Kari Hurley
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  • Great Falls, MT
  • United States
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I am a mother of 3 great kids, 2 girls and 1 son. I have a beautiful grand daughter and I am married
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I just lose my son who was 24 on 1/26/13. He was in prison and they think it was accidental drug overdose, but will not know until the autopsy comes back. The day I got the phone call was the day a big part of me died. He was my first born and only son. I love and miss him so much and the pain is often to much to handle. I have so much guilt and questions. I am tired of people saying it will be okay because you know what it won't. My son and I were very close, we always had been. I am the one that turned him in and in my eyes sent him to his death. People say I am here if you need anything just let me know and I just want to say there is nothing you can do to help me anymore. I miss him so much and my pain is so great that I am not sure I can do this without him

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Only 23 days

It's been 23 days since my son passed away. I am lost, feel guilty, heart broken, and angry at the world. I am not sure what to do or where to go from here. I have lost my parents and son within 5 years. All within the first three months and their birthdays are also in the first 3 months. They were the only people who never judged others, never turned their backs no matter what, and always listened. They were my world and I miss them so much. My son was a shock. I will never forget the phone… Continue

Posted on February 17, 2013 at 2:53pm — 1 Comment

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At 5:26pm on July 25, 2013, Gina Stone said…

Kari I am so very sorry for your loss, I feel the exact same way with my son, He really was my everything. It seems to unfair that he has died and that I am still here. It will be 6 months on the 31rst of this month. I use to come on here alot but I only check in every so often now. The comments are always wonderfully supportive, but like you I really need to be able to talk with others regarding his loss. If you would ever like to talk you are welcome to email me or Im on facebook as well gstone42@live.com. Im sending you a big hug and prayers your way. Gina

At 6:39pm on March 12, 2013, jim siburt said…
Your welcome and no I'm not sorry I responded, helping others in turn helps me.I think if uour son was into bad things, he may of ended up veing hurt even sooner out of prision. You did the right thing, you tried to help your son, again I'm sorry it happened but don't blame yourself. I can tell you loved your son abd I'm sure he knew deep down that you loved him too. He is in a better place now where there is no pain or suffering and he is looking down smileing at you and watching over you. I am sorry you had to dea l with so much in your life, They say god only gives you what you can handle He must of known you were strong and he gas cc a purpose for you. Maybe it is to help others who are going through what you have msybe it was for us to meet and your story to inspire all the members who are struggling too.
At 8:23pm on March 11, 2013, jim siburt said…
Hello kari, I am sorry to hear that you lost your son! I am not going to tell you it will get better. I will tell you that I am here if you ever need to talk. I invite you to join my network at
http://victims.wall.fm/ and my facebook page http://facebook.com/victims.support/

Concentrate on loving your daughters. Don't
Blame yourself, I am sure you tried other options before you turned your son in.
I hope tou find peace my friend take care
At 7:05am on March 2, 2013, Dennis C. said…
Kari

I am so saddened about the pain that you are experiencing. The loss that you have had to deal with is excruciating to say the least. There is nothing that anyone can say to ease your pain. I am sorry for that.

But there is comfort available and hope. For example, here is just one promise about those that we have lost

Isaiah 26:19 — “Your dead ones will live. A corpse of mine—they will rise up. Awake and cry out joyfully, YOU residents in the dust! For your dew is as the dew of mallows, and the earth itself will let even those impotent in death drop [in birth].

True comfort (it doesn't take the pain away) comes from gaining a solid hope for the future. A purpose, and something to live for. The bible's promise of a resurrection gives us just that. But we need to know exactly what the bible teaches about this.

Please know that these tragedies are NOT Gods doing. Death is NOT part of Gods plan.

If there is any way that I can help, please let me know.

DC
At 5:32am on February 14, 2013, Grace said…

So sorry you have needed to join this sad club.  You are right.... things will never be the same again...... but you just breathe in and out everyday and live for the ones that need you here like your daughters.  It is going to be painful.... and if your friends have not lived this pain, it is hard for them to understand.

We are here for you....

 
 
 

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