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Annette Dominguez
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- Schertz, TX
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Years later...
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Annette Dominguez's Discussions
My husband has been gone 5 months
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I am having such tough day today. It will be 5 months on the 1st that he died. I miss him so much. I just want him to walk in the door and give me a hug and say everything is going to be ok. I cried…Continue
Started this discussion. Last reply by anna l. Aug 2, 2011.
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Chloe left a comment for Annette Dominguez"Hi Annette: I don't really what to say to make you feel much better because I feel exactly the same way you do. My husband of 20 yrs, Rick, passed away 3 yrs ago at age 45. His death was very unexpected and even now I have to…"
Amanda Ab left a comment for Annette Dominguez"Hi Anette,
I hope you are doing ok. Holiday time is here and it just feels lost and overwhelmed. Winter makes me sad and lonely on top of being heartbroken. I am trying my hardest to kedp moving forward for my son but there is still many times I…"
Laura commented on Annette Dominguez's blog post Bad Day Yesterday"I don't like New Years either. We have something in common. It was the last day I saw my Mom alive. What did your husband pass away from? I do know your pain. People always say it will get easier in time, but those are the people that really…"
Annette Dominguez posted a status"Feeling very down. Yesterday was a tough day. Lots of crying and missing him. Made myself go to church. Still didn't feel better."
Annette Dominguez posted a status"Just came across a picture of my husband on FB and started crying. I still miss him so much."
Annette Dominguez joined kimberly rowe's group
mY sOuLmAtE, mY bEsTfRiEnD,mY sUpErMaN,mY eVeRyThInG
this is ment for the people who have lost the closest thing to them it doesnt matter if its a person or an animal it's stilla lost and they all hurt
Annette Dominguez posted a status"Father's Day was so hard. I cried a lot. I just have to prepare myself a little better."
Annette Dominguez posted a status"I had a dream the other night that my husband was sleeping with his arm over me. I could feel his hand. I was so sad the next day."
Annette Dominguez posted a status"Life is slowly getting better. I still miss him everyday but it doesn't hurt so much."
Annette Dominguez posted a status"Today would have been my 32nd anniversary. So I am feeling blue today. I miss him so much."
Amanda Ab commented on Annette Dominguez's status"Hi Annette. I had not heard from you in a bit. I am glad you are doing okay and that time does heal."
Annette Dominguez posted a status"Thank you Lord that each day is getting easier. I still miss my husband everyday but it isn't so painful now."
Annette Dominguez posted a status"Just trying to get thru the days one step at a time. Hoping that the future will be bright again one day."
Amanda Ab left a comment for Annette Dominguez"Hi Annette,
Just stopping by to say hello. How are you?"
Profile Information
- About Me:
- I am 50 years old, was married for 30 years, have two wonderful children. I am devastated by my husbands death. I know this is still too soon but am crying everyday several times a day.
- About my Loss:
- My husband died of an accidental gunshot would on 1/1/11. I feel like I will never get over this sadness and crying. I am going to a grief share group once a week but I feel like I need a little more support than once a week.
Annette Dominguez's Blog
Bad Day Yesterday
Yesterday was hard. I get blindsided every now and then with the grief. I miss my husband so much. I feel like he was taken away too soon. My daughter told me that God took him at the right time. Everything happens according to God's plan. I know that but it doesn't make me feel any better. I was counting on us growing old together. The holidays are going to be harder this year than last year. Last year I was still in a fog, just going through the motions. This year everything is clear and…
ContinuePosted on October 1, 2012 at 9:18am — 2 Comments
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- At 2:04pm on December 7, 2012, Chloe said…
Hi Annette: I don't really what to say to make you feel much better because I feel exactly the same way you do. My husband of 20 yrs, Rick, passed away 3 yrs ago at age 45. His death was very unexpected and even now I have to consciously make myself breathe. I keep wondering what I will wake up from this horrible nightmare. I also lost my mom just a few months later just as unexpectedly. I still feel like it was all just yesterday. I have not slept in our bed one single time since my husband's passing. I never say I "lost" my husband and mom because I did not "lose" them, GOD decided it was their time but not mine. I don't have any living. My baby girl died in 1992 then I had to have a full hysterectomy so I couldn't have more children. All I know to say is that GOD is the only reason I am able to keep breathing. Have you heard Shania Twain's song that says, "It only hurts when I'm breathing. My heart only hurts when its beating"? Well, thats how I feel all the time. I guess we can both wollow in our grief together. I would love for you to email me at chloe.damar@aol.com....Chloe
- At 11:10am on December 3, 2012, Amanda Ab said…
- Hi Anette,
I hope you are doing ok. Holiday time is here and it just feels lost and overwhelmed. Winter makes me sad and lonely on top of being heartbroken. I am trying my hardest to kedp moving forward for my son but there is still many times I feel this sense of deep sadness abd continue to ask Why?
