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Weekends are the worst
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The battle started last night,unable to get much sleep.Tossing and turning upset stomach,nervous.clouding thinking.This is my 3rd or 4th weekend alone,lastweekend was a total washout,so I'm hoping…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by vince s May 26, 2012.

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like to read,help others and keep to myself enjoy other peoples company but like my privacy like the new england patriots and enjoy pets,do things around the house and share my triumphs with my loved ones
About my Loss:
after 19 years of marriage,my wife Donna has passed away she left to be with her father and 1st husband to be in a better place strangely they all passed away after battling cancer we have so many fond memeroies together it will be odd not having her with me.seems like where ever I go people ask "where's Donna" and its hurts.
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weekends are the worst (week 6)

I had a feeling this weekend was going to be a tough one to get through.All week long my emotions and feeling were totally foreign to me,almost like an alien was taking me over.Nothing major planned today but the alien started up in the morning,it was  like getting hit with a sledgehammer in the chest.I hadn't been this sad and depressed in a while.I get my composure together to go to the store to  buy some pool supplies as i'm waiting to get the water checked Mike the owner comes over to…


Posted on June 16, 2012 at 8:01pm — 2 Comments

weekends are the worst (week 5)

Today we planned to knock down the deck off the 2nd floor kitchen,replace the atrium doors with windows.Got home a little later than planned last night which meant I had to get up quite a bit eariler than I wanted. It was exciting because we had planned on this change for a while.I then realized I get more pleasure doing things for other people than doing things for myself.Even though the windows look good and the yard looks different and the patio looks better,there is no feeling of…


Posted on June 9, 2012 at 6:28pm


 today started like a normal day,did some errands,banking,got my haircut,went to get an eye exam,did the grocery shopping,went to the pet store.Things that were always a 2 person job in our household,I did alone.the hair dresser said Vince you lost a lot of weight you feeling ok.Well I lost 20 lbs but I'm still 5 9 and weigh 215.I wish I had someone around to talk to about looking bad.Putting the groceries away to feeding the birds was a 2 person job in our house.Cooking dinner and…


Posted on June 2, 2012 at 8:15pm — 2 Comments

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At 8:33pm on June 10, 2012, Julie Ann Finch said…

At 11:16pm on June 2, 2012, Lori said…

Thank you for requesting me as a friend. I really think it helps. We are sort of in the same place. I am about a month ahead of you in the process. I will keep you in my prayers, I definitely understand the loneliness, and the "empty easter egg"..glad we got to chat, it helped me !

At 5:34pm on May 12, 2012, Mary M. said…

Vince,  Words seem inadequate at times, but please know that you are not alone, this site gives us a window to others who have suffered or are suffering the same losses we are.  I am new to this site and not really sure how things work .. but I think in the chat when you see "ME" others see your name so they know its you.  I will look for you when I am on line in the late evenings.  Not sure about you, but I am having trouble sleeping so have been spending time on the computer trying to connect with others so I don't fall totally apart.  I find the evenings and nights the worse, although today I am not doing so good.  Just keep telling myself it will get better, it will get better .. and praying that it does.


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