"I'm very sorry for your loss and hope you can find some comfort in talking to others here. I have found there are many who say things that describe exactly how I feel. It has made me feel I'm not alone."
"Sorry for your loss Paul. The 29th would have been our 44th Anniv. We married young and have 3 kids. Dales diagnosis and death were swift and brutal. Also cancer. He lasted 7 months and before that was healthy as a…"
"As my third year alone approaches on April 29th, there is no peace. I miss Nancy more than ever and the only thing that makes living tolerable is my belief that I WILL see her again in the next life. As far as living today...I always told My Nancy…"
"I agree with you all. I too keep thinking Dale will return or contact me somehow. Our 44th Anniversary is tomorrow. I'm starting to really wonder if there is anything after life on earth.....I hate to say that but I've…"
"So sorry Dawn W. This will also be my first Christmas without my husband of 43 years. He passed May 10th after 7 months of cancer where he went downhill rapidly this past Jan. So many unsaid things as he was confused off and on. It…"
"I had a bad day today too. Horrific sadness just swept over me. I'm still not over the shock. I talked everything over with him. I try to take 1 day at a time. Finding it's the same day after day. So much of a huge change and I feel like…"
"I would like to see a therapist for grief counseling. Problem is I live in a pretty small town and not a ton of choices. Hospice offers it but I had a few issues with Hospice so not sure that would be the best choice. How did you find the right…"
As my third year alone approaches on April 29th, there is no peace. I miss Nancy more than ever and the only thing that makes living tolerable is my belief that I WILL see her again in the next life. As far as living today...I always told My Nancy "I wouldn't want to live in a world without you in it" and I still believe that! I am seeing a counselor of late and it doesn't do much more than kill time.
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I'm so sorry that you're feeling alone, angry, and guilty. I would say that you already know what to do - continue to try to heal through therapy and continue to care for and love your children. If you could…"
I am creating this site for the many of us who have suffered several losses. I lost my mom, dad, grandma(2nd mom), grandpa, my beloved dog and divorce.Many of us have lost more than one person or event.Come share!See More
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I never thought that I would be a widow in my forties. My friends can't relate and feel the need to comment on everything, even if they have no experience with grief. I know they mean well but only we know what we are going though.See More
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A little over 6 months ago I lost my husband of 43 years. We were only 19 & 20 when we got married so we essentially grew up together. He has been my best friend, my confidante, my love. About 5 years ago he developed COPD so we knew our time together might be limited, however many people live several years with COPD by keeping it under control. Unfortunately, last May, he developed a lung infection and was very sick, in the hospital for the first time in his 63 years. But once under…See More
depression is horrible I can't seem to get out of it I miss my bf. He didn't have a easy life he was 52 when he passed and he was getting his life together and things were going ok for him and us and now he's gone and all his dreams and what he wanted to do and us to do is gone it seems so unfair to him and us I just don't understand why this had to happen See More