Theresa
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  • Broomall, PA
  • United States
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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I understand Brett, but I don't want to be "checked out" They mess with your mind, I just want to be myself again."
4 hours ago
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Well it probably did help me but I gained about 20 pounds and I hardly eat anything because of my IBS so I don’t know what happened"
16 hours ago
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Avi I tried one Lexapro I did the pediatric does of 5mg"
17 hours ago
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Ok so my friend had to do the unthinkable, her dog is not suffering anymore.  But it just set off a crying spell with me. Maybe I need to go to the dr again, for the 10th time. So he can just look at me and say, do you want to try and…"
17 hours ago
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell how are you?"
17 hours ago
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hi everyone, I have been reading, going through a tough time with my friend her dog is getting ready to go to the rainbow bridge and that set me into anxiety.  My stomach is flaring up no matter what I eat.  I started to think about my mom…"
Saturday
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell, without a doubt he loves each and everyone of us.   I remember after my mom passed a priest said to me God is walking right beside you all the time, through good, bad, happy, sad, he will never leave your side. I truly believe…"
Jul 8
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Great pic Bluebell !! Love the hummingbirds behind you I know for fact that I’ll never be the same person I was I turned into a really mean impatient  person I don’t know why my mom was always so kind and so caring, i’m…"
Jul 8
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I was driving home from the market today and was thinking about the last moments I spoke to my mom, and I just broke down crying."
Jul 8
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Every living breathing thing or being on this earth has a beginning and an end.  When the end is we do not know that or how, that is the mystery of life.  Scary sometimes, but faith gets me through each and every day. Do I go over what I…"
Jul 7
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Virginia, God would never punish anyone.  My moms a perfect example of the saying "live everyday like its your last".  God can take us at anytime anywhere at any age.   When we are in despair we tend to blame ourselves…"
Jul 5
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Avi I couldn't say it any better or truthfully than Brett. Happy 4th of July, God Bless everyone! Bluebell I hope you are healing."
Jul 4
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Avi, yes world is short..."
Jul 3
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"So today I walked over to my moms picture I have on my bureau and I cried and said please tell me when I won't cry anymore... I just want to have one day when I won't cry."
Jul 2
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett By reading all of the things that you have done for your mom on here it leaves me at a loss for words you couldn’t have done any more you were They’re right next to her every minute I would say you should not have anything to feel…"
Jun 30
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett, you mean guilt for not doing enough while they were here? I guess because of the circumstance of my moms death, the only guilt I have is not getting there in time to the hospital it all happened so fast. I guess maybe if I didn't stop at…"
Jun 30

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About my Loss:
Very sudden, Thursday mom said she felt constipated, Friday same to the dr, xray no obstruction, Saturday called dr he told her go to hospital, she called me I told her I would meet her there this was at 8:45am, as I was pulling in the hospital parking lot I got a call from them stating "your mother is in FULL CARDIAC ARREST" do you want us to do CPR.......that was it, I did not get there to say goodbye, I love you, nothing. We were very close I went there every Sunday, we talked at least ten times a day and every night before bed. There are no words to describe how I feel.....
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At 10:23pm on June 20, 2018, JLL said…

I am truly sorry for your sudden and devastating loss. My mother and I were so very close as well..I feel; a lot for you...I too find this missing part-the biggest part of me, an unarticulatable force....

At 12:00am on January 13, 2018, Jean said…

Theresa, I know how you feel about being sick or hurt the first time without your mother to call. I fell down on the sidewalk on the way into the hospital for routine check ups and ended up in ER for X Rays. My mother was the first person I thought to call. It really hurts. For me I am coming up on 5 years and can say for me I still feel a huge void in my life. Feeling sad.

At 8:15pm on July 31, 2017, Joy said…

Theresa, I hope things get better for you. Don't blame yourself for not seeing that something was wrong. I'm sure you would've done everything in your power to help your mom had you known. The love between you and your mom will last forever and that love will carry you through. I cry everyday too. I hate the anxiety and the loneliness and that my life has been turned upside down but I have to get through it somehow. 

At 6:41am on November 16, 2016, Ann said…
I'm so sorry.
At 11:28am on March 26, 2016, Danny said…

theresa i had a sudden loss as well and it still hurts like hell care to chat ?

 
 
 

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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I understand Brett, but I don't want to be "checked out" They mess with your mind, I just want to be myself again."
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I also would like to hear from Bluebell."
13 hours ago
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Theresa, I finally came to the realization that what I was doing wasn't working for me. And I realized that taking an anti-depressant couldn't be any worse than crying all of the time, not sleeping, and destroying myself with guilt and…"
13 hours ago
Rebecca Clemens posted a blog post

Life without them

It's been 2 years and 2 months since I lost my dad, and 1 year and 3 months since u lost my grandmother. Sometimes I feel like they were never here, like this is normal life without them. Then I have moments when I want to curl up in a ball and just cry because it hurts so much to miss them. I try to remember the good moments but all I can think about is the last days.The other day I was at the hospital with a friend and when we walked in I saw my dad, like I was shook this older women was…See More
13 hours ago
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Well it probably did help me but I gained about 20 pounds and I hardly eat anything because of my IBS so I don’t know what happened"
16 hours ago
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Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Ok thanks Theresa. I sometimes want to try them but skeptical. "
17 hours ago
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Avi I tried one Lexapro I did the pediatric does of 5mg"
17 hours ago
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Theresa, are you trying too many anti depressants?"
17 hours ago
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Ok so my friend had to do the unthinkable, her dog is not suffering anymore.  But it just set off a crying spell with me. Maybe I need to go to the dr again, for the 10th time. So he can just look at me and say, do you want to try and…"
17 hours ago
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell how are you?"
17 hours ago
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Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Avi, I hope your Dad is doing well.  That must have been hard on you being in the hospital.  I am also sorry you are having more guilt like me.  It’s a horrible feeling.  Also one that others don’t understand."
yesterday
Monty replied to Pamela philipp's discussion FAILING in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi Im sorry for your loss no matter how long ago it is. i can only imagine the pain and emotions you are still going though. for me it was taking care of the kids and finding one thing to achieve (no matter how small) helped a lot. it was as small…"
Sunday
M Adams left a comment for Jarvis
"Thank you for creating this site, it is a lifeline for many people.  Hope your health is improving every day."
Sunday
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hi All,  Hope every one is doing fine. Last week my father got an infection and was hospitalized so could not follow much here. Now he is better and recovering.  Virginia, you seem to be totally engrossed in the guilt which I can…"
Sunday
Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"My boyfriend finally gave up.  I don’t blame him at all. And Brett I will tell you I don’t deserve the prayers, pray for my Mom please."
Sunday
Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"So the dr talked to my therapist and he told her the same things he told me.  I had asked her to try to get more answers.  I actually feel worse because I had someone ask some doctors about using ventilators.  The oncologist told us…"
Sunday

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