"I am not sure where I am leading to but life is going on. Guilt is immense and sometimes it triggers like anything. I wish I would have taken more care of my mother.
Bluebell, wish you a speedy recovery.
Virginia, please drop me a…"
I am also struggling to meet terms with life. I was travelling in last month, went to Europe for office work but I did not enjoy at all. I used to love travelling and going to new places but it is all worthless now. I was just doing it for…"
Hope you all are able to overcome your grief and live a normal life. I am also trying but guilt takes control some time and then it becomes very difficult for me.
My daughter keeps me motivated as her eyes tell me that "dad,…"
So sorry for your loss.
Similar to others, I can understand your pain. I wish comfort to you but I know it is not easy. Please take your time.
All people, I was travelling so could not post for long. This is to tell that I…"
I hope you all are doing great. The last couple of days were not great. I missed a mom a lot, see my father live a silent life, feels without energy, missed on a promotion opportunity etc.
Guilt is immense of not doing enough for my mother.…"
I understand your words and agree that it is not easy to believe that she is not here with us.
Daily I miss her and feel terrible that she is not with me. I talk to her pic but I know I will never get response. "
How you all are doing.
BlueBell how are you now?
Yesterday was a hectic day at office and when I reached home I missed my mother like anything. I was watching a Bollywood movie in which a blind kid gets help from somebody every…"
"Yes Brett. I work in an IT company and need to keep a fake face always to show all that I am fine. I need to go out for office meetings, also need to attend family events but deep down somewhere there is a void. "
"Great to hear you BlueBell and I wish that you recover soon.
Theressa, same pinch as you. My mom was sick but not that much sick to die. She collapsed as soon she entered ICU and the drs there did not react in the best way possible. Also I was…"
Hi , I lost my mother on April 14, 2018. Was with her when she passed. Love if her life. It was hard watching her go and seeing the fight in her face and her knowing that was it as far as being with me again in physical body. She is now a gorgeous spirit and I communicate with her daily and it's amazing, yet still I wish she was on this side to enjoy life little longer
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