susan joanette wilson
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i am 56 gave to three sons and a daughter' two of the boys were twins. i have five grand children. Injoy reading social networking and spending time with my family.I am a caregiver by trade and really like what i do.
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i have lost two sons 18 months apart. My oldest son bill was crossing the street on his bicycle when he was struck by a pick up truck, that was nov.22 2009. One of my twins was killed in what they are calling freak accident less than 30 days ago. He left behind his twin and a 19 month old son.
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At 9:37pm on November 6, 2011, Amanda Ab said…

Hello Susan

I came across your page. And I am real sorry about both of your looses. I cannot relate to your pain of loosing a child. My prayers are with you and your family. Wonderful pictures you have, including of your grandson. Your son lives and will always live on your grandson, he is a part of your son. I can somehow relate to your little grandson. My son too was 19 months when his Dad, my husband, passed away.

They often say, that God will not put on us something we cant handle. Keep strong.

Take Care,

Amanda

At 7:59am on July 27, 2011, Patti Meadows said…
Hi Susan.  Blessings and comfort to you.  I lost my youngest son 5 years ago in a car crash.  My heart goes out to you.  Your grief is so great, I pray God will comfort You.  I spent a lot of time being angry with God...But I am trying to look at it differently.  Instead of Jesus being my enemy, I think death angers him also.  This world is not our home, and if we just keep hanging on, we will finally one day be with all of our family.  I have two surviving sons that miss their brother, and a loving husband who misses our son as much as I do.  Have you ever read Barbara Johnson's books?  I saw her speak once, she has just recently passed away, but her books are wonderful, filled with love, loss and humor.  She too, has lost two of her sons, and she has had other struggles also.  I highly recommend them.  I am new to this site and really just now have been able to express myself about my son.  I think up until this point, I would not accept it.  Again, love and blessings to you.  Patti Meadows 
At 10:49am on July 6, 2011, Ruth said…

Susan, thank you for your comment and welcome.  I am sorry to hear of the loss of your sons.  In my sibling set, I am the only not-twin, so I understand the special concern you have for the living twin.

We have DNA evidence as well, I pray it all lines up. People ask me if I think he will plead guilty. I snort with skepticism, no he's a career criminal, serving a life sentence behind bars would put a crimp on his "lifestyle".  Besides he's a little spit and is already probably someone's girlfriend ($1,000,000 bail bond), he'd be uncommonly lucky if he didn't end up with AIDS as well.  Maybe I led a charmed life before, not to understand how vengeful a person could be.  I have to turn that over to the Lord about 30 times a day lately, knowing that it is His.  Thank you again for the support.

At 8:33pm on June 25, 2011, Deborah Dodds said…
Your wounds ares still fresh.  Of course you are going to cry.  I've been crying all day just thinking about how he fought for his life.  There were 200 men around and no body jumped in to help.  Most likely because the same would happen to them down the road.  It's a horrible situation and I don't undersdtand.  Why do we have to go through so much loss in our lifetimes?
At 7:09pm on June 25, 2011, Deborah Dodds said…
Susan, Welcome to the foum.  I am so sorry to hear of the sudden, traumatic losses that have taken place in your family.  This is the place to be for support and to talk about it.  With Love, Deborah Dodds

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Another victum impact. My mother was stabbed to death april 11,1989. He knocked on her door said he had a sick child and was locked out of his apartment. he came in pulled a knife out my mother was heard saying take what you wantbut please don't hurt me. he slashed her face multiple defensive wounds. He stopped and ate had a cigarette. back then dna was real new so the case got shoved in a box. the law now saysall felonies must give a dna sample. They found the guy. For the next year…

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Posted on January 6, 2013 at 9:45pm — 2 Comments

justice

I feel like my life is one huge waiting game. spent 2 years to find a closure to Bills death. Than derek Passing a year and a half later. Another waiting game. The kid that hit him has been going through the judicial system. watching my surving son eric hurting over the loss of his big brother and his twin.  all the tears we have had for them. the kid to a blind plea so a judge will decied  on his punishment they are capping his jail term to 5.5 years. This kid killed one and critical…

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Posted on December 9, 2012 at 2:17pm

justice?

I feel like I have spent three years in a stunned stupor. My oldest son passed nov.22,2009. its coming up on thanksgiving this year. Its an emotional time. but I lost my little twin a year and a half ago. with the first one I learmed about wrongful death. there was no justice for bill. Derek was killed too this time there will be justice. He was doing community service with the dept of natural resources. he was sitting with two co workers on and front loader taking a break and sitting in the…

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Posted on November 13, 2012 at 8:25pm

same old same old

At this point and time I thank the lord for making me into a strong women. I am a private mourner. I have the strength to walk away from arguments. Losing two sons so close together. has been a living hell. I am on some really strong meds to help me cope with it all. My heart is shattered, I refuse to let other people get to me i don't explain my meds either. So they think I am a bipolar bitch thats fine, my finances too. i am refusing to raise my voice and have a screaming match over thing…

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Posted on November 8, 2012 at 3:06pm — 1 Comment

 
 
 

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