Marti Shaffer
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About my Loss:
My 21 year old son, Matthew died on January 12th, 2011.

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At 3:01am on May 1, 2011, Ammy said…
Marti, we all grieve a little different, but I can relate to some of the things you said.  I know how you feel, but I want you to know that little by little it will ease up.  It doesn't go away, but it won't be there constantly.  In the beginning (91/2 months ago) I thought I would not survive myself and I really didn't want to, but now when I don't have such an awful day I am able to thank God for giving me a break.  My son had a little girl 21 months old when he died and we are so grateful to have her, but it also breaks our hearts to know that she will not have her daddy.  Feel your pain, cry, scream, pray.  You have a right to feel whatever you are feeling.  Blessings, Ann

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"Hi everyone, I hope you all have a nice thanksgiving holiday. This is my first major holiday without my dad. I miss him so much. I'm trying to keep busy by making a huge feast for only three people, but it's not enough. It's hard not…"
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