Robert Tinsley
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i cant tell you about me right now because im changeing so rapidly up down up down iam going to be father again on or around the 15th of june im really nervous and excited but i think i am feeling guilty about looking forward to the new baby anyone with any thoughts would be greatly appr.
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I lost my life two years ago see i was on the road moving trailer houses for fema to the tornado vics in kansas and had preveousley been in mississippi for the katrina vics i was supposed to have picked my kids up that weekend from there grandmothers house but got tangeled up do to my father-in-law trying to reuse a permit i could not make it to pick them up that night there was a fire that took my babies from me i never knew the pain one person could feel i had a rough life as a kid and never really got to enjoy my childhood but after my children came i found great joy in leting them have the childhood i felt like every kid should have we fished walked talked played cuddled everyday we could and when the state police came to tell me at the truckstop i was at i drove straight to the hospital praying that they werent hurt to badly when ibeen arrived they told me that my daughter and oldest son had died of smoke inhalation and my baby boy was flown to childrens in little rock i turned and drove straight there my 6 year old babyboy had been burned on 96% of his body in 4th degree burns and that there was nothing they could do i had a choice to make and i didnot want to because it ment my son was going to die i had them pull the plug on the lifesupport and i stayed with him until he was passed it was the most awful day of my life then about nine months later i had a little angel named haylee she was born with osteogenisis type 2 and i almost lost my faith but god,jesus interveined and laid hands on me im still here and working on myself !!!!!!!!!
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dear friend i hope that your other friends know what a caring and loving person u are i think that it is wonderful you became such a caring friend thru the net i would think it might be a little easyier because of not having a personal contact with this person but it gives me great hope that i may find a friend that i can be that close with over the net may god bless you and lend u some comfort in your time of need (((((hugs)))))

Posted on May 2, 2009 at 7:45am — 3 Comments

bomb on my chest

my family is probably the most messed up in the world well i guess everyone feels that way.I have a sisiter who is an alcholic and a brother who is a meth addict i care for my bed ridden grandmother and my uncle who has cancer and aa stroke in a wheelchair with no help from his kids and my mother who just lost my dad and is going thru the grief process as well as batteling both of my siblings for what they feel like they deserve.then after all this in my life i have to find time to grieve… Continue

Posted on April 24, 2009 at 12:24pm

truth

truth is this everything you ever done good or bad and you know everything about yourself after a loss of magnitude you were never willing to except you or i should say I have great difficulty inthinking of everything i ever could have done different its to late so it just seems to build on your mind and weigh you down maybe it should have been different but it wasnt so is that my fault or just life u tell me

Posted on April 23, 2009 at 4:22pm — 2 Comments

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At 3:11pm on June 12, 2009, Ann Edmondson said…
Robert, I am so sorry to hear about the death of your little ones. To be so young and to deal with this type of pain can at times feel unbareable. As mere mortals we cannot understand why God let's things like this happen. I will pray for you and your family with all my heart. Yet, I also rejoice on the birth of your new child.
At 9:32pm on May 7, 2009, Kar said…
Thank you for your kind words, You have had so much pain, - my deepest sympathy's. Congrats on the new baby.
At 8:40pm on April 20, 2009, Diana, Grief Recovery Coach said…
When a child dies, parents are forever changed. I'm so sorry for your losses. Guilt is a normal reaction. Allow yourself to express your feelings. It may help to share pictures of your children and write about your feelings in the blog/journal feature. (((((hugs))))) and congrats on the impending birth.
 
 
 

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