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missing my son so badly
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my son was killed sept 24 due to a roll over accident, he was with a friend he had just met, and they both were killed. i didn't find out till the next day on the 25th when a policeman called and…Continue

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not to much to tell. I worked for 21 years and retired after back surgery two yrs. ago. I work part time now. Married with three boys, age 40-27-and my doud 29
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doug died in a car accident sept 24 2009,

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missing my son

why do we have to go through such bad times with grief. i miss my doug and all his funny little sayings that put a smile on your face he was truly a beatiful person inside and out life is just never going to br right again its been 5mo and i feel like i am losing it. paula

Posted on March 19, 2010 at 9:38pm

this is paula , i have been workin alot for chritmas, i really appreciate all who have responed and i will get back to you thanks so much for your prayers

this is paula , i have been workin alot for chritmas, i really appreciate all who have responed and i will get back to you thanks so much for your prayers

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 6:42pm

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At 10:07pm on August 23, 2010, Carrie L said…
Hi Paula I am so sorry for your loss I am here grieving with you. it will be forever. but we will be ok. they loved us and we dearly loved them i thought i had more time too. carrie L
At 1:45pm on July 27, 2010, Dee Davis said…
Well Pauls, It's Jamies birthday today,and it hurts So muchthat we will never spend another one together again.I've gone bk to grief grps Sunday nite and it helps for a little while.I'll probably bake a cake and take it to my daughters job and say it was for him. but hope they enjoy it for him.Then come home and cry myself to sleep again like every nite.My prayers are still with you Dee
At 9:21pm on July 20, 2010, Dee Davis said…
Paula, you've been on my mind and always in my heart,and I hope you areholding on better.I am planning a concert to celebrate Jamies first yr. ann for Sept 5 .Procedes from it will go to C.P.to help other kids with cerabral palsey.His birthday is this mo. 27th. Both dates hurt so much. But I need to try to celebrate his life, to let everyone know his life mattered so much to me and family,I hope you will remember more of what your child ment to this world, and what they left behind in great memories. I hope some of this will help.Dee
At 7:49pm on December 18, 2009, Laura Villarreal said…
Paula, I am so sorry for the loss of your son...there is nothing more traumatic than the loss of a child. Take life one day at a time, one hour, one minute, one second or one breath at a time. Whatever is best for you. There are no guidelines or timetables when grieving as we all grieve differently. Be kind to yourself and take care of yourself as grieving is very difficult and confusing. The first couple of months after my daughter died I felt like I was wading through mud...it just takes time but we just don't know how much time.
Let us know how you are doing. Laura
At 3:00pm on December 17, 2009, paula ingalls said…
i'm not to good with yhe computer so i'm giving this a try. paula
 
 
 

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