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Shelly
- Female
- Floydada, TX
- United States
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Profile Information
- About Me:
- Single mom of 3 children
- About my Loss:
- lost my 12 yr old daughter while riding her bike she was struck by a truck died on impact
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A Pair of Shoes
"A Pair of Shoes"
I am wearing a pair of shoes.
They are ugly shoes.
Uncomfortable shoes.
I hate my shoes.
Each day I wear them, and each day I wish I had another pair.
Some days my shoes hurt so bad that I do not think I can take another
step.
Yet, I continue to wear them.
I get funny looks wearing these shoes.
They are looks of sympathy.
I can tell in others eyes that they are glad they are my shoes and
not theirs.
They… Continue
I am wearing a pair of shoes.
They are ugly shoes.
Uncomfortable shoes.
I hate my shoes.
Each day I wear them, and each day I wish I had another pair.
Some days my shoes hurt so bad that I do not think I can take another
step.
Yet, I continue to wear them.
I get funny looks wearing these shoes.
They are looks of sympathy.
I can tell in others eyes that they are glad they are my shoes and
not theirs.
They… Continue
Posted on May 25, 2010 at 9:11pm — 2 Comments
Pretty white dress!
I walk in this cold room where My daughter is layin on this steel table, From far away it looks as if she is sleeping. I get closer to her and she looks so peaceful so still so beautiful but yet so lifeless! My kids including myself sleep with our eyes open..on this occassion hers are tighly shut..I stand beside her picking the grass out of her HAIR, and telling her how much I love her! She had braids in her hair I took them down and combed her hair ever so gently! Put a Tiara in her hair,…
ContinuePosted on April 15, 2010 at 9:00am — 2 Comments
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Hello Shelly, I was just reading through some of the member's profile and I came across yours and saw your beautiful daughter. What you posted about the "THE PRETTY WHITE DRESS" was so profound. I am so sorry, so sorry for us all who have to endure this pain. My heart hurts with yours, I'm sorry that I have no comforting words to offer but I wanted to extend my condolences. I have often said that in a "PERFECT" world, no one would ever come to know such pain, no one would suffer the loss of their child, there would be no death or pain of any sort. Unfortunately, we don't live in such a world. The only thing that helps is having the support from others who unfortunately no what I'm feeling or have a pretty good idea. She will always be your daughter and you will always be her mom....that will NEVER change or be diminished. She had a life and her life mattered. Sending you many hugs.
Thinking about you.
Praying you find peace,
Jodi
It's been a little over 2 weeks since my son died and I am feeling a little better but the nights are so hard for me. We used to watch a show or a movie before we went to bed and now there is nothing but quiet and I hate it and I dont know what to do with myself now.You are lucky that you have other children to make you happy and help you heal. Try to let go of the guilt that you werent there, I believe that it would have happened anyway because we all have a time to go no matter where we are or what we are doing. At the time my son lay dying I had just turned out my lights to go to bed..hows that for guilt?..it will drive us crazy if we let it..just try to think of the beautiful day that we will be with our children again instead if you can.
What a lovely girl your daughter is. I know you miss her alot and it is a hole that can never be filled, at least thats how it feels to me,like there is a hole where my heart used to be. Please pray that my son Jesse be let into the kingdom of heaven. I will pray for you and your daughter as well although your daughter looks like an angel already.
I am sad to hear about your daughter and hope that you can find a way to lessen the pain, what is working for me if finding out who my son was when he wasnt with me. Any time you would like to talk you can reach me at JSLD68@aol.com