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Diana, Grief Counselor left a comment for samantha
"To change your Profile Photo. Click the “Settings” link in the upper right corner of the page.  On your Profile Settings page, click the “Choose File” button next to the Photo field, which will allow you to…"
Nov 14, 2016
samantha commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I can not eat hardly anything. I lost four lbs in just one wk. I feel as though i am still in shock. One minute i come close to accepting she is gone but then i go right back to being in disbelief. The last memory i have of my mom haunts me. The…"
Nov 4, 2016
samantha commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"The 14 will mark two month's since my mom suddenly passed. The i"
Nov 4, 2016
Diana, Grief Counselor and samantha are now friends
Oct 25, 2016
Heather left a comment for samantha
"I appreciate the words that you said and I totally understand when you say you feel like you will never be ok again...Reach out when you can to whoever you feel comfortable sharing your grief with...I sincerely hope that they will sit with you and…"
Oct 22, 2016
samantha left a comment for Heather
"I am sorry for your loss as well. Thank you for your kind words. Sometimes i feel like i will never be okay again"
Oct 22, 2016
Heather left a comment for samantha
"I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are not alone in this and we all understand what it is like to lose your one and only Mom. It's been almost 4 months since my Mom died and I have never felt more lost or angry in my life.…"
Oct 21, 2016
samantha commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"My grief and pain of my mom's death is consuming me. It's been a little over a month and i am in such a dark place and see no light."
Oct 20, 2016
samantha joined Karen's group
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I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....
Oct 20, 2016
samantha commented on Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group Traumatic, Sudden Loss
"samantha It has been just over a month since my mom's sudden death. She died from renal failure, sepsis, pneumonia aspiration and heart failure. I feel so lost and in such a dark place. I can't see any light. I don't feel her around…"
Oct 17, 2016
samantha joined Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group
Oct 17, 2016
samantha commented on Rachel Lynn Schuler's group How To Deal With Loss Over Time
"It has been just over a month since my mom's sudden death. She died from renal failure, sepsis, pneumonia aspiration and heart failure. I feel so lost and in such a dark place. I can't see any light. I don't feel her around me like…"
Oct 17, 2016
samantha joined Rachel Lynn Schuler's group
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How To Deal With Loss Over Time

I am having a very hard time accepting the loss of my mother....I want to start this group to discuss how we can best cope with the loss of our loved ones as time goes on....it would be good to get ideas and to talk about
Oct 17, 2016
samantha posted a status
"It is just over a month sinve i found my mom dying on her bathroom floor. I still can not cope. Is there something wrong with me??"
Oct 17, 2016
samantha is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Oct 6, 2016

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About Me:
I am 29. I have two kids. Not married.
About my Loss:
I lost my mom almost three wks ago. I feel like it's my fault she is dead. I can not cope or stop crying.

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At 4:19pm on November 14, 2016, Diana, Grief Counselor said…

To change your Profile Photo. Click the “Settings” link in the upper right corner of the page.  On your Profile Settings page, click the “Choose File” button next to the Photo field, which will allow you to choose the photo you want to upload from your computer. When you upload a new photo, the old one will be deleted.

Once you’ve got your new Profile Photo selected, scroll down and click “Save” to confirm the change!  And that's it.  Let me know if you have any other questions.  

At 5:52pm on October 22, 2016, Heather said…
I appreciate the words that you said and I totally understand when you say you feel like you will never be ok again...Reach out when you can to whoever you feel comfortable sharing your grief with...I sincerely hope that they will sit with you and hold your grief with understanding and care. All too often people are so uncomfortable with death...they think if they call you/visit you it will just remind you of your loss and make it worse. What they don't realize is that it is not possible to hurt anymore than we already do. I was so hurt by old childhood friends that I thought would contact me after Mom died but I heard nothing at all from anyone. I just don't understand how you can not at least Acknowledge the loss...
Anyway, please take the time ( I know it's hard when you are a Mom and doing things on your own), a few minutes here and there, to stop and breathe and look after you:-). You deserve that!
At 12:14pm on October 21, 2016, Heather said…
I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are not alone in this and we all understand what it is like to lose your one and only Mom. It's been almost 4 months since my Mom died and I have never felt more lost or angry in my life. Regrets of things left unsaid weigh heavy... wish everyday I could have just one more day, one more moment. Sending light, hugs, and strength to you.
 
