Nancy
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  • Grand Rapids, MN
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Nancy commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Joe:  I'm with you on the signs.  I was positive my husband would send me signs.  I've read many books where people say it happens.  It's not a bird or a butterfly,  but they actual see and hear their loved…"
3 hours ago
Nancy commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Everything posted today rings so true for me too.  It helps that others truly understand."
Thursday
Nancy commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Wow Trevy.  A wonderful story written.  It made me cry."
Jun 4
Nancy commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Love it. "
May 20
Nancy commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"I feel the very same Morgan.  I had a love affair for 43 years.  We have 3 children who are still devastated but would be completely paralyzed if I did something like you are talking about.  I will bear this pain and remain alone for…"
May 19
Nancy commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Morgan. Thank you so much for thinking of me yesterday and your words that hit home so much for me and many on here.  You are so right about barely able to breathe at one year.  I told my daughter yesterday was just like every day for…"
May 11
Nancy commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"I'm sorry Linda.  I think the realization that all the plans made for retirement are gone and we are alone is the hardest thing to comprehend.  The majority of my life I had been married.  43 years. To try and adjust to a…"
Apr 28
Nancy commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Thank you Trina.  I appreciate your kind words.  I've had a sister and my little 98 yo mom say things like "you can't hide this by working so much, you have to face it."  Or " it's been a year, you need…"
Apr 28
Nancy commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"All I do is work.  I'm exhausted at the end of each day.  The only time I don't think about things is when I'm working.  The rest of the time it is all I think about.  I play things over and over in my head. …"
Apr 27
Nancy commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Very cute picture Linda!  It's so hard to not have them here.  "
Mar 30
Nancy commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
Mar 11
Nancy commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"I believe like you do Morgan. Somehow I will connect with my husband again.  I have to believe that or I too will go mad."
Mar 3
Nancy commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Surreal. Like a bad dream you can't believe is true.."
Feb 4
Nancy commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hope the trip helps for awhile."
Jan 29
Nancy commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Very well said morgan."
Jan 28
Nancy commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"I am sure you are numb Rose. My gosh.  I believe I have not gotten past the shock to truly grieve.  My husbands diagnosis came out of the blue and then he was critically ill for most of it. We were fighting it with all we had until it was…"
Jan 22

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About Me:
Was married 43 years. 3 grown children.
About my Loss:
My husband on May 10, 2017

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At 3:01pm on December 30, 2017, Mel Royer said…

As my third year alone approaches on April 29th, there is no peace. I miss Nancy more than ever and the only thing that makes living tolerable is my belief that I WILL see her again in the next life. As far as living today...I always told My Nancy "I wouldn't want to live in a world without you in it" and I still believe that! I am seeing a counselor of late and it doesn't do much more than kill time.

 
 
 

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monty thompson replied to monty thompson's discussion My wife passed 5 days before christmas in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi All I have noticed lately that i am having dreams with re-occuring teams. my wife leaving (though some circumstance) and having greater responsibilities to look after others.. are other experiencing dreams with constant team's ? that being…"
54 minutes ago
Nancy commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Joe:  I'm with you on the signs.  I was positive my husband would send me signs.  I've read many books where people say it happens.  It's not a bird or a butterfly,  but they actual see and hear their loved…"
3 hours ago
joe kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Geraldine, it'll be five months on Thursday that my Darling died in my arms.  I know she loved me with all her heart and if she could she would send me a sign.  I'm convinced that she can't.  I just hope that she can…"
3 hours ago
Ammy commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"Connie, I hope your mom is okay.  I know how hard it is when another family member is ill.Our son's birthday was last Thursday (June 14).  The 8th without him.  And on Friday the 15th, my only sibling, my brother passed. …"
5 hours ago
Ammy commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"B. Windsor, I am so happy for you that you finally were able to see and visit with your grandson.  I hope it brought you some peace and happiness, and I hope you will be able to have a good relationship with him."
5 hours ago
Ammy commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"Hello.  Where has everyone gone?  I don't ever remember it being so quiet here.  I would like to think that is a good sign, but fearful that the newbies are being ignored.This place was a place of comfort and understanding when I…"
5 hours ago
Geraldine Brown commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"I miss my love so much and keep waiting for signs that he is still with with me. Would anyone like to share their stories of signs that their loved one is sending them. I need some hope."
6 hours ago
toni m dicarlo replied to Kar's discussion Please share your Story = the Loss of your Son or Daughter in the group Missing my Son or Daughter
"I haven't posted in awhile. May 26 was the 7 year date of my sons death and June 2 would have been his 23rd birthday, Gabriel was kind thoughtful and a pure joy to everyone he met. this life and the grieving have been very cyclical and when I…"
8 hours ago
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi Morgan You and I are in the same boat and we both wish it sink with us on it."
9 hours ago
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Great words Bluebell. I did not even leave my job as you and Virginia did so I have more reasons to feel guilty. I did not even tall to her enough before her illness. But as Bluebell said guilt has life of its own. "
13 hours ago
morgan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Its been a long long road since the day my husband died.   I cannot lie.  This is not getting any easier.  Instead of being in such a fog about what to do next I have more clarity as to what things are going to be like and I dont like…"
21 hours ago
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
""I quit my job and had the most important job, to take care of her.  She gave me life and took care of me my whole life, only for me to fail her when she needed me.  But what do I do with this guilt?  How do I punish…"
21 hours ago
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"AnneJ Thanks for your kindness, I will be so glad when this pain ends and join my Husband in paradise."
yesterday
AnneJ. commented on AnneJ.'s status
"I sent a reply with a couple questions but what forum it ends up on, God only knows. :)"
yesterday
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Brett Bowman commented on AnneJ.'s status
"Anne, ask away."
yesterday
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Virginia, I never, ever want to give anyone the impression that I did everything right. And I got way too much praise through mom's illness and after her death. I knew better. They were right about one thing. I sure loved my mom. I could have…"
yesterday
Virginia G replied to Madeleine's discussion What would you do if you could have your lost loved one back for just five minutes?
"Thank you for the detailed answer Dennis"
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AnneJ. left a comment for kathleen akin
"Kathleen, I really miss you. Love, AnneJ."
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