Remember this...KARMA is a bitch. Don´t do to others what you wouldn´t like done to you!

Here am I taking care of my life outside the crap realms of most HUMAN UNKINDNESS. You probably kniow what I think about dating...pathetic exercise, the right person will show and unless you trust God you may spend a life time trying with the wrong ones....you know how that goes. What goes around comes around. Anyhow. My dad had to travel and sent my oldest sister to the mall with me to help me buy a cell he is giving me as a gift. So although it´s an unlikely company since all the differences in the caregiving of my mother, off the mall we went. Well, we are out and about and the subject comes up. Listen my youngest sister said this older sister is going out with a long term bf or ex whatever from a sister that is now living in Australia. they have been on and off for like 20 years, and the last time she was here they got involved and she told her husband when back there. I said this is not right, you wouldn´t like if I was with your ex. Now she was betrayed and lacking support from the long term friend and sister..who is going to support her through this? So, I told her keep away from other people´s affairs and find your own. And she had a few stupid excuses and I put her in her place. Like aren´t you her sister and confident? Sister is for life, and bf and marriages can come and go. So she was basically avoiding the subject and we kept going. Today I told my father, this is going on and there is no one to support my sister in australia. He came back and apparently pulled her ear. And she messaged me saying it´s betwwen me and you. I said NOP, this is a family problem because we don[t do this to sisters. Who is supporting her now will be supporting you when this shit goes. Anyhow she is trying to make it ok as if it isn[t her sister. I said listen, it´s not going a joyful family gathering, this is not ok. Anyhow, she was not so combative, mroe trying to make her shit stick. I said well, foir what´s worth it this guy is shit to be getting between sisters and you doing this to your own sister stinks. She says shit here and there completelly under the illusion she is in love or something, when in fact she is just neing a plain jerk. Mind you the other one is married but cut contact with this one. So, this a legitimate mexican soapopera. I wonder how family gatherings ewill look like, hell on earh. I think that at one point this guy will do the same to her, get another one, maybe coisin if we are lucky. Because I am the next sistr and I am not lining up for a fucktard. I said listen...I let you take care of mother becasue your life was so rootless that you didn[´t care who you slept with, not to bring that love life sitty of your s into the family. But I wonder IF ANYONE THINKS THEY CAN BE HAPPY AT THE EXPENSE OF HURTING OWN FAMILY IN THE NAME OF IT. I told her...when she comes they will be together and you will be dumped and no one is going to be there for you. So, now I leave to god because KARMA is a bitch, and the 3 of them are worth SHIT. I think they well deserve each other, but we know where this goes...to the dumps and I am not taking sides or crying over my shoulder. I know God has the universal goodness to provide good things with better, and mean things with WORSE. SO I just hope God takes this fucktard very far very soon becasue I hate to see this much hurt spreading the family furhter apart. And I remember this sister saying that the one from australia helped her the most...well that´s a werd way to show appreciation. I think there is something to be said about LOVE, and that is´t present in the DATING SCENE at all. Love is kind and not a relplacement mode. LOVE IS KIND TO ALL. Or it´s not love. And the love that costs greater love will find an odd end and trust me on that one...I don´t want to see this SHIT COMING or GOING. What I want to see is family together. And fucktards gone. That would be my wish. Regardless....love is not like inheritance, from sister to sister. And not this fast after one is gone. ANd FOR WHO CARES TO LISTEN HOW THIS SHOULD GO...if she consulted the sister if going out with the ex would be ok, I wouldn´t be doing this post. What we have here is one sister in marriage crisis and the hand she reached out stabbed her in her back. So much that the one in australia cut contact other than mother. THAT IS THE VERY SAD PART OF IT. Even idf the jerk went for good... she gave up on the sister that most helped her. They will continue to be stranged. The longer this shit lasts, the more damage between the LOVE OF SISTERS. Is it worth it? Looking from the outsidde its cristal clear...OF COURSE NOT. REAL LOVE DOESN´T COME HRTING SISTERS AND BACKSTABBING....they come much different and in a much more respectful manner. So for those in teh crazy life of dating wasting precious feelings at the expense of a sex thrill or twisted version of love....I think they must be reminded that tomorrow will come when this one going back and fourth to another city will eb EQUALLY REPLACED. Sad but TRUTH. And that is the sad part. Wher dating is just casul sex more or less reminding that feelings may grow some,,,but they are all disposable the very same manner they went in. THere isn´t any where there wasn´t any before sex. This is rebound looking crazy in the craxy eyes if who LOVES ILLUSIONS. Love is much different and not shallow....SIGHT. SOme people will ahve to find out in their own away that sex doesn´t build love, love builds into intimacy in a very respectful way of all parts, not from body to body between sisters and with no time barely in between. In the end...I feel SORRY FOR BOTH. THat traded sisterhood for a crappy man that isn´t deservig of neither one. Sight. Women...wise up!

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