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Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Great words Bluebell. I did not even leave my job as you and Virginia did so I have more reasons to feel guilty. I did not even tall to her enough before her illness. But as Bluebell said guilt has life of its own. "
13 hours ago
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett I bought a second hand car from a trusted showroom. Earlier I used to commute via two wheeler and using public transport. I belong to a middle class family and my mother never had privilege to travel in her own car and unfortunately I kelt on…"
yesterday
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hi All Good morning from India.  My mother unfulfilled wish of having our own car is completed. Bought a car yesterday, small one but my first car. She is not with me but she will be really happy. Also incidently I got the cherry color which is…"
Saturday
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett you brought tears to me with below statement. Doctors move on to next but there is no next for us."
Thursday
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Amazing words Brett. You mention that being happy is doing small things for your mom.  I am buying a car tomorrow because my mother wanted me to buy. In India, car is still a luxury for many people and my mother never had it. So I am buying a…"
Thursday
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Virginia, plz forgive yourself. It is seriously heart wrenching to hear that you are going through all these.  I have similar feelings and want to get answers to thousands of questions. But frankly speaking those answers may not help us…"
Thursday
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Agree bluebell. Daily when I return to home from office and see my father alone I feel horrible. He used to take care of mother all day and now he has nothing to do. "
Tuesday
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Yes I completely agree with Brett. We need to let go the guilt.  Daylight, thanks for sharing your story. Gall Bladder cancer is a cancer from hell as it is deadly and hardly medical science can do anything when it is in stage 4. My mother had…"
Tuesday
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Daylight, you just made me remember all my painful moments. Same pinch. Mother did not have any prob till sep 17, and in oct 17 diagnosed with the same cancer as aunty i.e. gall bladder cancer stage 4. She died on 15 May 18. I do not know what to…"
Jun 11
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I agree with Crystal that when we are surrounded with people, the grief gets some relief and the next moment when we are alone it again encircles us. I also have similar experiences. "
Jun 11
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Great to hear that bluebell. "
Jun 10
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Virginia, today I felt extreme guilt and was not able to prepare for an imp interview on tuesday. Guilt was mainly related to her care in the last 15 days where her disease was progressing.So I respect your feelings and understand that sometimes you…"
Jun 10
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett, yes why should one prey on my grievance. This is really if true. In Hinduism, it is not considered to disturb a soul after it left the body. It is believed that now the soul is with its creator so better the soul be in peace."
Jun 10
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell, wishing u enjoyable time and your sister's husband will give blessings to all. And it is really great to hear celebration of life party. In India, it is not very common.  Theresa, this is really a soothing feeling that you always…"
Jun 9
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hi Guys Posting late at night from India. I went to an office party and tried to do whatever is expected from an employee. Drink, dance, meet lot of people but at the end feels a great void created by my mother's death. I wish things will…"
Jun 8
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I am also going for a small party today in my office. Sometimes it helps.  Also last night I really felt that there were few energies at my home not sure if positive or negative but I was feeling something. "
Jun 8

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monty thompson replied to monty thompson's discussion My wife passed 5 days before christmas in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi All I have noticed lately that i am having dreams with re-occuring teams. my wife leaving (though some circumstance) and having greater responsibilities to look after others.. are other experiencing dreams with constant team's ? that being…"
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Nancy commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Joe:  I'm with you on the signs.  I was positive my husband would send me signs.  I've read many books where people say it happens.  It's not a bird or a butterfly,  but they actual see and hear their loved…"
2 hours ago
joe kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Geraldine, it'll be five months on Thursday that my Darling died in my arms.  I know she loved me with all her heart and if she could she would send me a sign.  I'm convinced that she can't.  I just hope that she can…"
3 hours ago
Ammy commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"Connie, I hope your mom is okay.  I know how hard it is when another family member is ill.Our son's birthday was last Thursday (June 14).  The 8th without him.  And on Friday the 15th, my only sibling, my brother passed. …"
5 hours ago
Ammy commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"B. Windsor, I am so happy for you that you finally were able to see and visit with your grandson.  I hope it brought you some peace and happiness, and I hope you will be able to have a good relationship with him."
5 hours ago
Ammy commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"Hello.  Where has everyone gone?  I don't ever remember it being so quiet here.  I would like to think that is a good sign, but fearful that the newbies are being ignored.This place was a place of comfort and understanding when I…"
5 hours ago
Geraldine Brown commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"I miss my love so much and keep waiting for signs that he is still with with me. Would anyone like to share their stories of signs that their loved one is sending them. I need some hope."
6 hours ago
toni m dicarlo replied to Kar's discussion Please share your Story = the Loss of your Son or Daughter in the group Missing my Son or Daughter
"I haven't posted in awhile. May 26 was the 7 year date of my sons death and June 2 would have been his 23rd birthday, Gabriel was kind thoughtful and a pure joy to everyone he met. this life and the grieving have been very cyclical and when I…"
8 hours ago
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi Morgan You and I are in the same boat and we both wish it sink with us on it."
9 hours ago
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Great words Bluebell. I did not even leave my job as you and Virginia did so I have more reasons to feel guilty. I did not even tall to her enough before her illness. But as Bluebell said guilt has life of its own. "
13 hours ago
morgan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Its been a long long road since the day my husband died.   I cannot lie.  This is not getting any easier.  Instead of being in such a fog about what to do next I have more clarity as to what things are going to be like and I dont like…"
21 hours ago
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
""I quit my job and had the most important job, to take care of her.  She gave me life and took care of me my whole life, only for me to fail her when she needed me.  But what do I do with this guilt?  How do I punish…"
21 hours ago
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"AnneJ Thanks for your kindness, I will be so glad when this pain ends and join my Husband in paradise."
yesterday
AnneJ. commented on AnneJ.'s status
"I sent a reply with a couple questions but what forum it ends up on, God only knows. :)"
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Brett Bowman commented on AnneJ.'s status
"Anne, ask away."
yesterday
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Virginia, I never, ever want to give anyone the impression that I did everything right. And I got way too much praise through mom's illness and after her death. I knew better. They were right about one thing. I sure loved my mom. I could have…"
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Virginia G replied to Madeleine's discussion What would you do if you could have your lost loved one back for just five minutes?
"Thank you for the detailed answer Dennis"
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AnneJ. left a comment for kathleen akin
"Kathleen, I really miss you. Love, AnneJ."
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