 
 

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Janie m Snitko commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I hope everybody has a loving good weekend and let's celebrate our Mom's for giving us life. I love you Mama!!"
2 hours ago
Linda Engberg replied to Jennifer's discussion They don't understand. in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Jennifer, It has been 4 years since I lost my Husband and soulmate to cancer. My family and friends tell me that time will things better. To tell you the truth the only way I keep my sanity, is adopting a dog and seeing my therapist and…"
8 hours ago
KIM Montgomery replied to Jennifer's discussion They don't understand. in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Jennifer, my husband passed May 2, 2017.  We had a wonderful marriage and we loved each other with all of our hearts.  Jack was an awesome person.  I am currently going through this with my own family.  I am away from my family…"
10 hours ago
KIM Montgomery commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hello, well I made it through my 1st anniversary without him.  It was a really hard day, Wednesday.  I miss him like crazy and love him so much. Today I just feel numb.  All these stages of grief are exhausting.  Working full…"
15 hours ago
Mike H. posted a blog post

Repost: Is It Wrong to Grieve?

Is It Wrong to Grieve?Have you ever had a brief bout with illness? Perhaps you recovered so quickly that you have practically forgotten the episode. Well, grief is not like that. “There is no such thing as ‘getting over’ grief,” writes Dr. Alan Wolfelt in his book Healing a Spouse’s Grieving Heart. However, he adds: “Over time and with the support of others, your grief will soften.”As an example, consider how the patriarch Abraham reacted when his wife died. The Bible says that “Abraham began…See More
17 hours ago
Angela commented on Angela's blog post I lost My Mom
"I think because my daughter is giving me my first grand child it has blocked out some of the hurt I feel. Even though I am not crying I do think about my mom all the time, everyday"
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Alice Thompson commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Jennifer, I remember when the anger started burning inside me too. It was horrible and ugly and scary, and immensely powerful. I felt afraid to open my mouth in front of others in case I screamed and yelled and told them what I thought of them and…"
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"My mom loved Judge Judy. You couldn't convince her that was not a real courtroom. She also loved The Shark Tank and Everybody Loves Raymond. It all seems like just yesterday since we watched those shows together. I love those shows, too, but it…"
yesterday
John T. commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hello AnneJ and everyone,  In a couple of weeks it will be 3 years since I lost all that mattered to me.  Six months ago I started unpacking and hung some pictures where I live now.  I did it out of embarrassment rather than a desire…"
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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
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Jennifer added a discussion to the group Lost My Spouse...
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They don't understand.

How do you deal with well meaning family/friends who just don't understand what you're going through? 2 of my sisters-in-law still have their husbands.  One does not have a good marriage, she talks about her husband dying flippantly she says things like "I know if _____ died I would use the insurance money to go on that vacation he never wants to go on."  Then in the next breath "Are you still going on your cruise next year?  I could take (my husband's) place if you want so you're not alone."…See More
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Janie m Snitko commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Today was a good day! I love you and thank you so very much Mama! I think of you everyday while cleaning up your home and getting it ready for sale. It is still hard for me to go there and not seeing you watching Dr.Phil and judge Judy! I have not…"
yesterday
Beth Swansboro posted a status
"I am just learning this new place to talk. Not real sure how it works. I will stop in again. Thinking alot tonite of my husband. Sad."
yesterday
Beth Swansboro posted a status
"I get sad when I see family together. My son who is an only child I feel pain for. He lost the person he loved so much and talked to alot."
yesterday
Beth Swansboro posted a status
"Been reading the articles past few days. Lost my husband Nov. 2015. Not a day goes by I wish he were here. I will like being able to be here"
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Jennifer commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Apparently, I have found the anger that my counselor and everyone else has been saying I was going to feel.  To this point, all I have felt is sad or numb.  Well, the last 2 days I have not been able to stand to see happy families.…"
yesterday
Diane commented on Angela's blog post I lost My Mom
"My mom had renal failure , she passed away December 2015. I still miss her everyday of my breathing, during this time I had broken my right wrist on a Friday Dec. 11 2015 my mom died on the 17. The pain was in so many directions, leaving the…"
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Diane posted a status
"It's been 2 years since my mom died, I still miss her , it will be 3 years really in December. I miss u mom. Love you so much,"
yesterday
Abigail Noell and Brenda Ann are now friends
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AnneJ commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi, Linda. I feel the same way as you. I feel like you could walk right into my home, sit down, and we wouldn't have to say a word and be completely understood by one another. It's been 3 years and 10 months since my Beloved man died, the…"
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