Kari Hurley
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  • Great Falls, MT
  • United States
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Oct 15, 2013
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Oct 14, 2013
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Oct 14, 2013
Kar replied to Kari Hurley's discussion Many losses in short amount of time in the group Missing my Son or Daughter
"Hi Kari ...  Sorry I did not see this until now....   Such tight HUGs to you.   I am soooo sorry for all your losses.    I too had numerous losses.   First my Father in law - Then my Father followed by my nephew - and…"
Aug 26, 2013
Gina Stone left a comment for Kari Hurley
"Kari I am so very sorry for your loss, I feel the exact same way with my son, He really was my everything. It seems to unfair that he has died and that I am still here. It will be 6 months on the 31rst of this month. I use to come on here alot but I…"
Jul 25, 2013
Kari Hurley replied to Gina Stone's discussion So frustrated and Confused
"Wow I feel the same way. I have not been on in awhile for that reason. I have Facebook and am on 2 private sites and I get more response there."
Jul 24, 2013
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May 22, 2013
Stanley Ruiz replied to Kari Hurley's discussion Son died in prison in the group Traumatic, Sudden Loss
"I KNOW IS IS DIFFICULT  AND TOUGHH BUT YOU CAN NOT BRING THEM BACK BUT THEY ARE STILL WITH US.WE CAN NOT SEE THEM BUT THEY SEE US.I LOST MY SOUL MATE IN OCTOBER OF LAST YEAR DURING A HOME INVASION I WAS WOUNDED AND NEAR DEATH BUT HE WAS SHOT IN…"
May 18, 2013
Kari Hurley replied to Bern's discussion Marriage in the group Traumatic, Sudden Loss
"I have experienced the same in my marriage. I have so much anger that I do not know what to do with it. We are not able to talk about my son without me getting angry and it is not like he says anything bad I just take everything the wrong way. I…"
May 18, 2013
Kari Hurley replied to Kari Hurley's discussion Son died in prison in the group Traumatic, Sudden Loss
"Yes I can and will join the ones that you shared the link to. I will also let you know when I do and will soon. How I got someone else was I looked online and found a retired coroner by the last name Keller and we talked for a bit and I faxed him a…"
May 17, 2013
Kari Hurley replied to Kari Hurley's discussion Son died in prison in the group Traumatic, Sudden Loss
"I feel the same way you do. I feel no one cares and have already moved on. It is a struggle everyday to stay on this earth. My son and I always said we are in this together and if something happens to one of us the other is right behind. What in the…"
May 17, 2013
Kari Hurley added a discussion to the group Traumatic, Sudden Loss
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Son died in prison

When my son passed away on January 26, 2013 my world stopped. I love and miss him so much and I do not know how to get past this anger and pain. You see my son was in Federal Prison and that is where he died at the age of 24. I still have no answers, I have nothing. Justin was my best friend and if it is possible to have a child as a soul mate he was it. I am the one that turned him in and ultimately feel like I sent him to his death. Justin was my first born and only son. If I could have one…See More
May 17, 2013
Kari Hurley and Michelle H are now friends
May 17, 2013
jim siburt left a comment for Kari Hurley
"Your welcome and no I'm not sorry I responded, helping others in turn helps me.I think if uour son was into bad things, he may of ended up veing hurt even sooner out of prision. You did the right thing, you tried to help your son, again…"
Mar 12, 2013
Kari Hurley and jim siburt are now friends
Mar 11, 2013
Kari Hurley left a comment for jim siburt
"Thank you and I will join the other site. I am trying the best that I can to stay somewhat strong, but it's hard as I have put a lot of distance between myself and the little family I have left. I am so afraid that it is going to happen again.…"
Mar 11, 2013

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About Me:
I am a mother of 3 great kids, 2 girls and 1 son. I have a beautiful grand daughter and I am married
About my Loss:
I just lose my son who was 24 on 1/26/13. He was in prison and they think it was accidental drug overdose, but will not know until the autopsy comes back. The day I got the phone call was the day a big part of me died. He was my first born and only son. I love and miss him so much and the pain is often to much to handle. I have so much guilt and questions. I am tired of people saying it will be okay because you know what it won't. My son and I were very close, we always had been. I am the one that turned him in and in my eyes sent him to his death. People say I am here if you need anything just let me know and I just want to say there is nothing you can do to help me anymore. I miss him so much and my pain is so great that I am not sure I can do this without him

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Only 23 days

It's been 23 days since my son passed away. I am lost, feel guilty, heart broken, and angry at the world. I am not sure what to do or where to go from here. I have lost my parents and son within 5 years. All within the first three months and their birthdays are also in the first 3 months. They were the only people who never judged others, never turned their backs no matter what, and always listened. They were my world and I miss them so much. My son was a shock. I will never forget the phone… Continue

Posted on February 17, 2013 at 2:53pm — 1 Comment

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At 5:26pm on July 25, 2013, Gina Stone said…

Kari I am so very sorry for your loss, I feel the exact same way with my son, He really was my everything. It seems to unfair that he has died and that I am still here. It will be 6 months on the 31rst of this month. I use to come on here alot but I only check in every so often now. The comments are always wonderfully supportive, but like you I really need to be able to talk with others regarding his loss. If you would ever like to talk you are welcome to email me or Im on facebook as well gstone42@live.com. Im sending you a big hug and prayers your way. Gina

At 6:39pm on March 12, 2013, jim siburt said…
Your welcome and no I'm not sorry I responded, helping others in turn helps me.I think if uour son was into bad things, he may of ended up veing hurt even sooner out of prision. You did the right thing, you tried to help your son, again I'm sorry it happened but don't blame yourself. I can tell you loved your son abd I'm sure he knew deep down that you loved him too. He is in a better place now where there is no pain or suffering and he is looking down smileing at you and watching over you. I am sorry you had to dea l with so much in your life, They say god only gives you what you can handle He must of known you were strong and he gas cc a purpose for you. Maybe it is to help others who are going through what you have msybe it was for us to meet and your story to inspire all the members who are struggling too.
At 8:23pm on March 11, 2013, jim siburt said…
Hello kari, I am sorry to hear that you lost your son! I am not going to tell you it will get better. I will tell you that I am here if you ever need to talk. I invite you to join my network at
http://victims.wall.fm/ and my facebook page http://facebook.com/victims.support/

Concentrate on loving your daughters. Don't
Blame yourself, I am sure you tried other options before you turned your son in.
I hope tou find peace my friend take care
At 7:05am on March 2, 2013, Dennis C. said…
Kari

I am so saddened about the pain that you are experiencing. The loss that you have had to deal with is excruciating to say the least. There is nothing that anyone can say to ease your pain. I am sorry for that.

But there is comfort available and hope. For example, here is just one promise about those that we have lost

Isaiah 26:19 — “Your dead ones will live. A corpse of mine—they will rise up. Awake and cry out joyfully, YOU residents in the dust! For your dew is as the dew of mallows, and the earth itself will let even those impotent in death drop [in birth].

True comfort (it doesn't take the pain away) comes from gaining a solid hope for the future. A purpose, and something to live for. The bible's promise of a resurrection gives us just that. But we need to know exactly what the bible teaches about this.

Please know that these tragedies are NOT Gods doing. Death is NOT part of Gods plan.

If there is any way that I can help, please let me know.

DC
At 5:32am on February 14, 2013, Grace said…

So sorry you have needed to join this sad club.  You are right.... things will never be the same again...... but you just breathe in and out everyday and live for the ones that need you here like your daughters.  It is going to be painful.... and if your friends have not lived this pain, it is hard for them to understand.

We are here for you....

 
 
 

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