My only daughter Heather Danielle Comstock Age 19 suddenly passed away in the car accident on US 23 in Okemos MI on Oct. 10 2010 Heather just began college at the Univ of MI. along with her boyfriend Matt and best friend Sarina. my next door neighbor friend at 22 yrs old suddenly passed away 4 months after Heather. My mother is currently dying from alzhiemers in the acute late stage. I'm sharing my daughter's pictures and a brief life story of Heather in the website below:http://obits.dignitymemorial.com/dignity-memorial/obituary.aspx?n=H...
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Holly, your daughter is beautiful... I'm so sorry you too have this horrible loss . I can see by heathers pictures she had an iinnet beauty also , I lost my son as you know Niivrmber26 2011 to a car accident two days after my daughters 19th birthday... See will never be the same if you notices the smiles and laughter in the pictures of my children together, she has lost all that shimmer that use to consume the room... It was like lossing two children... She is devistatedly unhappy without him... Anyways I just wanted you to know my thoughts are with you ...Michelle
How are you holding up? I just read through your comments and want you to know that you're not alone. Reach out directly and message me or reply to my comments - I would love to hear more about Heather and know how you are doing. The holidays were hard on me too. You are definitely not alone.
Hi Holly, thanks so much for writing back. I am going to the Compassionate Friends group world wide candle service for those who have lost a child tonight. I keep going to as many things like this to try and help me cope with my grief. I don't know about you but it will just hit me, even when I am out in public now. Before, I could usually hold myself together during the day because I would keep busy, but trying to do the holiday stuff is so hard. I was out the other day buying something for my preschool class, and bought a couple of little things to put in my granddaughters stockings and it hit me that Zach wouldn't be there to get his stocking stuff this year. We had a family vacation last year at this time, and had planned to do it again this year, my husband was getting ready to put the deposit in the mail the day Zach died. I just keep thinking how excited we all were last year, and excited to do it again this year. To have all of us together for a few days of family fun, it breaks my heart when I think that he will never be there for any of our family fun. I try not to think about the things that Zach will not be at again, but sometimes it creeps back in. Do you find yourself doing the same thing. I miss him so much. Thank you for being there for me, and I will be there for you too. Big hugs and prayers. Robin
Holly, I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daugther, Heather. I never thought that I would be a part of a group who had lost a child. This is my worst nightmare, as I am sure it is yours. It is so hard to understand when your child is taken from you so quickly, and tramatically. My only son, Zach, who was 23 died in an accident on September 3, 2011. It is so hard to believe that he is no longer here. I am glad you joined this group, it does help having people to share with who understand and are feeling what you are feeling. Take care, and know that you are in my prayers. Robin
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