My husbands murder has been in Court proceedings and that has just made us re-live everything all over as if it was just the very first day. I hope all goes well with holiday season.
- At 12:13pm on January 17, 2012, Amanda Ab said…
Hi Annette,
Just stopping by to say hello. How are you?
- At 11:36pm on December 11, 2011,
Brenda Ann said… Annette,
I was happy to see that you accepted my friendship request. I am sorry that you are in such pain. Do you believe in God and the Bible? Would it be ok to share some comfort from the scriptures?
I will keep you in my prayers...
Brenda
- At 5:26pm on October 10, 2011, Amanda Ab said…
- Annette, I ask God and myself the same question you do, very often. Although, it has just been months, it feels like an eternity that I have not seen my husband, or talked to him. With holidays approaching, and winter coming, very sad days are coming. I now miss him more than ever. I too, try to find a purpose, every single day for me to get up and do okay for the day. And somehow i make it through, because our son needs me, but at the end of the day, I too, need my husband!!..
- At 1:15pm on October 10, 2011, Annette Dominguez said…
I keep asking God how much longer will I feel adrift. I know God says He has a plan and a purpose for my life. Right now I think it is just to be here for my kids and hope that I am right. But it is hard to focus on that when the love of my life is not here. I wonder how long it will be before I can look at his pictures without crying. I want to remember the good things most of the time but I miss him so much and it just makes me cry. Time is supposed to make it hurt less but that hasn't happened yet either. I cry out to God everyday for comfort and peace. I still wake up with anxiety attacks in the morning. I know nothing will ever be "normal" again but I sure would like to feel better.
- At 7:44am on October 7, 2011,
Ammy said… - Hi Annette, just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you this morning. I pray that your day will bring you some comfort. Every little reprieve is a blessing that helps give us strength to cope when the loneliness and pain becomes unbearable. Be gentle with yourself and know that you are in my prayers.
- At 10:26pm on October 3, 2011, Lorna said…
I will pray for you too... I know the feeling of sadness of being alone. Even though I am raising two grandchildren, I still am lost without my husband. Its been 7 months now and some days are easy and then the nights are the worst. Everyone says to just get on with your life and I want to scream at them and say HOW!!!!!!! and then there is all the people saying these are the stages of grief!!!! I am very fortunate to have lots of friends and family for support as I hope you do too. All we can do is stay strong in our love for God to get us through.. Take care of you.. do something for yourself that will make you feel good!
- At 10:32pm on June 18, 2011, Lorna said…
- Hi Annette, I was reading all your comments and it helps me know that i am not alone. My husband died 4 months ago from a sudden cardiac arrest and I had do CPR till medics got here and with two lil ones cryin.. never forget it, he made it to the hospital, they sd I saved his life only to have to let him go two days later. I find myself crying alot too. I work and take care of my grandkids but not having him here esp at night is the hardest. Somedays I think can i just get one day where I wont cry.... I know everyone says its normal but I hate it!!!!! I feel so alone sometimes and I talk to him alot but end up crying more. Now tomorrow is fathers day anfd I know his daughter is going to have such a hard time, I want to call but afraid of what to say.. I miss him so muchand I know she does tooo.
