Its the anniversary of steve's death today, but nobody really knew, so wasn't acknowledged by anyone but me, I am tired of grieving alone. Babs

Views: 49

Comment

You need to be a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community to add comments!

Join Online Grief Support - A Social Community

Comment by Emily Elizee on August 18, 2011 at 1:06pm

Hi,

 

Sorry you feel that way!!! Oh my that must be such a horrible feeling!!! But we are here, but I know sometimes you feel like you need human contact, thats how I feel these days!! I call my mom to talk but it does not seem like enough, its just an empty feeling!! Steve is around you Babs, you are not alone!!

Comment by Crystal (BluSkyy) on August 17, 2011 at 9:45pm

Hi,

      I know how it feels like to grieve and its the must painful pain ever..to me thats how it feels..Iam also going thru this alone and it feels like a nitemare.. Iam also here if you need to talk...

Comment by Babs on August 17, 2011 at 4:25am
Anna, thank you so much for your comment, it meant a lot, Thank you for your understanding, I sure hope that you have TONS and TONS of support on the 1st of July and all the other days of the year, its so important to have some support and acknowledgement when you are grieving. I think it is very hard even for those who have suffered the loss of many people very close to them to understand what it is like to grieve with no support or acknowledgement (not allowed to go to funeral etc). Grieving is lonely for all as it is our own pain that nobody can share but it can be made even lonlier in some circumstances. Sorry waffled on there, Anyhow what I really just wanted to say was a big thank you and am here if you need to share. lots of love. Babs
Comment by anna l. on August 16, 2011 at 5:11pm

I am really sorry you are going through this alone.  I can NOT imagine getting through next July 1st without a ton of support!  That really sucks for you but I hope being able to post here and have people care is helping you a little.

 

Latest Activity

Jennifer replied to Robin H's discussion Lost my Partner who wasn't my partner in the group Being the Other Woman/Other Man
"Welcome to the group.  I lost my partner on February 5th this year, so it's still pretty raw for me too.  Reading through your story really touched a chord with me.  Like you, I didn't think I would ever find a group like…"
Thursday
Jennifer joined Cathy Richardson's group
Thumbnail

Being the Other Woman/Other Man

This is for anyone who has lost their lover to death and you were the other woman/other man in their life. We have to grieve in silence. I can't find any support groups and feel like I'm the only one going through this situationSee More
Thursday
Jennifer and William Gardener are now friends
Thursday
dream moon JO B commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"i miss mom so mush i do"
Apr 11
Susan E Marshall commented on Susan E Marshall's photo
Thumbnail

My husband

"Thanks, Rosie. (I have memory problems and forgot about this site. I'm just seeing this now. April 6th)"
Apr 6
Natasha updated their profile
Apr 5
Angie Rowland joined Rita-Cecile's group
Thumbnail

LESBIAN ..GAY 2 SPIRITED loss and grief

Anyone who has lost their gay partner..soon finds that there may be a few things that are different...such as sorting through things and feeling like an intruder because it is also family stuff etcSee More
Apr 3
Speed Weasel posted a blog post

Assumptions

An assumption is an unexamined belief: what is thought to be true without ever really realizing that we think in that way. For better or worse, understanding starts with entertaining the idea that something is true.  Truly profound thoughts generally come to light from the relaxation of these (flawed) assumptions.  This is where I find myself today...Perhaps, one of the more significant drivers to pushing down the loss and grief at the time of the accident, ignoring it and mindlessly walking…See More
Mar 13

© 2024   Created by Ninja.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service