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Thank you. Nothing has changed but I also keep praying.
May 19, 2009
Stacey, I don't even know what to say that is so sad & so wrong - I certainly hope things change with that situation & you see your grandkids soon. ((( HUG )))
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Oh my, I am so sorry you haven't had contact with them. I'll pray that you hear from them.
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I think you have already started, so just keep up the good work.
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Thank you so much. I really want to somehow spread the word about seat belt use. Just not sure where to start.
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I wrote this poem about a week ago with help from God. When I heard about you son My devestation was immense How would I ever live without you The thought was too intense I remember when I was pregnant And thrilled but nervous too I remember eve…
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I'm 52 and I had 2 sons. I live alone, but with 12 cats! I love them all so much. I'm disabled with MS, seizures, diabetes and sleep apnea. So I pretty much live on my computer.
About my Loss:
My son, Ron, was 27 when on a crisp October moring he and his co-worker were heading to work up in Wyoming. Ron was the passenger and Bruce the driver. The police think that Bruce fell asleep briefly and went off the right side of the road and when he came back on the road they hit a guard rail right in front of the passenger seat. Ron was killed instantly and left behind a wife and my 2 precious grandchildren. This occurred on Oct. 23, 2007

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God, Ron and Me


I wrote this poem about a week ago with help from God.


When I heard about you son
My devestation was immense
How would I ever live without you
The thought was too intense

I remember when I was pregnant
And thrilled but nervous too
I remember every day
Just waiting to meet you

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Posted on May 9, 2009 at 9:52pm — 3 Comments

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At 11:46pm on September 22, 2009, Dee Dee said…
I live in Kentucky. I couldn't believe that he died on your birthday!
Your son's pictures reminded me so much of my son. They were the same age. We are also the same age. It is so hard to go on. I also have one other son he is the reason I go on. He's my oldest son 33. After Clint died; my oldest told me he needed me; now he is my rock along with my husband who was Clint's step dad.
At 11:07pm on September 22, 2009, Dee Dee said…
Stacey I also have ms and lost my son at the age of 27. He was married with a 3 year old daughter. It is so hard to go on. Every day I think of him. I love him so much. I try not to ask why it happened, but just have to trust in God. He died on January 16, 2009
At 5:55pm on May 10, 2009, Diana Young said…
Welcome to the community. (((((hugs)))))
 
 
 

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