Hello Shelly, I was just reading through some of the member's profile and I came across yours and saw your beautiful daughter. What you posted about the "THE PRETTY WHITE DRESS" was so profound. I am so sorry, so sorry for us all who have to endure this pain. My heart hurts with yours, I'm sorry that I have no comforting words to offer but I wanted to extend my condolences. I have often said that in a "PERFECT" world, no one would ever come to know such pain, no one would suffer the loss of their child, there would be no death or pain of any sort. Unfortunately, we don't live in such a world. The only thing that helps is having the support from others who unfortunately no what I'm feeling or have a pretty good idea. She will always be your daughter and you will always be her mom....that will NEVER change or be diminished. She had a life and her life mattered. Sending you many hugs.