Michaela waldier
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  • Golden Valley, AZ
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Dec 30, 2017
Michaela waldier commented on Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group Traumatic, Sudden Loss
"Well, the finality of it all has set in;recieved my hunni's ashes and death cert finally from Alaska.He's been gone 9 weeks. Im no longer angry,im moving towards finding a happy medium, didnt have the luxery of laying around in defeat,have…"
Oct 16, 2017
Bryan Kelly Reeves left a comment for Michaela waldier
"They are as lost as we are. They don't know what to do or say. They mean well but don't realize the are being offensive. You can't move on until YOU are ready. I don't think the hurt or lose ever leaves us but it eases off as the…"
Oct 8, 2017
Michaela waldier joined Amy's group
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You're too young to be a widow

I never thought that I would be a widow in my forties.  My friends can't relate and feel the need to comment on everything, even if they have no experience with grief.  I know they mean well but only we know what we are going though.See More
Oct 8, 2017
Michaela waldier posted a status
"Thank you...i guess I havnt as of yet learned to hold people at arms length and protect myself..i know they mean well,I think"
Oct 8, 2017
Michaela waldier left a comment for Bryan Kelly Reeves
"Any suggestions for the "New people" or how to handle family and friends trying to help?I hear alot of "just move on but how when everything is so raw and freah?"
Oct 8, 2017
Michaela waldier posted a status
"I have found that it's perfectly natural to feel angry, we are going thru something very raw and personal..may everyone find their solace"
Oct 8, 2017
Michaela waldier commented on Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group Traumatic, Sudden Loss
"Hello everyone,I'm new to the group,am so sorry for everyone's loss. I am finding we all deal with things the best we can, there isn't a right or wrong way to grieve,it's all very personal. I lost my hunni 8 weeks ago tommorrow…"
Oct 8, 2017
Michaela waldier joined Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group
Oct 8, 2017
Michaela waldier is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Oct 8, 2017

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About Me:
I'm 42.raising a 3yo moving thru stages of this sudden loss,am doing fairly well all things considered, am a very strong person with a zest for life,I didn't curl into a ball of emotion,I picked myself up and am doing the best I can with moving forward
About my Loss:
My fiance lost his life due to suicide nearly 8 weeks ago.He apologized,said he loved me, grabbed the shotgun and ended everything in front of me and our toddler

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At 10:04pm on October 8, 2017, Bryan Kelly Reeves said…

They are as lost as we are. They don't know what to do or say. They mean well but don't realize the are being offensive. You can't move on until YOU are ready. I don't think the hurt or lose ever leaves us but it eases off as the years go. You can't not let yourself be happy with the life you have left and your child needs someone in there life also.

 
 
 

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Darien replied to Suzette Laree Arch's discussion 4 months and I can't stop crying in the group Being the Other Woman/Other Man
"I don't think I have any special strength. I still miss David every day. And I have a wonderful man in my life who understands because he still misses his wife every day. And yet, we have a very strong and loving relationship with each other.…"
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Debbie Lynn Hallstrom commented on Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group Lost Without My Mom
"July 4, 2016.   when life changed.... Good days, bad days but the one thing that exist is that I can't cope. I hide it all the time. I try to smile, I do smile but inside, I am terrible. My mom was my very best friend. She was my…"
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Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
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Marjorie Willcox commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Dear Linda I feel for you and me   I feel my life is over but I have to go on living"
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Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Bluebird, I feel exactly like you and it has been five years, I wish God would take me. I live in misery everyday. "
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L.O commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Thank you marjorie, i worry about everything now especially when it involves my children x"
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Patricia Chavez posted a discussion

So painful without my mommy

Hi my name is Patricia ,  I’m a new member.. I cared for my mom in my home for 15 years .. last year she started getting weak. I don’t speak to any my sisters either , they are accusing me of helping Hospice poison my mother with morphine .. They never helped me care for my mom, I’d have to beg them and they always caused an argument and would block themselves from phone calls to help with my mom .. They I would go as far as to call my mother and I ask my mom “why doesn’t Patricia put you in a…See More
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Marjorie Willcox commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"I'm on mertazapine which I take mid evening.it makes me sleep all night but have no trouble waking up."
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L.O commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Well been to drs again and they still cant find out why im having chest pains (in even had a heart scan) They put me on new meds mirtazapine but im afraid to take them as i heard its hard to wake up and having young children i need to be able to get…"
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My love Kris and I in Salzburg Austria in 2011
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"Everyday is a struggle now"
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Jenni H posted a blog post

Totally tired of my life and lack of emotions.

My mother had a stroke in October of 2015. She changed over night due to the aphasia and brain damage. She was a new person, half of who she once was. I began grieving my mother in October. I turned of all emotion and detached myself during the caregiving. It was just way too hard for me to deal with her conditions and my father's emotions. My family are gifted with abilities, mine was empathy and third sight. Most may not believe in that stuff, but it is more than real to me due to years of…See More
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