- At 10:15pm on May 31, 2011, Jillian Margaret Dalziel said…
- Hello Annette, just checking in to see how you are doing? I hope you are finding it a little easier each day - if not, then tomorrow will be better. Small things and positive thoughts help I find and I am trying to see something good in each day - whether it is a smile from a stranger or just a beautiful birdsong. The sadness and crying will ease with time and you will be left with lovely memories but always you will remember your husband with love. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Monique posted a discussionFather's Day
It is very hard to see fathers day approaching. It makes me feel really sad. It is a wonderful Day we would share with Dad...Out door BBQ and it was a full day of fun and laughter. Its so very hard to know it is coming soon and i can no longer share it with my DadSee More
Monique left a comment for jb (jo)"Hey,Jo
dropping in to say hello, thanks for sharing your pics.
I really like the ones " I love my Dad " nice!"
anna l. commented on anna l.'s blog post Such sadness"Thanks Jo, it is very hard to go into the building every day. We do not have to move him. They decided since he was in a room at the end of the hall they would leave him there. They moved his room mate out but left the bed there…"
TThuy NTran commented on TThuy NTran's group Everlasting Memories ECards"Love ur pics Jo. Thx for sharing"
jb (jo) commented on TThuy NTran's group Everlasting Memories ECards"ty moniqe im plesed i fond thm on thee image webite wish i thnk we r adcited to "
jb (jo) replied to Dennis C.'s discussion When Someone You Love Dies"ty plesed u lik thm
it will be grt wen ther is no mor death no more pain or ill helth
no more tornadaso or earh qrakes or huricans
no more terisams wish is getbng realy bad "
Vasanthi S left a comment for B. Milt"B Milt,
I know how sad you would be feeling and how frustrating it is to also go on for job interviews at such a time.But you hang in there cos some of us are given this challenge to understand it and rise above it which can only be done with…"
Hunter_Xoxo replied to Ellen Paciella's discussion the loneliness is getting worse in the group Traumatic, Sudden Loss"Crazy that i can relate to all of the things being said.
It's so heartbreaking to see that so many people are hurting in the way i am. No one should ever have to go through this. May 2 was a year that i have lost my brother to a overdose.…"
B. Milt left a comment for Vasanthi S"Vasanthi
I am a teacher and placed on Administration leave before I loss mt only son. My son was shot. Now I am still fighting fir my job and unreasonable thought of my son gone. I am going on interviews and no good job offers. I had one washing…"
Dennis C. replied to Dennis C.'s discussion When Someone You Love Dies"All very BEAUTIFUL scriptures.
I do find that the only comfort I get is from Gods word the Bible.
I look forward to this:
Revelation 21:4 — And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning…"
Kimberly Hamilton commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Hello All,
I am so sorry for you all. And I know how you feel. I have been going through crisis and I want so bad to talk to Mom and ask her what I should do. I feel so stupid being a 50 yr old woman wanting her Mother. But I know there is nothing I…"
Amanda added a discussion to the group I miss my Mom!
Helping young children remember
My mom died suddenly on April 6, 2013. My 2 1/2 year old son and her simply ADORED each other. He lit up for her differently than he did for anyone else, and vice versa. I cannot adequately describe how much they loved each other, and how much I loved seeing it. My second son, who she will never meet, is due July 1.I am very bitter and sad that my children won't know this amazing woman. I know that because of his young age when she died, my oldest son probably won't remember her or how much…See More
Sofia A. Wellman posted a videoDeath as Life - Documentary Director Speaks on Death
Sofia A. Wellman speaks at her mothers memorial on death. She is the director of the documentary "Death as Life." See the trailer here: http://youtu.be/sk0-g...
Dennis C. replied to Kelli Bevel's discussion How to stop griefing"Kelli
Here is a link that takes you to a brochure entitled
"When Someone You Love Dies"
http://wol.jw.org/en/wol/d/r1/lp-e/1101994007
It's very good information. Hope it helps."
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