…"
Wednesday
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Luisa I am so sorry for your loss I know exactly how you feel with your mother elderly or ill my thoughts and prayers are with you"
Sep 17
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Sundays are always hard for me because the day we used to go to my moms but I've been trying to keep busy I worked yesterday today I'm cleaning out my closet every day it's still hard I think about her and think about how much I miss…"
Sep 17
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett my assumption is that he sensed something was wrong that night and if I knew my mom she probably up all night deciding on whether to call me or go to the hospital, but instead she waiting til morning.  She had a thing about calling people…"
Sep 12
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett, so each Sunday when we would visit my mom we brought the dog since he's been a puppy, he is now 10, so he used to jump out of the car and run in the house looking for my mom, she loved him. So my mom died on Saturday morning so it was…"
Sep 12
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell, yes I'm trying to keep him lean, but labs love to eat!!! Thank you"
Sep 12
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell and Brett my dog is my life right now, he is 10 and a English Labrador, he does pretty well, but I can see arthritis setting in. I prayed to God please let him be with me in good health. He loved my mom and he knew when she passed actually…"
Sep 12
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell, you are a very strong person to do what you are doing. God Bless you"
Sep 9
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"People tell me you are just like your mom, and I couldn't be more flattered. Weekends give me too much time to think, but I try to keep busy."
Sep 9
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett from what I have read that you've written you have done a wonderful job taking care of your mom please don't have any regrets on that.and All of us love our moms but we must go on and live our lives carrying this deep sadness with us…"
Sep 6
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett your mom forgave you right after you said it, that's what moms do. I've said  some no so nice things to her and my impatience was not so good at times, but our actions let them know we love them. Some days I am just really sad,…"
Sep 6
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett, yes I feel that way too, its the anxiousness its awful. You know what might help I practice Hatha yoga in a 110 degree studio, I started ten years ago, and after my mom died it really helped, because it quiets the mind.  My anxiousness…"
Sep 5

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About my Loss:
Very sudden, Thursday mom said she felt constipated, Friday same to the dr, xray no obstruction, Saturday called dr he told her go to hospital, she called me I told her I would meet her there this was at 8:45am, as I was pulling in the hospital parking lot I got a call from them stating "your mother is in FULL CARDIAC ARREST" do you want us to do CPR.......that was it, I did not get there to say goodbye, I love you, nothing. We were very close I went there every Sunday, we talked at least ten times a day and every night before bed. There are no words to describe how I feel.....
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At 8:15pm on July 31, 2017, Joy said…

Theresa, I hope things get better for you. Don't blame yourself for not seeing that something was wrong. I'm sure you would've done everything in your power to help your mom had you known. The love between you and your mom will last forever and that love will carry you through. I cry everyday too. I hate the anxiety and the loneliness and that my life has been turned upside down but I have to get through it somehow. 

At 6:41am on November 16, 2016, Ann said…
I'm so sorry.
At 11:28am on March 26, 2016, Danny said…

theresa i had a sudden loss as well and it still hurts like hell care to chat ?

 
 
 

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Alice Thompson commented on Pamela philipp's blog post Empty
"Good luck, Pamela :-) It is so hard to live among others when your inner life is so different from theirs. I think that after the first year I gave up expecting anyone to understand what is really going on for me. Sometimes I tell them anyway, but…"
5 hours ago
Teresa D. commented on Karen's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"Karen, you saying your not helpful is very untrue.  I hate to say it but those ahead of me let me know I'm okay.  Those ahead keep me from feeling disappointed or like something is wrong with me because I'm not "moving…"
9 hours ago
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I try to do that as well, Bluebell. I always want to be a son who makes my mom proud. I wish that I could somehow know that mom is still aware of me somehow. That she knows how much I miss her and love her. I just don't know if she does.…"
11 hours ago
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I am not there yet either Brett.It is so hard to be without her. But I keep putting one foot in front of the other, not to move away from her, but instead to live up to what I think she wanted me to be. Bluebell"
12 hours ago
Pamela philipp posted a blog post

Empty

It's been 2 years since I lost my mother and my husband and I am still lost and still very much alone in my grief I haven't been on this site in a while I've been trying to get by every day it's not working too well I'm struggling really really hard my family is still not around I guess they think I am OK that I'm doing fine little do theyknow that I'm not they are coming to my house this Saturday for a cook out because it's something my mother wanted me to do that's the only reason I agreed to…See More
13 hours ago
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"For sure my mom will always be a part of us. But there may come a day when I don't remember her voice or mannerisms as clearly as I do now. There may be a day that I have to look at a picture to remember exactly what she looked like. All of…"
23 hours ago
Nancy commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Exactly Bruce and M. Nothing is the same"
yesterday
Bruce Armstrong commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Take a trip would be great if you had that very special person to share it with-people just don't understand how much it takes away from you as a person"
yesterday
M Adams commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"This take a trip advice must be widespread -- I was so stunned to get repeated phone calls and letters from one aunt telling me to go on a cruise within a month of my husband's death. I guess my non response is why there were both letters and…"
yesterday
John T. commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Bruce, it's just overwhelming at times.  This month is our anniversary, the anniversary of our first date (the most significant date to her), and the 3rd year since I lost her.  I have no one to talk to about any of this because my…"
yesterday
Bruce Armstrong commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"So lonely in the evening house is empty nobody here -been 3 months after 54 years with her I miss her and can't seem to stop crying need that companion and love close"
yesterday
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett I think they will always be a part of us."
yesterday
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Theresa, right now my mom is so incredibly fresh in my mind. I do fear that the day will come when that is no longer the case. I don't want my memories to fade away. That is one of the issues that I have with, "letting go.""
yesterday
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett you said it perfectly"
yesterday
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"It is true that being anxious will not help anything. There are so many things in life that we just have no control over. This is certainly one of them. It's just so hard to stop having those feelings though. My stomach is tied in knots right…"
yesterday
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell, it will in time... I talked things through in my mind a lot and said to myself well I was anxious yesterday and the day before and it did not change anything, I did see my dr and took something for a few months and I am now weaning off of…"
yesterday
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Prayers sent. God Bless you and give you strength and peace."
yesterday
Luisa Salter commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Today we moved everything out of Mom's apartment. It has uncovered a new layer of grief and I am utterly exhausted. My house and garage are in complete disarray with boxes everywhere. I feel so bogged down with things and things to to. I have…"
yesterday
Luisa Salter replied to Crystal K's discussion Its hard accepting my mother's death in the group I miss my Mom!
"Crystal I am so sorry. I lost my Mom on August 30th, and I understand this sense of coldness and feeling like a zombie. When people ask me how I am feeling, I tell them that I go back and forth between numb and devastated. It seems like I will cry…"
yesterday
Karen bentl posted a status
"Yes, I realize no one can actually hear me... I was just reaching out..."
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